Esinye isazi senzululwazi sake sathi: "Inyaniso ephakathi kwemilenze ingumgangatho, kwaye phakathi kweendlebe isini." Ngeminyaka emibili, abantwana baqala ukuqaphela ubume babo besini, kwaye ngexesha lexesha elivisayo, ukuphakama kobuninzi bobulili buwa, ngenxa yoko umntu onempilo okanye ongenakuzimela.
Ubani ubulili bomntu?
Musa nje ukuba yindoda okanye ibhinqa, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana, kodwa nayo iziphatha ngokufanelekileyo, igqoke, ibe nemilinganiselo ethile, imilinganiselo, imilinganiselo - konke oku kubeka ubungqina besini. Kwaye ke, kuvela ngesiseko semfundo, kwinkqubo yentlalo, ukunxibelelana nehlabathi elijikelezile. Akunakutsholwa ukuba ubume besini buyabonwa, buchaphazeleka kwaye bufana-bufana nokuqonda, iingcamango, ngegama, zikhoyo kuthi ngamnye.
Ngeke kubekho ukuthetha ukuba izalamane ezisondeleyo zentsana zichaphazela ukubunjwa ngokufanelekileyo kwezesini kwaye okokuqala, ngabazali. Amantombazana afunda ukuba ngumfazi kunye nomzekelo womama wabo. Ukongezelela, ngabazali, nakuba bangazi kakuhle, ngubani ofundisa abantwana babo ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda kunye nomfazi kumzekelo wesimo sengqondo sakhe kumlingane, iqabane.
Iintlobo zobunjani bobulili
Ngamnye wethu, kwinqanaba elithile, bobabini nabasetyhini bazibonakalisa ngokwabo. Ngokusekelwe kulolu lwazi, iindidi ezilandelayo zesazisi ziyaziwa:
- ezingabonakaliyo - iimpawu zesintu kunye namabhinqa azibonakaliswa kakuhle;
- izilwanyana - izidalwa zendoda zibaluleke kakhulu (ubugwenxa, ukuqinisekiswa, ukuzimela);
- Ubhinqa-obuntombi bubusa, umnqweno wokubonisa uthando kumhlaba ojikelezayo, umnqweno wokuba ngumgcini wekhaya;
- kunye ne-androgynous - kukho imilinganiselo yamadoda kunye namabhinqa.
Iingxaki zobume besini
Ukuchithwa kobuni bobubi akukho nto
Ubulili besifo se-dysphoria sinokubangelwa utshintsho lwe-intrauterine, impembelelo yonyango lwe-hormone kwindlela yokuphumelela yokukhulelwa.
Kuze kube yimhla, ukhetho olulodwa lokufumana unyango oluyimpumelelo yesifo sobuni lubhekwa njengento yokuguqula isondo okanye ukusetyenziswa kwezidandlululo.