Ubundlobongela obungokomzwelo luyinkimbinkimbi yezenzo ezinempembelelo embi kwi-psyche yomnye umntu. Oku kungachazwa ngamazwi, ukuhlambalaza kunye nokukhala, ezinye iintlobo zengcinezelo yengqondo, ukuhlambalaza.
Iimpawu zokuxhaphazwa ngokomzwelo
Ezi zimpawu zilandelayo zibonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba umntu ufumana ulwalamlo lwangaphakathi:
- ukudandatheka ngokukhawuleza kungekho sizathu esicacileyo;
- umnqweno wokukhuselwa kwihlabathi lonke;
- ukuzithoba ;
- ukuxhalaba, ukuxhala, ukwesaba, ukwesaba;
- ukubonakala kwindlela yokuzibulala, ukukhanga ngokweqile utywala.
Iintlobo zokuxhaphazwa ngokomzimba
Ezi zilandelayo ziindidi zolwaphulo-mvakalelo lwangokomzimba ziyahluka:
- ukungahoywa - kumntu uphathwa ngokungahloneli nto;
- ukwahlukana - umntu akavunyelwe ukwenza nayiphi na inyathelo;
- i-blackmail - umntu uxhatshazwa ngamagama okanye ngezenzo;
- ukuthotywa - ngaphezu kwendoda ehlekisiwe kwifomu ekhohlakeleyo, ihlasekwa rhoqo;
- ukuziphatha okungaqinisekiyo - umntu ngokwenene akayazi into enokuyilindela "kumbulali" wakhe kwisibini esilandelayo.
Unokumelana njani nobudlova obungokomzwelo kwintsapho?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu baxhomekeke kwingcinezelo yengqondo emsebenzini okanye kwintsapho, kwaye ukuba kwimeko yokuqala ungakwazi ukuyeka, ngoko kwimeko yesibini awukwazi ukuyicombulula ingxaki ngokuthi "ubaleke". Kodwa, nangayiphi na imeko, ubundlobongela bemeko phezu kobuqu aluxhomeki. Kubalulekile ukuyeka ukuvakalelwa njengexhoba: qaphela, ekugqibeleni, ukuba awubi ngaphezu kwabanye, awunalo iphoso. Ukuthuka nokuhlazisa akukho mntu unelungelo. Jonga umoni lowo ngqo kwaye ubhengeze ngesibindi. Ngokuqinisekileyo umphathi wendlu uya kuba neentloni kwaye akushiye wedwa, kuba engasetyenziselwa ukukugxeka. Ukuba ukuxhaphazwa ngokomzimba kwintsapho kuvezwa ngumntwana, intombazana, ngoko unokufuna uncedo kwisazisi sengqondo okanye ukubiza umnxeba othe ngqo.