Abafazi ukususela kumaxesha amandulo baye banandipha ukuthanda umlingo, owanceda ukulungisa iingxaki zabo. Eyathandwa kakhulu yintetho enamandla ngenxa yothando lomyeni okanye umfana onokufutshane kodwa onamandla. Zifanele zivakaliswe kwi-whisper, ekuvumela ukuba unike amagama omandla amakhulu. Kukho ezininzi izilo kwaye oku kunika ithuba lokusombulula iingxaki ezininzi.
Ukuxhalabisa ngothando lomntu
Amantombazana amaninzi ahlupheka ngenxa yedwa, ephupha ukuhlangana nomhlobo ofanelekileyo wobomi. Ukuze uhlawule imini yokuhlangana nomntu ontle, kufuneka ufunde amagama anjengomlingo ngentsasa yokuhlwa:
"Iindlela zengqungquthela, umoya, emva koko zidibanisa. Ngoko ikhefu lam lihlangane nenye into ezayo. Oko kuzalwe-kuya kuzaliseka, okubhekiselweyo - kuza kuzaliseka. "
Kwimeko apho kukho umntu ovusa uvelwano, kodwa akayifumani, ke ukutsala ingqalelo enye inceba. Ukuqhuba isithethe esilula, kufuneka uthenge i-Ribbon ebomvu, uyilahle kuyo nayiphi na ibondlo uze uthi ukugxekwa kukutsala uthando:
"Ukuze ndiqhube i-ribbon yami kwaye ndiqhakaze, kwaye intliziyo yam (igama) ngam ilangabi."
Kukho upelo olwenzelwe ukwenza omnye umbhoxo ulindele, ngoko kuthetha umkhuba olula. Ukugcoba akuyi kukulimaza, njengoko kuphunyezwa kwipelo, kodwa ukusebenza kwayo kukhulu. Uyakwazi ukuyifunda ecaleni kwento yokudumisa, umzekelo, ngelixa uqhuba uhambo lwezithuthi zikawonkewonke, kodwa unamandla kuthathwa njengento yokumemeza ngothando lomntu ekude, kuphela ngoko kubonakala kubaluleke kakhulu. Isicatshulwa sopelo silula:
"Andiphefumli-ndiyifumana.
Ngaphandle kwam - ukuphuma,
Kwaye -kuphefumula.
Ukuze ube nako ngaphandle kwam. "
Ukuba kukho ukukrokrelwa ukuba intanda yakho inomnye, unokukrazula umdlali wakho nge-whisper elula. Ukuze umlingo wenze okuthile kufuneka ukwazi igama lomncintiswano. Thatha igarlic uze uyibeke ephaketheni yeyakhe iingubo zakho ezikhethiweyo, ngeli xesha uthi:
"Phonsa igalikhi, uyilahle ngaphandle kwentliziyo kunye (igama lomncintiswano)."
Xa umntu obathandayo efumana kwaye ephosa igalikhi, ngoko umlingo uya kusebenza, kwaye iimvakalelo zakhe ziya kuqala. Ungasebenzisa nayiphi na into engeyomfuneko endaweni yegalikhi, leyo indoda ngokuqinisekileyo iya kukhangela ngaphandle, kodwa ungakulibali ukutshintsha itekisi yesalathisi.
Ukuba ulwalamano luye lwahlala ixesha elide kwaye iimvakalelo zaphela, ngoko ungasebenzisa ingxolo enamandla kunomntu, okuya kukuvumela ukuba uzive zonke izinto ezinjengokuqala. Iqhinga lilula kakhulu:
"Ukususela emzimbeni ukuya emzimbeni, into enothando.
Igazi lam, kodwa uthando lwakho.
Ndithande ngaphezu kwam.
I-Prutik ehlathini igoba, ndiziva apho ndiza kubamba khona. "
Uninzi lwesigxina esilungileyo sesikhalazo sokuba intanda ayithandi izibonelelo. Ukumqhubela kule nkathelo ebalulekileyo, unokucela inkxaso yemilingo. Kubalulekile ukuthatha isonka sesonka, usityule kwaye ufunde i-whisper:
"Ndwendwela iindwendwe endlwini yethu, udle isonka kunye netyuwa kwihlabathi elithembekileyo, kunye nasemthendelekweni womtshato. Kungekudala iminyaka eyishumi, kodwa kulo nyaka ".