Ungalokothi utshele nabani malunga nemihlali yenu elinde ixesha elide. Abantu abazi indlela yokuvuya ngokuphendula. Ukuzisola kwethu, ukuhleka kunye nokuxoxwa kweminye imiphumo yabantu kubokuqala kwaye akunandaba nokuba kunzima kangakanani kummelwane wommelwane wakhe, into eyona nto kukuba utshani buhlaza kwintsimi yangaphandle. Ukususela kule miqondiso yesiso esibi kakhulu ibonakala kwintombi ngenxa yomnqweno wokwabelana ngempumelelo yabo.
Ngokukodwa kunzima ukulahla emva kokunyuka. Ngaba uzive ulungile izolo, kwaye kwakubonakala ngathi ihlabathi liphela lisezinyaweni zakho, kwaye namhlanje akumnandi.
Iimpawu zokuqala zesiso elibi
- Inguqu ecacileyo kwaye, mhlawumbi, ingenangqiqo kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu.
- Ukungakhathaleli kwiindaba, ukucaphuka kwanoma yisiphi isizathu, nangona kungekho sizathu.
- Ukususela kusasa kuze kube sebusuku, yonke into iwela ezandleni kwisigqibo sangempela segama.
- Ibhinqa liyahlakazeka, liphelile, libi kumcimbi weeyure.
Iimpawu eziphambili zeso elibi kunye nokuphangwa kwintombi ibonakala ebusweni emva kobusuku obungenalutho, imizuzu ehlangeneyo, imizamo engaphumeleli yokulungisa iindaba zabo.
Konke oku ngasentla kukutsho, indlela elula yokulahla. Impilo engafanelekanga kunye nokunganakwa ziphela iimpawu zeso elibi, oko mhlawumbi, ziya kudlula ngokwabo. Kodwa, ukuba abantu abanobukhwele bayithatha ngokungathandabuzeki le ngcamango ukutshabalalisa ubomi bakho - qaphela. Nangona bonke aba "bobuqili" banjalo baya kuvuzwa, andifuni ukulinda kwiwadi yesibhedlele xa kwenzeka.
Ungaqiniseka njani ukuba iliso elibi likuwe?
Ukutshatyalaliswa kokutshatyalaliswa, abaninzi abantu baya kuma-mediums, kodwa kukho indlela, njengendlela yokuhlambalaza kunye nemiqondiso yamehlo embi ukuze uzihlolisise ngaphandle kokuchitha imali.
- Isilivere sidima xa uyigqoke.
- Izikhonkwane ziyaxinwa, iintambo ziqhekekile.
- Kukho ukuxabana nezihlobo ngaphezu kwezinto ezincinci.
- Akukho shishini kuphela elixhaswanga, kodwa nayiphi na iindaba eziyekekile ukuba zenzeke.
Ukuba imeko yakho iphosakeleyo uthabatha ifowuni kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyaqonda ukuba awunayo nabani na ukubiza kunye nokubiza okanye wonke umntu obizayo uxakeke kunye nemicimbi yakhe kwaye banakho konke ngaphandle kwakho, konke kukuhle-oku kucacileyo yi-jinx yokuba yedwa, imiqondiso yayo ibonakala okokuqala kungenakuqondakala, kodwa ngenye indlela umfanekiso uqhubeka phambi kwamehlo akho ngokuzeleyo kwaye uyaqonda ukuba kwakufuneka ukuba ucinge malunga nendlela yokubaluleka kwangaphambili. Emva kwakho konke, imeko yakho yoxinzelelo iyaphenduka kunye nabahlobo kunye nabaziwayo. Enye into, ngeqhinga eliqinileyo, unokuba namandla, nangona wena ukhangelekile ekunxibelelaneni, kodwa abantu abajikelezile bayeka into, kwaye ekugqibeleni ushiywe wodwa. Kule meko, uhambo oluya ecaweni okanye kwindawo enokulungele kuyo, kuya kukunceda, apho uhlala khona kwaye unondle ngamandla anamandla, ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka kwaye ugcwele.
Yenza abahlobo ngamanzi
"Ngamanzi e-goose, kunye nam ukuxhamla" - kungekhona ilizwi elilula lomntwana. Kungenxa yokuba unokuhlamba iimpawu eziphambili zeso elibi. Ukuba unemiyalezo yokulala, emva kokuvuka (kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubusuku okanye ubusuku), uye emanzini, faka izandla zakho kuyo kwaye uthe amanzi aphuphayo aya kuhlamba yonke into.
Phuza amanzi amaninzi - umzimba uhlambulukile ngokwemvelo, ngamanzi ashiya isikhumba kunye nokubola.
Yenza okulungileyo
Dlulisa ugogo wakho ngaphaya komgwaqo, unike nayiphi na imali, uqokelele abahlobo abasenyongweni endlwini enjalo - sebenzisa i karma yakho, ujonge izinto ozenzayo.
Ukukhulula ububi
Ngokukhawuleza, zama ukulibala zonke izikhalazo uze uxolele abantu, ngenxa yokuba uyakhala. Zibophe ngamandla ngamandla okukwenza. Sonke asifezekanga kwaye wena ngokwakho wazisa iintlungu kumntu. Ngaba ufuna ukuxolelwa? Qala ukwenza oku kuqala uze ubone indlela kuba lula ngayo umphefumlo. Yaye kunye nendoda efuna ukuqhubeka, ngaphandle kokujonga emva kwezikhalazo ezidlulileyo kunye neengxabano, ngokubhekiselele kumandla ambi akulibaziseki.