Umbuzo wendlela yokususa isiqalekiso , uxhalaba abo bafumene kwimpawu zabo zeentsapho zesiqalekiso, okanye bava nje amazwi angamnandi kumntu onobudlova. Zininzi iindlela zokususa isiqalekiso esivela kumntu, kwaye siza kujonga eziphambili.
Ungasusa njani isiqalekiso sabazali?
Ukwenza oku, iindlela ezininzi zisetyenziselwa - kunye nemithandazo, kwaye i-ebbs kwi-wax, kunye ne-soborazhiya. Into eyona nto kukuba kufuneka ukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo oko kukusemandleni akho ukuyeka amandla okubhubhisa amagama. Ukuba isiqalekiso sichazwa ngumama, kuthathwa njengowona unamandla kunene, oyikekayo kwaye okhohlakeleyo. Ukukususa kuthetha ukujika kuzo zonke iindlela ngangoko, umntu akanako ukuhlangabezana nomthandazo wodwa.
Kukholelwa ukuba indlela ethembekileyo yokukrazula isiqalekiso esinjalo ukuchitha iminyaka emithathu kwirenezhenie elandelayo kwibandla, ukuya kwiinkonzo zeCawa, ukuthandaza rhoqo. Ngokukhawuleza ukwenza oku, bhetele, ngaphandle koko isiqalekiso esinokuthi sihambe ngaphezu komgca kumfazi okanye kumgca wesilisa.
Ungasusa njani isiqalekiso sobodwa?
Ukuba wena wedwa, kufuneka wenze inkonzo ekhethekileyo yecawa. Yiza ecaweni, thabatha ikhandlela uze ubeke omnye kwisihlobo ngasinye esifileyo, onokukhumbula nje. Khumbula, iliphi ikhandlela lihambelana nesinye isihlobo, kwaye ngubani oya kupheka-ke isizathu sokuba isiqalekiso sifike. Ukuba iibhandlela zitshisa ngokukhawuleza, ngoko umgwebi uphila.
Yima uze ulinde ikhandlela ukutshisa kwisithathu, ufunde imithandazo yomngcwabo. Ukuba i-candle yekhandlela yomntu, thabatha elinye ikhandlela, uye kwi icon yeNicholas uMmangaliso-Msebenzi uze umcele ukuba asuse isiqalekiso. Xa ikhandlela livutha ngumntu wesithathu, ungasuka kwi icon. Myalelo i-moleben kwiintsapho ezifileyo kunyaka wonke. Ngoko uya kukhululeka kwisiqalekiso kwaye ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha.
Ungasusa njani isiqalekiso esivela kumntu okanye ngesini?
Ukuba ubona ukuba kukho abantu abadengekileyo kwintsapho, izigwenxa, izilwanyana ezidakamizwa, abantu abangenamakhaya, abaceli-ithetha-ithetha. Sidinga ukususa isiqalekiso kuzo zonke iintlobo. Thatha ifoto entsha yentsapho, uyibeke eBhayibhilini iveki.
Emva kweentsuku ezi-7, thatha umfanekiso, ukhanyise ikhandlela lebandla, funda "uBawo wethu"
"Ndiyanicela, uYesu Kristu! Basikelele abakhonzi bakaThixo (amagama ezizalwana), sinike inkxaso nenkxaso! Susa kithi ukunyeliswa kweentshaba! Amen. "
Ngosuku olufanayo, woza ecaweni, kwaye yonke ilungu lentsapho yakho libeke ikhandlela, kwaye ibuye isinikeze umthandazo wokubonga ngokususa isiqalekiso.
Ukubuyela ekhaya, bhaka i-apple pie, kwaye ngexesha lokuvelisa kwayo, phinda uzenzele:
"Ndiyidla i-parapil cursor. Amen. " I-pie kufuneka inikezelwe kumalungu omndeni, kwaye iintsuku ezimbalwa emva koko, ukunikela ngemithandazo yokubulela.