Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ucinga ukuba uhlala engaphumeleli ebomini: akukho nto iphuma, izinto zihamba kakubi. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu banokuziva bazixhomekeke kwabanye abantu, kwiqabane. Ukuze ube ngumntu onempumelelo, umntu kufuneka akholelwe kuwe. Impumelelo ifumaneka ngabo baqhubela phambili ngaphandle kokuma kwiingxaki kunye nokungaphumeleli. Indlela yokuyeka ukuba yixhoba ebubudlelwaneni kwaye ufunde indlela yokumelana nokufumana ukuzithemba-le mibuzo neminye iphendulwa yenzululwazi yengqondo.
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Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezilula kubantu abafuna ukuguqula ubomi babo:
- Awuyi kuba lixhoba ebubudlelwaneni . Musa ukukhathazeka malunga nantoni na abanye abantu abangakucinga ngako. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukuonwabela ulonwabo, kufuneka azame ukuyeka ukucinga ngendlela abanye abantu abasabela ngayo kwizenzo zakhe. Awukwazi ukukholisa wonke umntu kwaye, uzama ukwenza oku, umntu uba lixhoba lezimvo zabanye abantu. Enyanisweni, ubudlelwane nabantu abasondeleyo bafuna ukunyaniseka kunye nokuvunyelwa, kodwa omnye kufuneka ahlale ecinga ngaye, malunga neminqweno yakhe, iinjongo kunye namaphupha. Umntu onomdla kwaye othembekileyo uyaba nomdla kwabanye, kwaye baya kuqikelela ngoluvo lwakhe. Kufanelekile ukuhlalutya abo baxhalabele kakhulu ukuba ngaba bafanelekile loo mava kunye nemihlatshelo.
- Akunakuba yixhoba emtshatweni . Izikhalazo eziqhubekayo malunga nento ejikelezekileyo kunye nokukhangela okukhulu ukungathandabuzeki kwamchaphazela iimbandezelo zomlingane kwaye kwenza ukuba ixhoba live likhulu ngakumbi. Ngomntu ofuna ukuba ngumntu onwabileyo, ufuna ulonwabo kulwalamano, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ulahlekelwe ukuzithemba kunye nezikhalazo eziqhubekayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu ebomini unamaxesha anzima kunye neemeko, kodwa kunqweneleka kakhulu ukugcina isimo sengqondo kunye nokukholelwa okulungileyo.
- Siphila ixesha elihle . Ixesha eliqhelekileyo kunye ne-monotony, iingxaki emsebenzini kunye neentsapho zithintela umntu. Ukukhathala okuvela kwisigxina sobomi kufuneka kukhutshwe ngezikhathi ezithile. Musa ukucinga rhoqo ngeengxaki, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uzixelele "uyeke" kwaye ulungiselele ukuphumla komphefumlo nomzimba. Oku akudingi imali eninzi okanye ixesha elininzi. Uhlala uthabatha ixesha lokwenza okuthile. Musa ukufuna izizathu, ukuba sicinga malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukuba yixhoba, kufuneka senze into!
- Iintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo . Kubantu abaninzi, ulonwabo loluntu luyintleko ehlekileyo kwinkampani yabantu abakhayo. Ngoko ke, kuyinqweneleka ukuzungeze kunye nabo bakuqonda kakuhle,
kunye nabo oziva ukhululekile. Nangona liqela elincinci labantu abaninzi. Akukho mfuneko yokuzama ukukholisa wonke umntu ojikelezayo. Inani labahlobo nalo alibonakali nantoni na. - Musa ukuvuyela ukuhluleka . Uninzi lwabantu luxinzezeleke kakhulu kwiintsilelo kunye neengxaki. Ukungaphumeleli komgca kuya kugqitywa kwaye kulungele ukudlulisa ngesithunzi.
- Sebenza kuwe . Umntu ngamnye, eba ngcono, uyaba nokholo. Umsebenzi oqhubekayo kuwe ukunceda ukuba ukholelwe kuwe, amandla akho kwaye ulahlekise ubunzima bexhoba.