Nangona kunjalo, nakwiminyaka yethu yobuchwepheshe obuphezulu, akunakwenzeka ukuqikelela ngesondo lomntwana ozayo nge-100%. Kuphela njengenduduzo, ukuprintwa kunye neenkcukacha ze-intanethi zinika izibini ezicwangcisiweyo ukusebenzisa "osondeleyo-zesayensi" kunye neendlela eziqhelekileyo, ezifana nekhalenda yezesondo zobuntwana bexesha elizayo, iitafile zamandulo zaseJapan kunye neTshayina, indlela yokuvuselelwa kwegazi , ukutya okukhethekileyo kwinkwenkwe okanye intombazana kunye nabanye, ukuya isiphelo asiyiyo indlela esekelwe kuyo. Zonke ezi ndlela zinxulumene kakhulu, kodwa ke, zinabo abancedisayo.
Makhe sicinge ngemigaqo-siseko kunye neempawu zomsebenzi zabanye babo.
Ukukhulelwa kunye nekhalenda yokucwangcisa abantwana
Uninzi lwabazali kunye nabantwana bexesha elizayo basebenzisa ikhalenda ekhethekileyo xa beceba ukukhulelwa, okukuvumela ukuba unqume ngesondo lomntwana ngomhla wokukhulelwa. Le ndlela isekelwe kwimimandla ye-physiology yabasetyhini kunye neendoda, izinto ezinjengeentsuku zokuya esikhathini, ukuvuthwa, ukuhanjiswa koqhagamshelwano lwezesondo kunye nokunye okuninzi kuthathwa ingqalelo. Le yindlela enye eyaziwayo, enemvelaphi yesayensi.
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ukukhulelwa kuyinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi yezinto ezininzi ezandulela ukukhululwa kweselom lesini yesini (ovulation) kunye nokungena kwe-spermatozoa, abathwali bempahla yesini, kwisini. Ama-gametes angamadoda kunye ne-Y-chromosome, enoxanduva lokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe, ininzi yeselula, kodwa iyancinci, ngoko ke bafa ngokukhawuleza kwimeko ye-acidic ye-female reprocttive tract. Abathwali be-X i-chromosome, abajongene nokuzalwa kwentombazana, ngokuchaseneyo, banokuhlala kwindawo yesini ngokwaneleyo. Ukuqwalasela oku ngasentla, isiphelo sichaza ukuba into ebalulekileyo, apho isondo lomntwana esizayo liya kuxhomekeka kuyo, ngumhla wokulala ngesondo. Ngokuchanekileyo: ngaphambi okanye emva kokuvuthwa, ulwalamano olusondeleyo lwenzeka. Kwimeko apho ubulili beentsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokukhululwa kweqanda mhlawumbi intombazana iya kuzalwa, kwaye ngokuphambene nomhla we-ovulation kwaye kamva iphakamisa amathuba okuthutha i-Y-chromosome yokuqala yokufikelela ekujoliswe kuyo.
Yingakho imibhangqwana ecwangcisa ukukhulelwa umntwana wesini esithile kunye nokuthembela kwikhalenda yokukhulelwa, kufuneka ukwazi usuku lokuhamba.
Ikhalenda leNkcazo yabantwana baseJapan
Abamemezeli bobugcisa baseJapan bamandulo baya kuba banomdla kwelinye indlela yokukhetha ngesondo somntwana ozayo ngoncedo lwekhalenda, oku kuthethwa ngokuba yitheyibhile yaseJapan (ngokuchanekileyo, ietafile ezimbini). Le ndlela isekelwe kwiinkolelo zabantu baseJapan kwintsimi efihliweyo kunye nokubaluleka komhla wokuzalwa komntu, kunye nenxaxheba yayo ebalulekileyo ekupheleni komntu ngamnye. Ulwazi lweenkwenkwezi kunye nokufundwa kweenkwenkwezi kwaye kwaqwalaselwa xa kuhlanganiswa amacwecwe. Namhlanje wonke umntu unokusebenzisa ikhalenda yaseJapan yokukhulelwe. Kwinqanaba lokuqala, inombolo ekhethekileyo imiselwe kwinqanaba leenyanga zokuzalwa kwabazali. Kwinqanaba lesibini letafile, inani elifunyenweyo lifaniswa nomhla weqhinga lokubambisa okanye esele lizaliswe. Ngenxa yoko, isondo somntwana ongakazalwa sinqunywe. Kulolu hlobo lungaqwalaselwa lithembekileyo, ibini ngalinye liza kuthatha isigqibo ngokwabo ngabanye.
Ikhalenda yeTshayina yokukhulelwa kwesondo lomntwana
Ayithandi kakhulu into ebizwa ngokuba yiTshayina itafile, egcina amava kunye nolwazi olungaphezulu kwesinye isizukulwana. Ngoncedo lwakhe, ezininzi izibini zikwazi ukuxela ngesondo lomntwana ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe. Ukongezelela, itafile yaseTshayina ilula ukuyisebenzisa: ngakwesinye icala, inani leminyaka elipheleleyo lomama ngexesha lokukhulelwa liboniswa, kwelinye - inyanga apho kucetywayo khona, kwintlupheko yezi zinto zibini, ubulili bomntwana ozayo luzimisele. Abanye bathetha ukuba le ndlela isekelwe kwikhalendari yenyanga, abanye bathi inkqubo ayikho into engaphezulu kwimiba emininzi yophando ekumiseni uxhulumaniso phakathi kobudala bomama kunye nenyanga yokukhulelwa.
Nangona kunjalo, ungakulibali ukuba iziprofeto zeetrafti zaseJapan nelaseTshayina zingachazwa ngokucacileyo, kuba emazweni ethu ukubalwa kwezinyanga kunye nobudala bomama, obuthatha ngokubala ngqo ukusuka ekukhulelwe, kwaye kungekhona ekuzalweni, kuyahluka.