Bathi umsebenzi owenzayo okanye ufuna ukukwenza, ukuzisa ukwaneliseka kokuziphatha nokuphathekayo, kufuneka wenze okuthandayo. Ngaba kunjalo? Ngelishwa, akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa konke kusezandleni zakho; Into ephambili kukuqonda indlela yokufumana into eyintandokazi ebomini.
Akunzima loo nto
Kwenzeka ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukwenza okuthile, kubonakala ngathi awukwazi nto kwaye awukwazi nto, kodwa akunjalo:
- akukho bantu abangenalo i-mediocre, ngokokuqala kufuneka ukhumbule into oyaziyo ukuba uyayenza njani, kwaye ubhale phantsi phantsi kwiphepha lephepha. Ingaba yintsimbi, ulwazi lwe-pedagogy kunye neengqondo, ukukwazi ukucoceka ngokukhawuleza nangokufanelekileyo, ukuqonda ubugcisa bokuyila okanye ukusebenza novavanyo, njl.
- Ngoku, ukuze uqonde indlela yokufumana ishishini oyithandayo, kufuneka uhambe nje uluhlu oluyithandayo nento ongayenza ngayo;
- ekugqibeleni, ukususela kwiluhlu lwamatyala kufuneka ukhethe "uninzi kakhulu".
Ngoku ufanele uziqonde wena: ukususela kwizinto eziseleyo kwaye uthanda, unokwenza ntoni "umphefumlo", oko kukuthi, mahhala, okanye ukhethe isakhono esinokukunceda ufumane imali . Ngexesha elifanayo, khumbula ukuba yiziphi izakhono onakho eziza kukunceda kule nto.
Ukuba ungathandabuzeki ubuchule bakho, cela abahlobo bakho, izalamane, abaqhelana nabo, kwaye banokukunceda ukuba ufumane ezo talente nje ungayithobeli. Ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuthetha ukuba uyazi ukwenza okulungileyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, nangona sele usuqonda indlela yokufumana into oyithandayo, ukwesaba ukungakwazi ukuthetha nabantu abangaziwayo, ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli okanye ukwesaba ukuba izakhono zakho aziyi kuba njengezobuchule njengoko ufuna, kwaye aziyi kufunwa, ziyeke kwaye zisoyike. Iingcali zengqondo zithi le ngqondo ayivumeli ukuba ihambe kwindawo ebizwa ngokuba yintuthuzelo yendawo, xa kungekho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo kwaye ixhalabele, kuba ishishini lakho liyingxaki. Kodwa ukuba uthe wagqiba ukutshintsha ubomi bakho, ungesabi ubunzima- impumelelo iya kuqinisekiswa.