Kukholelwa ukuba oothixo abanamhlanje ngosuku lwesigramente bafumana uxhamano olukhethekileyo lokomoya kunye nosana, kungenxa yoko, ngokwemveli yendabuko, bafanele bathathe iindleko eziphambili zokubamba esi siganeko. Khawucinge ngezinto oothixo abanikela ngazo kubhaptizo kunye noko baphendule ngako.
Yintoni eyenza u-godson ku-godfather?
Ukuba sithetha malunga noko kufuneka sinikezwe ngoothixo, asikwazi ukuphawula ukuba nguye ojongene neendleko ezikhulu kunye nezindleko.
- ukuthenga umnqamlezo wokubhaptizwa;
- ukuhlawula isakramente ebandleni (okanye wenze umnikelo kuwo);
- umbutho wokubhiyozelwa kwesi siganeko (umthendeleko).
Ukuba sithetha ngeziganeko zobomi bethu, zonke izinto apha zihlukile. Njengomthetho, bahlawula isakramente, kwaye ukubhiyozela kwabo ngabazali ngokwabo. Kwaye ukuba banokugqiba ukuba umnqamlezo kufuneka ube yigolide, ngoko bahlala befumana ngokwabo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba abazali bayavumelana ngenguqu yomnqamlezo onokukwazi ukuwufumana, ke lesi sipho sinokuthi sikhethwe ngu-godfather.
Uthi uThixo unika ntoni?
Unkulunkulu wayenenhlanhla ngaphezu koyise, kwaye isakramente ayifuni inkunkuma enkulu kuye. Uluhlu lwezinto oothixo abanokuthi banike zona lugqithiswe ngezikhundla ezinjalo:
- i-kryzhma (isalathisi esikhethekileyo, esithinta umntwana emva kokuhlamba);
- iikhati le-christening okanye igqoke (mhlawumbi into kufuneka ibe ngumzi okanye ihlotshwe ngesandla);
- Icon ye-saint ogama lakhe linikezwa umntwana xa ebhaptizwa.
Nangona uyazi ukuba oothixo banesipho esifanelekileyo sokwenza i- christening , kwaye bakulungele ukwenza izi zipho, ngaphambili, baxhamle nabazali baze bafumane iimvo zabo kuyo. Mhlawumbi, abanqweneli ukugcina zonke izithethe ukuba zize zize zinikezele ukuba ziveze enye ikhoyo, kwaye yonke into oyifunayo yokufunyanwa kukaKristu sele ifunyenwe.