Ukubeletha kuyisiganeko ebomnandi ebomini kungekhona kuphela umfazi, kodwa yonke intsapho. Akukho mfazi okhulelweyo kwihlabathi ongeke atyelelwe ngumbono kunye nemizwa ephazamisayo malunga nomcimbi ozayo. Nangona ukukhulelwa kukugqwesileyo, oogqirha bafunyenwe, isibhedlele sokubeletha sikhethiwe, yonke into ilungele umntwana kunye nonina, ukuxhalaba akuyi kukuyeka ukushiya. Kwaye oku kuyinto engokwemvelo, kuba ukuzalwa komntwana yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini bomi, kwaye inkqubo yokunikezela iyinkimbinkimbi kwaye ayilungeleki. Yaye iNkosi kuphela yayazi indlela yonke into eya kuvela ngayo. Ngoko ke, akunangqiqo kubafazi abakhulelweyo abakhulelweyo ukuba bafunde umthandazo wokubeletha ngokukhuselekileyo.
Umthandazo onomsebenzi omnene
Kwaye kumaxesha amandulo, oogogokazi bethu abazange benze ngaphandle komthandazo ngexesha lokubeletha. Kwagqitywa ukuba nethemba likaThixo kunye nokuthandaza kuye kunye neyona nto ingcwele kwiTheotokos malunga nokuzalwa okukhuselekileyo komntwana. Umthandazo wokuzalwa ngokuphumelelayo womeleza inkolelo yokuba yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle. Uncedwa ukuzola kwaye ulungiselele ngengqondo kwisiganeko esizayo.
Abomama babengathandaza kuphela, umthandazo womama ngexesha lokuzalwa kwentombi yakhe yayibaluleke kakhulu. Namhlanje umthandazo awunalo ukuthandwa, kodwa abantu abanakulibala ukubuyela kubaNgcwele kwixesha elinzima. Ngoko ke, umthandazo ngexesha lokubeletha lifanelekileyo kulolu suku. Kakade, akusiyo yonke intokazi ekwazi ukufunda umthandazo ngexesha lokuzalwa. Kodwa kule ngxaki, unokuzilungiselela kwangaphambili kwaye uzukise umthandazo wokuzalwa okulula okanye ucele umama wakho ngomthandazo ekuzalweni kwentombi yakho.
Luhlobo luni lomthandazo omele ufunde ngexesha lokuzalwa?
Umkhozi uyazi ukuba ubani ongathandaza kumntwana ekuzalweni kwakhe. Okokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwi-Most Holy Theotokos. Intombikazi kaMariya yazala unyana wayo ingenabuhlungu, kodwa emva kokufumana zonke iingxaki zabantu kunye nosizi, uyayiqonda kwaye isincede. Ngomthandazo ngexesha lokukhulelwa nokubeletha, bayaqubuda kwiimpawu zikaMama kaThixo "Ekuzalweni koNcedisi", "Intsana yaseNtwaneni", "Theodore", "Umphili", "Skoroposlushnitsa". Omnye umfazi okhulelweyo kufuneka afunde umthandazo wokuncedwa ngokubeletha.
Umthandazo wokuzalwa okulula kwi-Most Holy Theotokos :
Intombi Eyintsikelelo, Unina weNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu, ngubani ukuzalwa kunye nobume bomama nomntwana, nenceba kumkhonzi wakho (igama), kwaye uncedise ngeli lixa, umthwalo wakhe makulungiswe ngokusisigxina. Nonke onomusa uMongameli weTheotokos, andizange ndifune uncedo ekuzalweni koNyana kaThixo, uncede kulo mkhonzi womkhonzi wakho, ocela, ngakumbi ukusuka kuwe. Banike abo baphile kweli lixa, bazale umntwana, bazise ekukhanyeni kweli hlabathi, ngexesha lokudinga kunye nokukhanya okucokisekileyo kubhaptizo olungcwele ngamanzi nomoya. Kuwe siwa, uMama kaThixo u Vyshnyago, thandaza: Yiba nomsa ngale nyina, ufike ngexesha lokuba unina, uthandazele uThixo wethu uThixo oye wazalwa kuwe, wamqinisa ngamandla akhe avela phezulu. Amandla akhe uyasikelelekile kwaye adunyiswe, kunye noYise osekuqaleni, kunye noNwabongwe noNomusa nokunika uMoya wakhe, ngoku naphakade naphakade naphakade. Amen.
Izihlobo kunye neentsapho zinokuthandazela impilo yengane iThikvin Icon ye-Mother of God:
Wena Uninzi Oyingcwele uMoya, iNtombikazi,Londoloza kwaye ulondoloze phantsi kwam indawo yam yokukhusela abantwana bam (amagama),
Bonke abaselula, amantombazana amancinci kunye neentsana,
Ubhaptizwe kwaye ungabi namagama kunye nasesibelekweni sikanina.
Ukumboza ngobuncwane boMama bakho,
Ukuzigcinela ukwesaba uThixo nokuthobela abazali,
Imithandazo yeNkosi yam noNyana wakho,
Ngamana angabanika izinto ezincedo ukuzisindisa.
Ndibazisa ekuhlolweni kwakho koomama,
Ngokuba wena unguKhuselo lukaThixo kumakhoboka akho.
Unina kaThixo, ndikhokele emfanekisweni woMama wasezulwini.
Philisa umphefumlo wam kunye namanxeba omzimba bam abantwana (amagama),
Izono zam zenziwe.
Ndinika umntwana wam ngentliziyo yonke eNkosini yam uYesu Kristu nakwaKho,
eyona nto iyinyulu, ukukhuselwa kwasezulwini.
Amen!
Umthandazo kumama onesidingo
NgamaKristu aseOthodoki kuyinto yesiko ngaphambi kokuzalwa komfazi okhulelweyo ukuya ecaweni , avume kwaye athole ukudibana. Akuqhelekanga kumfazi ofunda umthandazo ukuba athabathe intlungu, ayeke ukuphuma kwegazi, iintsana kufuneka zizalwe ziphilile. Amandla omthandazo omangalisayo aqhelekileyo kumakholwa amaninzi, akuyiyo into yokuba okhokho bethu bancike ngokupheleleyo kuyo. Umthandazo uncedo lweNkosi, ngoko kutheni kufanelekile kwi-shishini elinzima kwaye linobungozi, ngokukodwa njengoko ixhalabele kakhulu umntwana wakho. Kwaye akubalulekanga kakhulu ukuba uya kuba ngubani
Kubalulekile ukuguqa ngomthandazo emva kokubeleka ngaphambi kokuba uphawu lukaMama kaThixo lube "olumzimba". Unceda oomama abanalo ubisi abalahlekileyo okanye ukuba loo ntokazi ichaphazeleka kakhulu ngenxa yokudakumba kwexesha lokugqibela . Intombi eYilisiweyo iya kunika amandla okujamelana nesi sifo kwaye iphelise imvumba. Emva kwakho konke, akusiyo into yokuba oogogo bawondla abantwana babo ngobisi lwebele kuze kube yiminyaka emibini okanye emithathu kwaye bebengayazi ukuba zithini ukuxinezeleka kwangemva kwesithuba kunye nezinye iingxaki. Kwakukholelwa ukuba kwakunjalo kwangaphambili nguNkosi uThixo ukuba unina kufuneka aluse umntwana wakhe ngobisi lwebele, edlula kunye nothando lwakhe kunye nokunyamekela.