Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kunzima ukugcina ubuncwane benkosikazi, enikwe yona ngokwemvelo ngokwayo-ubufazi bayo. Ukuze ube nomnene, uthembeke, xa uneshishini lakho okanye ubambe isikhundla senkokeli, kunzima, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka. Ngenxa yokuba uqala ukuvakalelwa kukuba unokukhusela umntu onjalo kwaye ufuna ukuba ubuncinane bakho bangene kuwo akungenzi umqondo.
Indlela yokuphuhlisa ubufazi?
Ukususela ebuntwaneni, oomama baye bafaka ingqondo kwiingcamango zobuntombi kunye nokubaluleka kokuba ngumfazi. Sikhula, iinguqu kunye nokuqonda kwenguqu, amava kunye neengcamango ngokukhawuleza okanye emva koko ukuyeka ukumelana nama-stereotypes, ngenxa yoko ukuvuswa kwamabhinqa kungenakukhunjulwa xa intombazana iyazibiza njengowesifazane.
Ukongezelela, ukulawula iimpawu eziphuhlisayo ekuvusekeni kwesetyhini, zonke iintombazana kufuneka ziqonde ukubaluleka kweengcamango zobuntombi kunye nobuhle. Zihambelana ngokuthe ngqo kunye nokukhetha okufanelekileyo kwezambatho kunye nomfanekiso kwintombazana, isitayela somsebenzi wakhe kunye nengxoxo.
Imigaqo yokubunjwa kwamabhinqa
Ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo ziya kukunceda uhlakulele ubufazi.
- Ukuchaneka okuchanekileyo . Ukukhethwa kwe-wardrobe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ekubunjweni kwamabhinqa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amantombazana amancinci athandekileyo agcwalisa ikhabethe labo ngezinto ezifanelekileyo, kodwa, ngelanga, ayigxininisi imilinganiselo yamanqaku entombazana, ubuhle, ubulili. Kwiidrobhebe zakho kufuneka zibe iipketi kunye neengubo zokugqoka, izitokisitye kunye, nokuba kunjalo, izicathulo. Naka ingqalelo kwizinto eziphathekayo, oko kukuthi, iinqabunga, ubuhlalu, amacici, amanqatha, njl. Gxi ninisa kwindlela enokwenzeka ngayo ukuba ungumfazi, uya kuvuma, ngengubo enhle kunye nezicathulo ezintle, uzive uhle kakhulu. Utshintsho lwendlela yokuziphatha kwinqanaba elincinci, unokuba ngumqholi, unqabileyo, unomdla.
- Ukuze udibanise nomntu kwaye ufumane izihloko eziqhelekileyo kunye naye, akudingekile ukuba uthethe ulwimi lwakhe, ukuba athathe indlela yakhe yokuthetha. Naluphi na
imeko, hlala umfazi . Sebenzisa ukuthoba, ukuguquguquka ngexesha loqhagamshelwano. Smile ngaphezulu. Khumbula ukuba intombazana enhle ingenakukunceda kodwa inomdla. Ungesabi ukubonakalisa ubuthathaka bakho, ukungafihli, kwaye ngoko, ubufazi. - Zithande . Lahla izakhiwo ezingafunekiyo kwaye uphendule iimpazamo zakho. Zama rhoqo xa ubheka kwisibuko, fumana iinkalo ezintle ekubonakala kwakho. Susa ihlabathi elingaphakathi kwiinkcazo kunye nemigaqo eyonakalisa wena.