Ulwaphulo-mthetho lugunyaziso lwamandla amaninzi olutshabalalisa i- aura yethu ngendlela ewonakalisayo, ifumana umgama kuwo kwaye ingena emzimbeni, ibulawe ngaphakathi. Kukho ezininzi iintlobo zomonakalo, kwaye into engathandekiyo kukuba akukho mntu uphephe kuyo, kuba unokuthumela umrhumo omazayo kumlingane wakho, umhlobo, isihlobo, ucinga nje ngokubi kwaye akafuni ukuba nezinto ezingcono.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iimpawu zokuhlaselwa umntu zingabonwa ngokwazo okanye ngoncedo lwezihlobo ezibonakalayo ngapha nangapha. Ukuba unakho ukungathandabuzeki malunga nobukho bokuphala, kungcono ukufuna uncedo kwizodwa.
Ukhohlakele kwimpilo
Masiqale ngemimiselo yomonakalo empilweni, kuba ngokufa kwakho kuya kwanele kwaye oku kutshabalalisa, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa uceba lokufa. Ubuqhetseba kwimpilo bubuqili obubi obuya kuthi, ngaphezu koko, kukukhokelela ekuhlaleni. Ngokukhawuleza ugula, awuyiqondi into. Yiya kugqirha, unike zonke iindidi zeemvavanyo, kwaye kuvela ukuba umzimba uphila kakuhle.
Oogqirha babhala zonke izikhalazo zakho kwi-akhawunti ye-hypochondria, kwaye eso sifo ngokwawo sizimisele ukuba sele siphelile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, eli lizwe langaphambi kokuphazamiseka komhlaza, umhlaza, ukubetha.
Ukuze uqaphele iimpawu zokuhlaselwa ngexesha, kufuneka uqaphele kakhulu intlalo yakho:
- Ukukhawuleza ukulahlekelwa isisindo okanye ngokuchaseneyo kuya kukhula;
- abafundi bahamba;
- uvakalelwa kukuba "uyomisa" ngaphakathi;
- amaphupha amabizo;
- ecaweni uziva ubi;
- awukwazi ukukhulelwa;
- uziva ulahlekelwe ngamandla.
Ukupakisha ngemali
Iimpawu zokutshatyalaliswa kwemali ziyabonwa ngokukhawuleza kubantu abazama ngokungafani ukuba batyebe, kwaye ngelo xesha, bahlaselwa omnye emva komnye. Iibhanki, abanetyala - bahlala bexhoba lokutshatyalaliswa ngemali.
Iimpawu:
- inhlanhla emide kunye nomsebenzi;
- Ukwesaba okungazange kuchazwe ngokunyuka;
- Iziganeko kunye neemeko zihlala zingekho kwicala lakho;
- intlupheko, iintlekele kwintsapho ngenxa yokungabi nemali;
- nayiphi na inzame yokuzicebisa ngokwayo iphendulela ukuwa kweengcamango ezingaqondakaliyo.
Kwisizungu
Ngokuqhelekileyo ndiphazamisa ubuninzi bokubhekisela kubasetyhini kubadlali okanye abesilisa, abangazange baphathe kakubi. Le yinto yokuphindisela yowesifazane. Izibonakaliso zokutshatyalaliswa kwedwa zilula ukuzibona:
- ngokugqithiseleyo ingqwalasela kwisini esahlukileyo yaphela ngokupheleleyo;
- Nangona unethamsanqa ukuba uqhelane nomntu, ubuhlobo buhlala ixesha elifutshane kakhulu;
- Amadoda ayesaba ukuba endlwini yakho, zama ukuphepha ngokukhawuleza;
- uziva ungekho kwindawo yakho yokulala;
- Izilwanyana ziyancwina;
- uhlushwa ukunganakwa, ukulala;
- uvakalelwa kukuba into engabonakaliyo inqanda ubudlelwane bakho namadoda.