Ulwaphulo - impembelelo embi kumntu, okwenziwa ngenjongo. Abantu abaninzi bayazi ngokungazi ukuba bazijezise iintshaba zabo. Okwangoku, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukileyo ukuba unokumisela ukuba ubukho bendawo.
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba unokonakala?
Okokuqala, imiphumo emibi yemilingo ibonakala kwimpilo. Ukongezelela, iingxaki ziphakama kwinqanaba ababenomdla. Ukuba ebomini kuye kwavela umbala omnyama kwaye izizathu zokuvela kwayo azicaci, kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlolisise i-phosphoriyo kunye ne-pendulum njengoko isetyenziswe kwimihla yamandulo. Kukulungele ukuyiqala ngexesha lokuphela kwenyanga ngobusuku obunzulu. Thatha iphepha kwaye udwebe umzobo womntu kuwo. Emva koko, kufuneka uyibize igama lakho. Ukwenza oku, thatha ioli yefuno, u-christen umntu odwebile uze ufunde umthandazo othi "uBawo wethu", kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukujonga ukuba umonakalo, lithetha la magama:
"Namhlanje uya kuba ngumkhonzi kaThixo (igama), uya kuba intlungu ngenxa yam, zonke iintlungu kunye neengxaki ziza kubakho iingxaki kunye neengxaki."
Emva koko, kwinqanaba ngalinye letafile apho isithethe senziwa khona, gxiba ibhandlela lecawa kwaye ubenokukhanyisa kwindlela efanayo. Emva komntu odwebileyo kumacandelo ahlukeneyo bhala amagama athi "ewe" kwaye "hayi". Mshiye iphepha phakathi kwetafile uze ubambe i-pendulum ngaphezu kwayo. Ngoku makhe sihlolisise ngokuthe ngqo ukuba sinokwazi ukuba ngaba kukho inkunzi okanye inkohlakalo. Qala ukuguqula i-pendulum uze ubuze imibuzo. Kuphi impendulo i-pendulum iya kumisa, ngoko inyaniso. Buza ukuba kukho i-spoilage, iimpawu zesithethe kunye negama lutshaba. Emva koko, dlulela i-pendulum kathathu, umntu okhangekileyo kwaye uthi umbulele kuye ngoncedo.
Ungazikhusela njani kumonakalo?
Kukho iindlela ezinokuthi uzikhusele kwimpembelelo engalunganga ukusuka kwicala:
- Beka umhlobiso wakho ozithandayo kumanzi ahlambulukileyo, kwaye ekugqibeleni ufumane isalathisi esinamandla.
- Intambo eqinile ibomvu olubomvu oluboshwe kwisikristsi.
Ungahlala ufunda umthandazo kumlindi wesigxina uze ucele ukhuseleko.