Ngaba uzibona ungumntu obalulekileyo, kubalulekile ukuba akukho mntu unokukwazi ukujamelana nayo ngaphandle koncediswa? Njengomgaqo, le yindlela abantu abaneCWs abangaphezulu. Mhlawumbi oku kuya kubonakala kunengcikivo kubo, kodwa ukuziphatha okunjalo kubuhlungu, ngoko kuyimfuneko kulabo bazama ukufezekisa ukuqonda ukuba yiyiphi i-CSV.
I-CSW ichithwe njani?
Kungenzeka ukuba uhlala udibanisa kwi-intanethi isicatshulwa esinjalo, esasisondele ekubhekiseleleni kumntu onganeliseki okanye isidalwa. Kuthetha ntoni i-CSW umbuzo onengqiqo kulabo bafuna ukwazi ukuba ngubani na olandelayo kule ncwadi ezintathu. Ingqiqo yokubaluleka kokubalulekayo yinto ekuthethwa ngayo kwesi sibinzana sibonakala ngathi. Ezinye iingcali zongezelela ngegama elingento.
Umntu onomdla we-CSV ogqithiseleyo uyamkela kwaye uyasebenza kwizenzo kunye namazwi okugxeka avela kuye kwabanye. Abantu abanjalo bavame ukuvakalelwa ngokunyaniseka, ukuthobeka nokuzigxeka. Ziye zibonakaliswe ngokukhawuleza nobudlova. Kwaye bonke ngenxa yokuba bazibona behluke ngokuthelekiswa nabanye.
Ingqiqo yokuzibaluleka - ingqondo
Abantu abaninzi abathi, ngee-degrees ezahlukahlukeneyo, banesimo sengqondo esinjalo, abanako ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo imeko yabo yengqondo. Bathembele ngokupheleleyo ukuba indlela yabo yobomi iyona nto ichanekileyo, ngoko abaphulaphuli iingcebiso kubantu abangaziwayo, kuquka nezihlobo zabo. Ukwanda kwe-CSV kubonakalisa umntu njengomntu ongalonwabo, phambi kwayo yonke imida kunye nemida kufuneka ibonakaliswe.
I-CSV yabasetyhini ivela ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunesondo esomeleleyo. Kwaye oku kuqondakala kakuhle. Ibhinqa ngumama wakhe nomfazi, owathi, ngokubaninzi, kufuneka agcine yonke into phantsi kolawulo lwakhe. Ngenxa yeso sizathu, abaninzi abafazi bakholelwa ukuba xa bengayenzi oku okanye umsebenzi wendlu, ihlabathi liphela liya kumisa. Ukongezelela, abaninzi abafazi baqhele ukukholelwa ukuba zonke iintshukumo zabo azilungile, ngoko banqwenela ukwenza ishishini kwaye bengenakho ukubeka iingcebiso zabo, ezivela ngaphandle zibukeka njengombono womnye umntu.
CSW - kukuhle okanye kubi?
Iyintoni i-CSW, esele siyifumene. Ngoku sifanele siqonde ukuba yintoni indima yalo mgangatho wobuninzi bomntu wobomi. Abaninzi bethu banokuqiniseka ukuba umxholo wokuzibaluleka ngokwawo ubaluleke kakhulu . Nangona kunjalo, lo uluvo oluphosakeleyo. Xa uvakalelwa isithunzi sichaphazelekayo, kuthetha ukuba umntu ufuna ngenjongo yokuhlambalaza ukwenzela ukucaphukisa. Nangona kwimeko ye-CSV, sithetha ngokugxeka, okuxhalabisayo kuphela ukuzithanda umntu kunye nokuzikhukhumeza, okungazange kuthathwa njengento efanelekileyo yokuziphatha .
Ukulahlekelwa ingqiqo yokuzixabisa, siba ngumngcipheko, kuba akukho mpendulo yomzwelo kumagama okanye kwizenzo. Ukungabikho kwe-CSF kunika umntu umntu ukuzithemba, kuba xa siphelile imifanekiso engcamango, asinanto yokulahleka. Ukuqhubela phambili kubangaphambili, kuyacaca ukuba i-CSV eyongezelelekileyo ayikho into efanelekileyo yokuziphatha.
CBC Syndrome
Kunzima kakhulu ukulandelela ukuphuhliswa kwalo mgangatho womlingiswa. Iingcali ezifanelekileyo zibonisa i-CSV evelele kwi-manifest "ye-syndrome esebenza kakuhle", oko kukuthi, umntu oqhele ukujonga kuphela ngombono wakhe kwaye kungekho mntu. Abantu abanjalo, njengomthetho, banokuzikhukhumeza ngokweqile, i-hamovatostyu kwaye ngexesha elifanayo inqaba ethile, echazwe kakhulu: ngenxa yokungabi nongqondo komntu osondeleyo, abantu abanjalo bathanda ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi kwixesha elide kwaye banandipha ubuchule babo nokuphakama kwabanye.
Iimpawu ze-CSW
Qinisekisa ukuba umntu unomdla wokuzibaluleka okanye awukho, akulula. Iingcali zenzululwazi zithatha iingcamango zazo, ngokubhekiselele kuloo bantu abane-CSV baziphathe ngokubhekiselele kwimeko elandelayo:
- Ukuxilongwa kwesifo . Yiyo imeko xa umntu ezama ukunyanzela imbono yakhe nembono yehlabathi kuwo wonke umntu.
- Iingxabano . Ukuhlala uxabana kunye nabalingane kunye nabahlobo, ngexesha apho umntu one-CSW ephezulu, uzama ukubonisa ubungqina bakhe, ngelixa ekhokela zonke iintlobo zezinye iinkqubo, ngamanye amaxesha ezingenabulungisa, ubungqina.
- Ukulungiswa . Ukukhulisa ukuzithemba ngokuzibonakalisa ngeyona nto ibhetele, mhlawumbi engekho.
- Ukutsala abanye abantu . Enye indlela yokuphakamisa ukuzithemba, umnqweno wokuba ubekho phakathi kweziganeko. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza into ethile iya kwenzeka ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba - oku kuza kukuwa kwehlabathi lonke.
- Ingqiqo ecacileyo yokuphindezela . Kule meko, umntu uqala ukuphindezela ngenxa yokugxeka kwakhe. Kwaye nangona ekhutshelwe kwimeko, sonke isohlwayo esifanayo, nokuba sisicatshulwa okanye sisemzimbeni, asinakuphetshwa.
- Ukuthinteka kwiintsilelo zabanye abantu . Oku mhlawumbi umzekelo obalaseleyo wokubonakaliswa kwe-CSW. Ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yezinye iimpazamo zabantu, abo bantu bazama ukunyuka inyathelo eliphezulu leenyawo kwaye babonise ukuba bangenakulungiswa.
Ingqiqo yokuzixabisa - indlela yokulahla?
Iingcaciso zento eyi-CSV ayaneleyo ukuba ilahle le nto ayikho impawu esemgangathweni. Udinga ukwazi indlela yokuhlangabezana nale ngxaki. Xa i-QSW iphuma esikolweni, amanyathelo kufuneka athathwe ukuba angabandakanyi. Ewe, ukuba unako ukuphawula esi siphene kuwe. Kubi kakhulu ukuba uqinisekile ngokuthe tye. Kule meko, kungcono ukuthobela ingcebiso kubantu abasondeleyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo abayi kucebisa okubi. Ngoko, ngokubonisa ukufana phakathi kokuziphatha kwakho kunye nemimiselo engentla, unokukwazi ukubona ngokucacileyo ukuba uye wanyusa i-CSW okanye cha.
Indlela yokunciphisa iCBC?
Ukukrazula le mgangatho yinqanaba eliphambili lokuphila ngokuzeleyo, apho kungekho ukuzingca nokugxeka. Inqanaba le-CSV linokuncitshiswa lula:
- bhala ngaphandle kokunyanzelisa izinto ezintle nezimbi zobunjani bakho;
- cinga, kodwa ngokutsho kwesazela sakho, uhola ubomi;
- ubhale phantsi amagama abo babethatywayo kwaye bahlambalazwa ngamagama amabi;
- uzama ukwamukela ihlabathi elitsha;
- Yenza isimo sengqondo esitsha kuwe nakwabanye;
- ukubheja kunye nawe ngokwakho utshintsho kwikamva elikufutshane (lo mkhuba usebenza kakhulu).
Indlela yokuphakamisa iCBC?
Ngokuqhelekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuhlangabezana nabantu abangenayo ingqiqo yokubaluleka kwabo. Kubonakala ngathi oku kufuneka kuvuyiswe, kuba akukho ziqhayiya, akukho nto, akukho nto egocentrism. Nangona kunjalo, akukho konke okulula. Ukugqithiswa kwe-CSV kunokuzisa umntu iingxaki ezingekho ngaphantsi kokugqithisa kwesi simpawu somntu, ngoko kufuneka ufunde amacebo anceda ukuphakamisa umqondo wakho wokubaluleka.
Indlela yokwandisa i-CSV:
- uzame ukuhlala kwindawo ekhokelela kwimpikiswano (xa unesiqiniseko ngokupheleleyo ekunene kwakho);
- ziphathe ngokuzithemba ngakumbi;
- Ungesabi ukuvakalisa ukungaxolisi nabanye abantu abathi, ngombono wakho, abaphosakeli kule nto okanye kuloo meko;
- buyisa ubungqina bakho ngamanani, amagama abantu abadumileyo-oku kuza kukutyhila kwinqanaba elingcono;
- indumiso yeenkokheli.