Uvelwano kwisengqondo ngumbono onzima kwaye unemixholo eninzi, oku kuthetha ukubonisa uvelwano olunzulu, oluphelela ekuziqhelweni ngokupheleleyo komnye umntu. Ukuba ngethuba le ngxoxo umntu unako ukuphelela ngokupheleleyo, kuzo zonke iifolthi zifumana iimvakalelo ezifanayo kunye nomnxibelelwano wakhe, oku kuthetha ukuba unamandla okuba novelwano.
Uvelwano ngonxibelelwano
Akubona wonke umntu unengqondo ejulile yenceba, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka siwubonise. Imigaqo yentle efanelekileyo ifuna ukuba sibonise uvelwano-ukugubungela, ukubonakalisa indlela efanelekileyo kwingxoxo, njl. Uvelwano oluvakalayo lwenzeka rhoqo phakathi kwabantu ababini abasondeleyo kwaye luvumela ukuba uzive ukuqonda.
Kwiengqondo, kukho ezimbini iintlobo zenceba-inokuba yintliziyo nengqiqo. Uvelwano lomzwelo lukwazi ukuvelana nomntu kwinqanaba lomzimba, kwaye olu lububele obunzulu. Iintlobo zeengcinga zivumela ukuba, ngokucinga okuqiqayo, ukuqonda oko umntu akuvakalelwa ngaloo mzuzu, kwaye ngale ndlela kuvelwano lokwenene.
Xa kunxibelelwano lomhlaba, akubalulekanga ukuba luhlobo luni lovelwano olubandakanyeka ekunxibelelaneni, kodwa phakathi kwabantu ababini abasondeleyo ukukwazi ukuvalelwa imvakalelo kunomdla kakhulu, kuba ngamnye umntu ufuna ukubona kufuphi naye ngokwakhe oqonda kakuhle iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye unako uvelwano.
Izinga lovelwano
Imfesane yimbono ehlukeneyo, kwaye ngaphakathi ngokwayo inamacandelwana amathathu kumanqanaba. Cinga ngabo.
- Inqanaba lokuqala lovelwano libhekwa njengelona liphantsi. Abantu abangeli nqanaba bajoliswe kubo, abanakuze banomdla kwiingcamango neemvakalelo zabanye abantu. Ngamanye amaxesha baqinisekile ukuba baqonda abanye, kodwa uluvo lwabo alubi. Ngenxa yokugxininisa kwabo, abanako ukukwazi ukuqonda oku.
- Inqanaba lesibini lovelwano lusetyenziswa rhoqo. Uninzi lwabantu luyakunakunceda iingcamango neemvakalelo zabanye abantu kungekho rhoqo, kodwa ngezikhathi ezithile. Kukholelwa ukuba kwimibonakalo eyahlukileyo olu hlobo luphawu lwesininzi esipheleleyo sabantu.
- Inqanaba lesithathu lovelwano libhekwa njengelona liphezulu. Abantu abanjalo bahlula, kwaye kaninzi bakhunjulwa yimbali. Abantu, abaneemvakalelo zengqondo zinezinga lesithathu, baziva beziva behlala bezivala nabo, bekwazi ukuphinda bahlaziywe ngqondweni naziphi na amava, baqonde abantu bangcono kunabo. Abantu abanjalo abayikunyanzelisa uluvo lwabo kwaye banike isiluleko esisebenzisekayo-ngokwenene banikwa ngombono wombuzo. Ngabo bantu ababa ngabahlobo abakhulu kunye neengqondo.
Kulula ukuqagela ukuba uvelwano novelwano luhlobene. Sifinyelela kubantu abasiqondayo kakuhle, kwaye sibaxolise abo bangakwazi ukusiqonda. Umntu ngamnye ufuna ukujonga kufuphi nabo abahlobo abaya kumqonda, njengaye.
Ukuzibonakalisa ukuvelana
Kukho iindlela ezikhethekileyo ezikuvumela ukuba uvelise uvelwano. Makhe sinike imizekelo:
Cinga uvakalelo. Abantu bathola amakhadi apho ivakalelo ibonakaliswa khona, kwaye bemi ngeempembelelo zabo kubabukeli, kufuneka babonise ngaphandle kwamagama. Amakhadi anokubanjalo: umsindo, ukudabuka, ukwesaba, ukunyamezela, ukuvuya, ukumangaliswa, ukukhathazeka, njl. Ekupheleni kubalulekile ukuhlalutya, njengoko kwakunokwenzeka ukuqikelela, ngaphandle kokubona ubuso.
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