Abantu abaninzi bacinga ngendlela yokuyeka ukuthetha amanga, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuyeka ukuthetha amanga nomntu othandayo. Emva kwakho konke, lixoki, ngokuqhelekileyo luyinto engabalulekanga kwaye ibonakala ingenacala, nto leyo ibangela ukungaboni ngaso ludlelwane.
Indlela yokuyeka ukuthetha amanga-iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo
Okokuqala kufuneka ufumane isizathu sokuxoka kwamanga. Isizathu sinokuba:
- umnqweno wokubonakala ubhetele;
- umnqweno kuzo zonke iindleko zokuphumeza umphumo oyifunayo;
- umnqweno wokuzithuthuzela.
Ukuba isibonakaliso siboniswe, ungaqhubela phambili kwisinyathelo esilandelayo. Qinisekisa isizathu sokufuna ukuyeka ukuthetha amanga. Eyona nto ibangela ngakumbi ngakumbi, yinto elula ukulwa nobuxoki. Ngokuqhelekileyo inkuthazo yokunqamba amanga kukuba:
- umnqweno wokuziva uqobo;
- umnqweno wokusondeza, kwaye ngoko-ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nabanye;
- unomnqweno wokubuyisela ukuthembela kwangaphambili kwezihlobo.
Okulandelayo - sizenzele ukufakela ukuyeka ukuxoka. Ukunyangwa kwamanga okugula kukufuna amandla amakhulu nokuzithiba, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufuna, unokutshintsha rhoqo.
Ukongeza, unokufumana ama-comrades-kwizandla-abantu abaye bawela unyango ngokulala. Inketho efanelekileyo iya kuba yintetho nengcali yeengqondo kunye nabathandekayo abaya kuxhasa le njongo kwaye bancede ekulwa nokulwa. Ukongeza, namhlanje kunamacandelo amanxaso amaninzi, aquka abantu abaneengxaki ezifanayo. Ukutyelela amaqela anjalo kuya kunceda ukuhlangabeza iinjongo ezibekwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula, ngenxa yeluleko kubantu abanamava ekuxazululeni ingxaki enjalo, abantu.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuchonga imeko apho ihlala ihlala khona, kwaye ufunde ukuwaphepha, okanye, ukufunda ukuzinqoba kunye nokuphepha ukuxoka. Ukuba ubuxoki buvela ngenxa yokukhathazeka ngento ethile - izinga lempatho, isimo sezenhlalakahle okanye amabakala esikolweni - kufuneka uzame ukulahla le ngxaki kuqala.
Ungayiyeka njani ukuxoka kwabantu?
Ukuba ubuxoki bujoliswe kubantu abathile-abazali okanye ngabahlobo, kufuneka ufumane isizathu sokuba ukwesaba ukuthetha inyaniso. Ukuba akunjalo
Ukuba sithetha ngokuhlala sixelela wonke umntu inyaniso, kuyafaneleka ukuba wenze ukugcinwa - akunakwenzeka. Inkohliso ayiyinyani, kwaye ayisoloko iyinyaniso, nokuba yintoni na, iyinto efanelekile. Kukho ubuxoki obusindisayo, obulungileyo kunye nenjongo yokungazibandezeli kummelwane wommelwane.
Ngokubanzi, kukho imiba emininzi enzima kakhulu ukuyijonga ngokupheleleyo. Ukuxoka ngokuqinisekileyo kuyingozi, kodwa ucinge ngokucokisekileyo nje kuphela ukuba ubuxoki buba yintsholongwane kunye nokuxhomekeke kwabanye - ubuxoki ngenxa yobuxoki.