Ngokuthanda umlingo, iqela elihlukileyo liqukethe iqhinga lothando lokutya. Kukholelwa ukuba ukutya ngumqhubi omkhulu wamandla, kwaye unokusabela kwiingcinga, iimvakalelo kunye namazwi omntu. Kungenxa yoko amaxesha amandulo athetha ukuba kubalulekile ukulungiselela "ngothando".
Kwakhona kufanelekile ukubhekisela kwimiphumo yokucwangcisa ukutya kunye nokuba yonke into eyenziwe ngokuchanekileyo, iziphumo ziya kuba zilungile kwaye ke into yokudumisa iya kuba neemvakalelo, isifiso nesifiso. Ukuba iimpazamo zenziwa ngexesha lokufunda nokuqhelana nokuqhelana noqhelwano, ngoko-ke imiphumo emibi ingabonwa: impilo embi, iingxaki zesimiso se-nervous, ukunyanzeliswa kwezifo ezingapheliyo kunye neengxaki kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi.
Isalathiso sothando sokutya okuzenzela
Isithethe esinobuchule singasetyenziselwa ukuvuselela ubudlelwane kunye nokuzisa umva omtsha weemvakalelo kwikhethiweyo. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukupheka, kufuneka uvale amehlo kwaye ucinge nje ngeemeko ezilungileyo ezinxulumene nenjongo yokubonga. Ngethuba lokupheka, kubalulekile ukucinga malunga nonyulwe. Ukuhamba ngexesha lokucwangciswa kweemveliso kufuneka kube lula. Xa isidlo silungile, kufuneka usibambe izandla kwaye uthi la magama:
"Nguwe" igama "luthando-ekutya kukuthanda kwam.
Ukutya kuwe kukuthanda kwam kuwe.
Yintoni eya kuba ngaphakathi - akukho ndlela yokuphuma.
Yidla, thandana, udle, kodwa udumise.
Into oyidlayo iyinandi kakhulu, ngoko undithande. "
Emva koko, sebenzela isidlo esipheleleyo ukuya kukhethiweyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ungaxeleli nabani nge-privor.
Iqhinga lokutya ngenxa yothando lomntu ongazi
Inamandla ngokwaneleyo, kodwa kwaye iyingozi, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuyisebenzisa, njengesigqibo sokugqibela. Abaqalayo abacetyiswayo ukuba baqhube esi siko. Ngexesha lokufunda koqhinga, ukunyuswa kwengqondo kunye nokuzinza kweemvakalelo kubalulekile. Igazi lenza uxhulumaniso phakathi kwabathandi. Lungiselela isidlo esithandayo sezinto zokudumisa kunye nokongeza ukuhla kwegazi lakho kulo. Bese uthi la magama:
"(Igama lam liyintanda), uvutha ngothando kum, vumela uthando lufudumale luye kwi-cell yakho yonke, kuyo yonke igazi lakho, kuwo onke amathambo akho. Vumela zonke iingcamango zakho malunga nam, kunye nokuthanda kwakho kwinqanaba lam. Ku (igama lomthandekayo) wayehlala kunye nam, ephefumlelwe kuphela nam. Ndithande ngaphezu kobomi bakho, phila ngokuhlala kwimeko yam. "Iqhinga kufuneka liphindwe kathathu. Emva kwexesha elifutshane, ungabona iziphumo zokuqala.
Iqonga lokutya, oko kukuthi inhlama
Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abafazi bebekulungiselela iimpahla ezahlukahlukeneyo eziphekiweyo, baphathise amadoda abo. Ngethuba lokuxolela uvavanyo, iziqhelo zomlingo zazisetyenziselwa ukuqinisa iinjongo nokutsala uthando. Kubalulekile ukuxolela inhlama ngemvubelo kwaye ulinde de iphakame. Emva koko, ukuxubusha, phinda le njongo:
Injongo ka-Anna Mans yePlashelkov intsha. Ndiza kuthandaza ndikunqule uKumkani Osinil. Mnqumle uze umnqobe, inja ye-Boyarsky kunye nabasimili kunye neentlegi, abamnyama nabamhlophe, i-pestagor kunye nephuzi, oko kukuthi, wazalwa eyimpumputhe kwisizukulwana, kwaye uya kuba sisidenge njengomzimba omanzi, efa ngamathole amanzi, i-mole ephuzi. Ngendlela engqongqo kunye nebuhlungu ngayo i-spruce ingahlonywa ngetekisi, umhlaba uveliswa kwaye imithi ye-fir ibophe ngokuqinileyo kwaye inxalenye ekhuniyo iya kubanjelwa ziinyawo ezinyaweni kwiinyawo, izandla ezandleni, emanqeni ukuya emanzini, isisu esiswini. Ulwimi luyintloko. Amen. "
Phinda ubambe iqhinga elisixhenxe, uze ubhaka ikheke. Kubalulekile ukuxolela inhlama ngamandla kunye nexesha elide, ukudlulisela yonke imizwa yakho nothando kuye. Nceda uqaphele ukuba ama-pastries alungiselelwe ukulungiselela kuphela, ngoko akufuneki ukuphatha abanye abantu kuwo.