Iingcali zengqondo ziye zafumanisa ukuba izilwanyana zizisa uvuyo kubanikazi babo imihla ngemihla, zinceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kunye nokuba negalelo ekunyangeni kwezifo ezithile. Abanikazi bezilwanyana ezifuywayo abakwazi ukuhlupheka ngenxa yedwa, bengabandakanywa nokudandatheka kunye nokugula kwengqondo. Ngokwezibalo, kwimimandla yelizwe langaphambili le-CIS amazwe ezifuywayo zingabakho kwiintsapho zontathu. Abanikazi abaninzi beekati, izinja kunye nezinye izidalwa eziphilayo zasemakhaya zibhekisela kwizilwanyana zabo njengezilwanyana ezipheleleyo zentsapho.
Enyanisweni, kukho inamba enkulu yeengxoxo ezilungileyo malunga neenzuzo zokunxibelelana nezilwanyana. Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa zazo:
- Isilwanyana sasilungisa kakuhle abaphathi bayo. Ngenxa yokuba abazalwana bethu abasebancinci baxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kuthi, banceda ukwenza inkqubo ecacileyo yemihla ngemihla. Ukuhamba, ukondla, ukucoca izilwanyana-zonke ezi nkqubo kufuneka ziyenziwe imihla ngemihla ngexesha elithile.
- Izilwanyana zikunceda ukulwa ubunzima obunzima. Ukuhamba okusebenzayo kunye nemidlalo kunye nekati okanye inja ngumthwalo omhle kakhulu womzimba, obuye uvelise iimvakalelo ezintle. Kwaye imfuneko yokuhamba imihla ngemihla inja yithuba elihle kakhulu ekugqibeleni ukuthatha ijog.
- Izilwanyana zikunceda ukuqinisa umzimba wamalungu omkhaya. Ngokwe-uphando olutsha lonyango, kwiintsapho ezinezilwanyana ezifuywayo, abantwana bancitshiswa kakhulu ukuba bahlulwe yi-asthma kunye ne-allergies.
- Izilwanyana ezininzi zinokusindiswa kwedwa. Izilwanyana zinika abanikazi babo uthando kwaye zihlala zisondela. Isilwanyana singathembeka nakunoma yimaphi imfihlelo, kungekhona ukwesaba ukuba omnye umntu uya kuzifumana ngabo.
- Inja endlwini iya kunceda inkosi yakhe okanye umncedisi ukuba enze abantu abatsha. Ukuhamba ngokuhamba kwansuku zonke kunye nesilwanyana sakho, ungaziqhelanisa neenja ezifanayo. Kwaye abantu abanamahloni banokufumana lula izihloko ezininzi ukuthetha nabanye abathandi bezinja.
- Amehlo aphikisiwe yenkomo kunye nolonwabo olwenene luyakwazi ukunyamezela nangona suku olubi kakhulu nolunzima. Kubantu abaninzi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba babuye ekhaya bevela emsebenzini baze bajonge indlela intlanzi ebuyela ngayo ekhaya.
- Izilwanyana zikunceda ukulungisa iingxaki zengxabano kwintsapho. Izinja zeentlobo ezithile (umzekelo, uSheppard) ziphazamise ngokokhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza ukuba zivakalelwa kukuba umoya ophakathi kwamakhaya uyashushu.
- Izilwanyana zibe zizihlobo ezilungileyo kubantwana. Bafundisa abantwana ububele, ukuphendula, imfesane nokunyamekela. Abantwana abasusela ebuntwaneni banxibelelana nezilwanyana, bakhulisa abantu abanomdla. Amakati kunye neenja zigalela ekwenzeni unyango lwe-autism kubantwana.
- Oososayensi baseBrithani baye baqinisekisa ukuba ukuhlala rhoqo kwindlu yekati kwandisa ixesha lokuphila kwemindeni ngeminyaka eyi-10. Ukunyamekela isilwanyana kubonelela abantu abagugile kunye nemisebenzi ebalulekileyo yomzimba, enceda ekuphuculeni inhlalakahle jikelele. Abantu asebekhulile behlulwa zizifo ezahlukileyo, izidumbu zenzeke kangangoko rhoqo xa ziqhagamshelana ne-pet.
- Izinja kunye neekati zinceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kunye nokukhathazeka kweentlungu kumnini wayo. Ukuguqa ngamadolo okanye ezinyaweni zenkosi yakhe, isilwanyana sichaza ukuzinikela okungenamkhawulo, oko kukuvumela ukuphazamisa phantse nayiphi na ingxaki.
Nabo ba kholelwa ukuba baya kuxinwa ngokukhathalela isilwanyana, ngokubonakala kwayo endlwini, batshintsha uluvo lwabo ngokugqithiseleyo. Ukunyamekela isilwanyana sithatha ixesha, kodwa iimvakalelo ezintle umntu azifumanayo kwizilwanyana zakhe zenza kube lula ukwenza le mihla ngemihla.