Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu badibanisa ingcamango ye- spoilage ne-lapel. I-Lapel - ikhutshwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye isebenza ngokukhawuleza. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantu abaye baphenduka kwi-lapel balahlekelwa ngumdla omnye komnye kwaye bayeke ukunxibelelana. Kwaye umonakalo olwalamano lwawo unobunzulu obunzulu.
Yintoni eyonakalisa ubudlelwane?
Umonakalo onjalo kubangela ukungquzulana, ukuhlambalaza, ukuxabana, ukulahlekelwa kokuqonda. Injongo, yowonobangela umonakalo, ukwenza isibini esithile sothando sithandane kanye kunye.
Ulwaphulo luyakunikwa ulwalamano lwentsapho, ngoko, njengomthetho, "umthengi" wakhe ngumntu owayekade eshiywe naye kunye nomntu othandekayo (umthandi), ofuna ukuba "mthethweni." Ukongezelela, ukuchithwa okunjalo kubangelwa kwizihlobo (ikakhulukazi xa kuziwa kwifa) okanye kubalingane kunye nabalingani bezoshishino.
Iimpawu zokuhlaselwa
Isibonakaliso sokuqala somonakalo ebubudlelwaneni - oku kuvela khona inzondo. Ukuqonda ngokubambisana kuye kwanyamalala ngethuba elithile, kwaye ukuba ucinga malunga noko kwenzekayo, akukho nxaxheba kwabaphikisanayo uya kufumana ingcaciso engqiqo.
Ukongeza, umonakalo ungabhekiswa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Oko kukuthi, kukho ukungaqondakali kwengqondo, kwaye ukukhwabanisa ngokwesondo kungahle kuphele.
Kukho indlela enye elula indlela yokumisela ubukho bobuqabane kulwalamano: kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuxabana, ngokukhawuleza ukuba iimvakalelo kunye nentlungu iphela, abantu bazama ukudibanisa. Kwaye xa kwenzeka umonakalo, isibini esingafuni kuphela ukusibeka, kodwa sifuna nezizathu ezintsha zokumangalela.
Abalingani banokutshintshwa ngokuphawulekayo kwiminqweno yabo yokutya, ukusela, kunye nokuzonwabisa. Kukho ukunqwenela kotywala, intukuthelo ithatha zonke ezinye iimvakalelo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaxhoba okuphupha amaphupha aphuphayo, amaphupha amabi, kunye nokufana nobuninzi bobuvila , ubunzima bokulala ixesha elide.
Ulwaphulo luqala ukusebenza ngokukhawuleza emva kokukhokelwa. Uhamba ngokukhawuleza, kwaye awuyi kuba nexesha lokuvuka, njengoko uza kufaka umtshato. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba ingqondo yesikhombisa ayiphutha, kukulungele ukubuyela kumkhohlisi onguchwepheshe.