Unyaka ngamnye inani labantu abaxhomekeke ekuxhomekeke kotywala landa. Ukulahla lo mlingo kunzima ngokwaneleyo, ngoko abantu bakulungele ukukrazula kunye nabathandekayo kwisifiso sokutya utywala .
Kukho imigaqo emininzi yokufunda iindlovu kunye nemithandazo yokunxila kwindoda kunye nabanye abantu kubalulekile ukugcina. Okokuqala, imikhosi kufuneka ibanjwe kwiintsuku ezithile zeveki, ngamadoda-uLwesibini okanye uLwesine, kunye nabasetyhini - uLwesithathu, uLwesihlanu kunye noMgqibelo. Okwesibini, isigaba seNyanga sibaluleke kakhulu, ngoko ixesha elifanelekileyo libhekwa njengenyanga epheleleyo okanye inyanga ehla. Okwesithathu, kubalulekile ukukholelwa kwimiphumo emihle, kuba akukho nto iya kusebenza, kwaye kwezinye iimeko iziphumo ezinzima zivela. Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba ungaxeleli nabani malunga nemikhuba, kuba isakramente iyisitshixo ekuphumeleleni.
Iqhinga lokudakwa kunye nemiphumo yalo
Cishe zonke iinkcubeko ezinxulumene nokuphelisa imikhwa emibi zihambelana nomlingo omhlophe, ngoko akukho mfuneko yokulindela nayiphi imiphumo eyingozi. Ngokubhekiselele kumntu ophelisa utywala, unokuthi abe nemilinganiselo yengqondo kunye nempilo. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kuba imiphumo enjalo ivela kumntu ukuba uyayeka ukusela ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amasiko. Kwezinye iimeko, ingqalelo ingonyango. Kubalulekile ukuxhasa utywala kuwo onke amanyathelo okulahla imikhwa emibi.
Izicwangciso kunye nemithandazo ekudakwa konyana, indoda kunye nabanye abantu
Kukho iinkqubo ezahlukeneyo ongazisebenzisayo wena, kunye nabantu abasondeleyo. Kungcono ukuba iqhinga lifundwa lihlobo legazi. Makhe sihlale kumasiko amaninzi ngokubanzi.
Inkalo ekudakwa komyeni kunye nezinye izalamane esithombeni
Kukholelwa ukuba iinkqubo zokusebenzisa iifoto zisebenza ngokugqithiseleyo, ekubeni isithombe sinamandla omntu kunye nokushicilelwa kwe-aura. Kubalulekile ukuba ifoto ifumaneke. Ukongezelela, kufuneka ulungiselele amakhanda amathathu ecawa kunye namanzi angcwele.
Iqhinga kufuneka lifundwe emva kokushona kwelanga. Kubalulekile ukuvalela egumbini elingenanto, ubeke amakhandlela ngokulandelelana, ukhanyise kwaye ufake ifoto phambi kwabo. Thatha amanzi angcwele uze ufefe ngomfanekiso, usho icebo elinjalo:
"INkosi uThixo ingcwele, ndincede! Ndifuna ukususa ukuxhomekeka kumkhonzi kaThixo (igama), Uqhinga lokusela, Mphuze, uyiphumelele kotywala. Ukunyuka kwevodka emqaleni, akazange ahambe, kuye kuye njengedemon ebalekile, Ngaphezulu kwamanzi, amanzi awazange aye kuye nantoni na! Ilizwi lam linamandla kwaye linamandla, ilizwi lam ngumthetho kumkhonzi kaThixo (igama). Amen! "
Amagama aphindaphinda kathathu, kwaye ke, thabatha isithombe kwiindawo ezifihlakeleyo. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa, ukuphuculwa kuya kuphawulwa. Ukuphindaphinda isithethe sinconywa ngenyanga, isebenzisa umfanekiso ofanayo.
Uqhelwano lokunxila komyeni nabanye abantu ngesepha
Lo mkhosi uyathandwa, kuba ungowomlindi odumile uVange. Ndiyabulela kuye ungasindisa umntu omthandayo kumkhwa wokusela utywala. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ulungise isepha, eya kusetyenziswa kamva ukuhlamba izandla. Ukugcina isepha ezandleni zakho, ufanele ufunde le njongo:
"Owu, musa ukusela kuwe, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), Musa ukuhamba, ungadli utywala. Qaphela, qhayisa! Kuba njengoko uhlamba izandla zakho, Ngoko ukuxhomekeka kwakho kukulibale. Ngoko ukuba yonke ixesha ingcamango ifika kuwe, uyayikhohlwa, uyithande i-vodka! Amen! "
Funda amagama asithoba amaxesha. Beka isepha kwilitye lesonka kwisitya sokuhlamba ukuze umntu osela iziphuzo ahlambe izandla. Ukuba akukho zinguqu, ngoko kwiiveki ezimbini isithethe kufuneka siphindwe.
Iqhinga lokusela ukutywala i-vodka
Ngenxa yesi siko, ungasebenzisi nje i-vodka kuphela, kodwa kunye nayiphi na isiselo esinxilisayo. Kubalulekile ukuthetha amagama alandelayo kuwo:
"Wabiza ihegumen kwindawo yakhe waza wadala umthandazo kunye. INkosi uYesu Kristu, nyana kaThixo, ndinenceba kuwe umkhonzi kaThixo (igama) ekukhanukeni kobubi, kwizinto ezimbi. Makhe angazi isiselo esibi ukususela namhlanje ukuya kwibhokisi. Njengeengulube, inqabunga ayiguquli ngaphesheya kolwandle, ngoko ikhoboka likaThixo (igama) lotywala ukususela nanamhla lingasayi kusela, alinalo emlonyeni wakhe, andifuni nhlobo. Amen.
Kukholelwa ukuba xa umntu esela umlo wesithathu, uya kulahla umkhwa wakhe.
Uqheliselo lokunxila kwonyana
Umama ngamnye ufuna ukumbona umntwana onoyolo kwaye uphumelele, ngoko ulungele ininzi ukuze amkhulule ekuxhomekeke kotywala. Kukholelwa ukuba isithethe esenziwa ngumama sisebenza kakuhle. Kuyimfuneko kwi-Clean ngoLwesine ukuba uhlambe iifestile uze uthele amanzi onke kumntwana, uthi:
"Njengoko ndazalela wena, ndamncelisa ubisi lwam, ngaba uya kuthi, inceku (igama) alizange liphuze utshwala, iwayini kunye ne-braga ayizange imthule emlonyeni wakhe. Iifestile zihlanjwe kwaye ucocekile. Yiba njalo. "