Isithsaba se-celibacy luhlobo oluthile lwesiphambano, esenza ukungahambisani nobomi bomntu. Kuza kubekho, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokutshintsha eli rhu lumente. Ukuba isithsaba se-celibacy i-karmic, oko kukuthi, umntu wayifumene xa ezalwa, ngoko akufanele isuswe, kuba le nxalenye yexesha elizayo. Ukususela kwisiqalekiso esibangelwa ngoncedo lomlingo omnyama , kuyimfuneko ukuyilahla, njengoko ivelisa kakubi kakhulu. Ingaba kukho isithsaba se-hilacy okanye cha, ungabheka umgca womtshato, ukuba ulahlekile, ke ingxaki ikhoyo. Inyaniso yokuba isiqalekiso somntu sibonakaliswa ngumntu onesizungu, ukuxinezeleka okukhulu, njl njl
Ungasusa njani isithsaba se-celibacy?
Kungcono ukufuna uncedo kwi-psychic engcali, kodwa kukho nezinye iinkqubo ezinokuziqhuba. Nantsi enye yazo: thabatha ikhandlela, uyikhanyise kwaye uthi:
"Ndilahla izenzo zam ezingalunganga, zilahle iingcamango zam ezimnyama kunye nomona. Intliziyo yam iphelile ukuva ubunzima ukususela ngoku kunye nokuthanda imitha. Kwaye njengokuba uthando luya kukhula, ngoko umnqweno wam ngasese uzaliseka. Ulonwabo, ngene ebomini bam, bukhanyise ngokukhanya kokuthandana. Kwangathi ilizwi lam lizaliseke! "
Shiya ikhandlela, kwaye ngokukhawuleza xa itshisa ekupheleni kwayo, sitshilo ukuba ususe ukutshatyalaliswa okubizwa ngokuba yithsaba ye-celibacy:
"Hamba, komile, hamba, uhambe, ukhangele ubuso obuhle. Ndiyishiya emzimbeni into ebumnyama, yibone ukunyaniseka, nangona kunjalo ingahlala ingakanani. Njengejuba kwihobe, liyakhupha, njengoko lingathandi ukuyeka, ngoko liza kundikhawuleza, uthando lungazange luyeke naphi na - uthando luthando, uthando luthando, uthando luhle, uthando luthandekayo. Umqhele we-celibacy, ndikususa ngonaphakade. Yiba njalo! "
Emva koko kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqhube umkhankaso ukutsala uthando ebomini bakho. Kuyimfuneko ukuyiqhuba kwinyanga edlulayo, eyona nto ihamba phambili ngoMgqibelo. Yiya ekucoceni kwaye ubeke umgca weentyantyambo, ngelixa uthi la mazwi:
"Umonakalo wamaMama wangibamba, ndithatha ingxowanxu yokubambisana, kwaye ndixotha uthando. Ewe amandla am omkhulu kwaye onke amava aya kuwina. Ndiyasusa isithsaba se-celibacy, ndiqala ukuthambisa umlambo. Watshisa emlilweni, wawa emanzini, kwaye uthando olukhulu lwazalwa emlotha. Ilizwi lam linamandla! "
Emva koko faka intsimbi ekhanda lakho, yishiye imizuzu embalwa, uze uyisuse, uthi:
"Kwangathi indalo yonke ingangisindisa kulo mqhele!"
Ukutshisa i-wreath kwisibonda,
Ungayinceda njani enye isithsaba se-celibacy?
Kuyakwazi ukubamba le siko kuphela ngoJanuwari 19. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ufumane amanzi angcwele kwiicawa ezi-7 ezahlukeneyo. Ngaphambi komhla 19, uthele amanzi alungiselelwe entloko yakho uthi:
"Chur igazi lakho kuwe, igazi legazi lomnye umntu. Umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), hla mbulula. Amen. "
Thatha umnqamlezo kwaye, usibambe kufuphi nobuso bakho, xelela icebo kwakhona. Ukuze ususe isithsaba se-celibacy, qi niseka ukuba unikele ngemali ebandleni kwaye ufake ikhandlela ngokubulela kubangcwele.