Umnqweno wokufezekisa iinjongo zobomi obumiselweyo inomntu kunoma ubani, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo uya kuba yinzuzo yangempela. Okumangalisa kukuba, ngezinye iinkqubo iingcali zeengqondo zibona ukuba luncedo ekuphuhlisweni komntu okhuphuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi.
Yintoni inomdla?
Ngokuxhomekeke kwinto inzululwazi eyenza ngayo ingcamango, ithola izinto ezintsha. Ukuba enye ingqinisiso ekungqineni kokuqala okubi, inzala yodwa ayiyiyo into ebalulekileyo. Inokuvulwa ngenye yeendlela ezilandelayo:
- Ukuzama ukufumana inzuzo kunye nenzuzo. I-Socialology, njengengoma yolwazi malunga neenkqubo kuluntu, ayivumelani nesifiso esinomdla, esichazwe ngaphezu kwezinto zokuziphatha.
- Ukungakwazi okanye ukungafuni ukwenza okulungileyo kulula, ngaphandle kwemivuzo yenyama. Ukuzondla kunxulumene nokunciphisa isidingo sokwaneliseka ngokuziphatha ngokuvunywa kunye nokubulela ngomlomo.
- Isizathu sokwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho ngumbulo, ukubulala, ukukhwabanisa.
Ukuzimela-ingqondo
Inzululwazi, ukutyhila iinkqubo zomsebenzi wolwazi lwabantu, ubiza umnqweno wobuqu oluphezulu kakhulu lobugovu , kuba ubuncinane kanye kanye ebomini umntu ngamnye uvakalelwa ngaloo ndlela. Umntu onomdla ngumntu ohlala exhoba le-baser unqwenela ukufumana ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza. I-Psychology ayikwazi ukulwa nokuqonda, kodwa le nzululwazi inokunika umntu umfutho wokulikhusela kumlinge wayo.
Ungaziqonda njani iinjongo zobugovu?
Umthetho wobugebengu kunye neengqondo zinkampani ezimbini zesayensi ezaziyo impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokuqwalasela iinjongo zamagunya. Iingcali ngezizathu, ezivumela ukuba bahlule, bancede benze umsebenzi wabo. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abahlala bulungile, kunye neenjongo zokuzicingela kunokuba sisihlandlo sokuthetha nengcali yengqondo okanye isohlwayo sejele. Ukuqonda ukuba umntu wayezimela ngokwaloo nto okanye loo nto, izinto ezintathu ziya kunceda:
- isimo sengqondo sakhe kwisiganeko;
- iinjongo ezamshukumisela ukuba enze isenzo;
- ubudlelwane kunye nento.
Indlela yokuzibonela ngokuzithandela?
Yiva ubuqili be-interlocutor okanye isihlobo siya kunceda intuition kunye namava okuphila. Umntu ozikhuphayo, nangona enyanzelekile ukuba axhumane nomnye angathanda ukufezekisa into ethile, kodwa ngenxa yokuba akanakonwaba ngolu qhagamshelwano, uya kuvumela ukuphazamiseka:
- ukuguquka kwemizwelo ebukhali;
- ukungafuni ukuya kumnxibelelwano othe tye;
- ukunconywa okungakumbi kunye nokunyelisa.
Ukuzimela emtshatweni
Kunzima kunzima kwimeko yokuphila, umntu osebenzayo ufuna ukulungisa ngokukhawuleza. Umtshato kunye nomlingane osisityebi okanye onamandla ungenye yezixhobo ezilula ukufumana inkululeko yemali, nangona iindleko zomntu siqu. Umntu onomdla angaba yindoda nomfazi, kodwa isondo ngokufanelekileyo sisoloko sityholwa ukubala xa udala intsapho. Kulindeleke ukuba kuloo mtshato iingxaki ezimbini ezibalulekileyo ziza kuba:
- Ukuzonwabisa okuhlangeneyo . Xa esi sibini sidibaniswa ngemali kuphela, asikwazi ukuzidibanisa kunye nezikhetho zomculo, izinto ezithandwayo kunye nemibono kwimpilo yomnye nomnye.
- Ulwabelana ngesondo . Ukuzondla akunakuphoqa amaqabane ukuba abe nefuthe kunye nokwaneliseka embhedeni.
Ukuzimela kwi-Orthodoxy
Unqulo lobuKristu lubhekisela kwisono semali-thandana neyesono eziqhelekileyo nezingozi . Ababingeleli bakholelwa ukuba uluntu lunetyhefu yinkcubeko yokusetyenziswa, ngoko abantu abangenayo ababoni ukuba bashukunyiswa yimali kunye nokubaluleka kwabo. Ukuzimela kuyayicima intsindiso yomphefumlo, ngoko iOrthodoxy icebisa ukulwa nayo ngeendlela ezilandelayo:
- Indlela yokuphila yobomi . Ukuthobeka kwimpahla, ukutya kunye nokuzonwabisa kuya kunceda ukugcina imali kuphela, kodwa nokukhuthaza ukugqithisa okubangelwa ukugqitha kwabo.
- Ukuqulunqwa kweempawu ezichanekileyo kubantwana . Ukuba abantwana babengenakuvuyiswa njengabazali abafakela kubo uthando lokuphumelela kunye nobutyebi, kufuneka bavuselelwe ukuhlonipha nokuthanda.
- Ingxoxo kunye nabafundisi benkolo . Ukuthetha nombingeleli kunye nabantu abanomdla ngokholo kuya kunika umvakalelo wobunye kunye nenkxaso.