Ngelishwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzama njani ukubeka ingqalelo kwiimeko ezidandathekile emva kokuxabana nomntu okanye ukukhalaza ngomngcipheko webanda kwiveki yesibini ngokulandelanayo, ukwenqaba ukutya, ukuphulwa kwamakhanda kunye namaphupha awonayo, kufuneka uvume - ukuhlaselwa komntu kukho.
Ubugqirha kungakhathaliseki ukuba unxibelelwano lwamandla-wonke umntu uyaqonda indlela efanelekileyo ngayo. Incoko enye - emva kokuba uzive uceba, wonke umntu uqala ukukhangela umlindi oqinileyo wokulwa nokuchithwa kunye neyamehlo embi ngokuqhelana nabo okanye kwi-intanethi.
Ukusuka ekubhubhiseni, ungasindisa ngeendlela ezimbalwa ezilula kodwa eziphambili. Okokuqala, gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuze ungabuzi emva koko ukuba uzikhusele njani kumona nomona ongeyakho oye wawukhulula. Qonda, abantu abajikelezileyo baqhele ukuva kuphela oko kukuzuzisa ukuba bakuphulaphule. Kwaye wonke umntu uyathanda ukuhleka, kwaye nawe uqobo. Ukuze ugweme amahemuhemu amaninzi malunga nawe, qwabela uvuyo lwakho kulabo abakwazi ukwabelana nawe.
Izindlela zokuphepha ukuhlaselwa
Izindlela eziseleyo zokuzikhusela kwiso elibi kunye nomonakalo akuyona into elula kuneyokuqala - ukuthula.
- Thatha nantoni na odla ukugqoka. Amathongo afanelekileyo, amabhonceli, imihlobiso. Beka ubusuku emanzini kunye nomxholo ophezulu wesilivere. Ngokufanayo, amanzi ahlambulukileyo asebenza kwaye aphelelwa yimithandazo yokusindiswa nokulondolozwa. Ngoku unayo i-talisman, eya kuba ngumqobo omkhulu wokulimaza. Kanye ngenyanga, shiya i-amulet yakho yobusuku kwiglasi yamanzi angcwele.
- Umlindi omele iliso elibi kunye nokuphalala ngumtya obomvu, osebenza njengokhuselo lweintsana. Emva kokuba ubophe ngeqhina kwisandla sakho, udala isangqa esikhuselekileyo. Umbala obomvu uphelelwe yimikhosi embi.
- Ukuba unomuvo wokuba ulwaphulo luhlala ngaphakathi kwakho, kufuneka usebenze ngokukhawuleza, ngelixa i-instinct yokuzikhusela isasebenza. Thatha amaqanda ama-9 enkukhu uze uwabeke eceleni. Kula, awuyi kupheka nayiphi na kwaye awukwazi ukuboleka, ukuthengisa, ukunika. Njalo kusihlwa, ngeentsuku ezili-9 ezizayo, qhekeka iqanda kwisitya kunye namanzi ahlambulukileyo kunye nendawo phantsi kombhede entloko okanye ekufutshane nentloko, kodwa ngalobo busuku awuyikuguqula isitya. Ekuseni, okokuqala, galela isitya esivela kuwe ngasemva kwendlu okanye kwindlu yangasese, ngamagama athi "uvela phi, kwaye wahamba". Kwiintsuku ezili-9 zangoku, urhwaphilizo luya kubuyela kumntu oshisayo.
Ukwazi indlela yokuzikhusela kwilihlo elibi, unokuzikhusela wena kunye nentsapho yakho yonke kubantu abanomona.