Ngelishwa, kukho abantu abangaboni nantoni engalunganga ngokusebenzisa umlingo ukwenzakalisa omnye umntu. Ngoko ke, ukwazi ukuba impawu zithini ngomonakalo wokufa, kwaye yintoni imiphumo yokulinda emva kokuziphatha kwelo hlobo, kuyafaneleka konke.
Indlela yokufunda ngomonakalo wokufa, kwaye yiyiphi imiqondiso eya kunceda ukuchonga umgwebi?
Ukuze ufumane ukuba ngaba i-rite isenziwa ekufeni, qwa lasela oko kutshintshile kumaxesha anje ebudeni bakho. Ukuba intombazana iqhubela ukusilela, yonke into ibonakala ivela ezandleni zayo, kwaye imvakalelo iyingozi ngakumbi imihla ngemihla, mhlawumbi ixhoba lomlingo. Ukuchaneka ngokuchanekileyo ukuba kukho umonakalo ekufeni komfazi kuya kunceda ezi zilandelayo:
- Ukubonakala kweengxaki zokulala. Ukuba ngaphambili walala kakuhle, waza wabona amaphupha avuyayo kwaye ujabulisayo, ngoku uhlaselwa yintlungu okanye iindlobongela.
- Ukuvela kweempawu zesifo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kule meko, abantu baya kubagqirha, kodwa abanako ukuxilonga, kwaye umfazi uvakalelwa ngakumbi nakakhulu imihla ngemihla. Ngendlela, ngokuqhelekileyo umqondiso wokulimala ukufa kukungaphumeleli kwimijikelezo yokuya esikhathini, ukuhamba kwimihla okanye ukuza kwangaphambili, okanye ngokuthe ngqo. Ngethuba le nto, intombazana ihluphekile.
- Ndiziva ndixhalabile , njengokungathi unobungozi. Iimvakalelo ezinjalo azihambi ngengozi, ukuba uhlala uhlushwa yintoni ocinga ukuba usengozini, mhlawumbi uxhoba lomlingo.
- Nayiphi na ishishini oqala ngalo liphela entlekele, nokuba ngaba kukupheka ukudla.
Ezi zizinto eziphambili ezibonisa ukutshatyalaliswa. Ukuchonga isigxina kuya kunceda ezinye iimpawu:
- Xa umntu othile ebonakalayo endlwini, isilwanyana sakho siqala ukuba neentloni kwaye siziphathe kakubi.
- Iintyatyambo zangaphakathi ziyabonakala xa u tyelela umgwenxa.
- Izitya zimanzi kwaye zonakaliswe xa ubaphatha kwixhoba lakho elibi.