Abantu abaninzi, beqaphela ukuba baye bonakaliswa kwaye inhlanhla bayakwazi ukujamelana nayo, abafuni nokuva malunga nokuba ngubani onqwenelayo. Abantu abanjalo banokuqondwa: ukuphanga ngokuqhelekileyo kukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi kakhulu kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi, umntu oye wahlupheka ngenxa yobuncwane obunobuncwane akayi kukhangela. Kodwa, kholwani kum, umbuzo ochanekileyo onokuzibuza yona kule meko yindlela yokufumana ukuba ngubani obangela umonakalo.
Kutheni ufanele ukwazi utshaba ngomntu?
Kubonakala kunokuba umxhaphazi wakho ngumntu osondeleyo kuwe, ukufihla ekhoneni kunye nokuceba isicwangciso esitsha sokusilahla. Uyamthemba - uya kukulimaza, ngokufanelekileyo, unamandla okungazi, kwaye unamandla onke ngolwazi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abangabasebenzi ngendlela abayifunayo baya kubethwa nangona ixesha elizayo. Mhlawumbi, sele sele benze izicwangciso zokutshatyalaliswa kwentsapho yakho, isifo okanye nokuba uswele izihlobo.
Siyathemba, ngoku uqonda ubungqina bokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukucacisa obangele umonakalo.
Iimpawu zokuhlaselwa
I-algorithm yezenzo zakho zilandelayo:
- Qinisekisa ukuba ngaba ungekho okanye unakaliswe;
- ukujamelana nomonakalo;
- fumana indlela yokubona lowo obangela umonakalo.
Ngoko, owokuqala-misela ukuba ubukho bobugqirha. Siza kuluqonda, indlela yokuqonda ukuba umonakalo wenziwe.
Ezi zilandelayo zibonakaliso ezingathandekiyo ziyabonwa kubantu abachaphazelekayo ngomphumo wemilingo:
- endlwini kwakukho iindlovu, izintuthwane, iilwane, ngelo xesha, abamelwane babo abanalo ulandelelwano;
- unamabala ahlambulukileyo elukhumbeni;
- awukwazi ukukhulelwa, kwaye ugqirha akakwazi ukufumana isizathu kwimpilo yakho;
- ukulibaziseka, iintlungu ezithintekayo ekuhambeni kwexesha;
- ukulahleka kwesisindo esibukhali, okanye, ngokuchasene, ukuzuza ubuninzi;
- awukwazi ukutshata nokudala ubudlelwane obuhlala kunye nomntu;
- uyagula - uphathwa, uyagula kwakhona - uyaphathwa, kodwa izifo azipheli, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, zongezwa;
- izilwanyana ziyancwina;
- Uphupha amaphupha kunye nemimoya, abantu abafileyo;
- ukuba ubhaptizwe, kwaye ujwayele ukugqoka umnqamlezo emzimbeni wakho, xa unobungozi, ulahleka, ukhula, unzima, kwaye ufuna ukuwususa.
Apha, malunga noko. Kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, iimpawu zokulahla zingaba zikhulu kakhulu.
Isinyathelo sesibini kukunqoba urhwaphilizo. Unokujika kumkhohlisi onobungcali. Kule meko, uya kukwenzela wena kunye nesinyathelo sesithathu - ukubalwa komoni. Kwaye ukuba ulahlekelwa ukuziphanga, uya kufuna isidinga sethu sokugqibela - ukujonga ukuba ngubani obangela umonakalo.
Sifumana umxhaphazi
Ngenxa yesi siko, uzakufuna ipokwila kunye namanzi acocekileyo kunye ne-wax yemvelo (iparafini ye-parafini ayifanelekanga).
Gcoba i-wax kwindawo yokuhlambela ngamanzi, kwaye uqale ukuyiphalaza ngokuthe ngcembe kumanzi aqholiweyo kunye nomlambo omncinci. Ngokufanayo, yithetha oku okulandelayo:
"Ndiyityhala i-wax emanzini, ndiyithulule igama lotshaba."
Unamandla ngakumbi umonakalo, ngokucacileyo intshaba iya kubonakala kwi-wax. Uyabona isondo somenzi wesono:
- ngokuba ibhinqa bafana neenyanga kunye neentyatyambo;
- umntu - i-rhombus, isikhala, isikwere.
Le ndlela inokukunceda, ukugqiba uqeqesho lomenzi-mthetho, umkhwa . Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba uqaphela ngokwaneleyo, uya kuqonda ngubani othetha ngeepatheni ze-wax.
Buyisa i ifunyenwe
Ukuphendula kwakho ngokwemvelo kuya kuba ngumnqweno wokufunda indlela yokubuyisela inkunkuma. Kwinqanaba lokugqibela lomsebenzi ngokuphanga uzakufuna oku kulandelayo:
- intliziyo yesilwanyana esifileyo (mhlawumbi intliziyo yenkukhu ethengiweyo kwimarike);
- ameva e hawthorn - 9 amaqhinga. (ebusika bangatshintshwa iisilumko ezincinci);
- isikhombiso esikhulu - isiqendu 1;
- iplate (ongayilahla ngokukhawuleza emva koko).
Okokuqala, faka intliziyo kwisitya kwaye uphonononge zonke iipilisi ezili-9 (ameva). Kule meko, utyalomle kwizenzo zakho zonke inzondo, intukuthelo, intukuthelo, umnqweno wokubuyela kwiintshaba zakho zonke eziye zafunyanwa.
Bese uthi icebo:
"Ndimemeza umntu ondibandezele, othumele ixhoba kum!"
Gweba ukugqibela, isikhombiso esikhulu.
Ngoku yakha umlilo (ungenzi ngokubanzi) kwaye ushise intliziyo ngezipikili. Iintsali zokutshiswa kufuneka zingcwatyelwe emhlabathini, kwindawo "yokufa", ufunde amagama alandelayo:
"Yonke inzondo kunye nentando yonke mayibuyele kuye lowo wandizisa."
Emva koko, umxhaphazi wakho uza kuzama ukuhlangabezana nawe kwaye akunike umonakalo. Sincoma iintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo ukuba sihlale ekhaya, singaboni mntu, kwaye ningabhondi nantoni na.