Ebomini kwanoma yimuphi umntu, iimeko ezibuhlungu zenzeke, xa abantu abajikelezileyo behlazekile, behlazekile baze babe neentloni "zokuwela" emhlabathini okanye bangabonakali. Iimeko ezinjalo zihlala zide kwaye zibuhlungu buhlungu ngumntu, ziphindwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ezibangela ukuba umntu angene kwi-flagellation.
Indlela yokuphuma kwimeko engafanelekiyo?
Iimeko ezinzima - ezininzi, ukusuka nasiphi na ihlazo asiqinisekisiwe naliphi na umntu, kunye nanye ubuncinane kwezi zihlandlo ezingaqhelekanga zenzeke:
- ngethuba le ngxoxo, umntu ngokukhawuleza uyaqonda ukuba akayikhumbuli igama lomnxibelelwano aze abize elinye igama;
- ukuwa esidlangalaleni kwintlambo okanye kwindawo epholileyo, kwinqanaba;
- uye kwizothutho kwaye ukhumbule ukuba imali isele ekhaya;
- kwisitokhwe xa ubala ufumanisa ukuba akukho mali eyaneleyo.
Yintoni enokuyenza kunye nendlela yokuphuma kwimeko ehlazo xa sele yenzekile:
- Ukuvuma ngokunyanisekileyo inyaniso yokuba oku kwenzeka.
- Iimeko ezihlazo ziba yihlaya.
Imeko engalindelekanga kwintsebenziswano
Iimeko ezibuhlungu ebomini zizisa iintlungu ezininzi. Abantu abanobudlelwane: umtshato, unxulumene, iimeko ezinobungozi zobomi zifumana ubunzima kakhulu. Imizekelo jikelele:
- Ingxabano engalindelekanga ngexesha losapho okanye isidlo sakusihlwa, esiphelela ngokuthuka;
- Ukuxoxa ngomhlobo olahlekileyo okanye intombazana, ohlala ngexesha elingaphandle kwaye uvale intetho yonke.
Ukushiya "umile wamanzi" ngexesha loxhatshazo kuya kunceda ukuqonda ukubaluleka kwembono yabantu bonke kwaye bavume ukungalunganga kwabo. Kwiintsebenziswano kunye nabahlobo, ukuba bekuve into enyanyekayo yokuyifungela ngokwakho, umzekelo, ukuba intombi yayigwetyelwe ukuziphatha kwezolo, ungathi: "Ndandiyilungile izolo, ndazikhethela ngokupheleleyo!" Kuya kuba lukhulu ukuxolisa.
Imeko engalindelekanga ngomhla
Ubudlelwane sele buqalise ukuboshwa kunye neengalo ezinzima, njengokuba kunjalo, azikwazi ukuphetshwa kwizigaba zokuqala. Iimeko ezinzima kunye nomfana okanye intombazana enokuthi kwenzeke ngomhla kunye nento yokwenza ngayo:
- Ukuthula okungenangqondo. Unokusikisela isihloko sakho sencoko okanye uqale ukuthetha ngabathandekayo bakho, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ukuhamba.
- Isihloko esichaphazelekayo malunga nokubonakala, ubudlelwane bokuqala. Umda wobuqu kunye nokuphuma kwimeko inokuchukumiseka ngababini: xelela ngqo iqabane malunga nesihloko esingathandekiyo kuwe kwaye utshintshe ingxoxo kwenye ishaneli okanye uvuke uze ushiye ngaphandle kokuchazela nantoni na ukuba umntu uyavusa ubundlobongela.
- Indawo yokudibanisa - into edibeneyo, kwaye imeko iyanzima ngento yokuba umfana ucinga yonke ipenki, ucela isaphulelo. Intombazana nganye iya kuba neentloni (ukuba akayena umsindisi wamadoda angxaki). Kubalulekile ukuziqonda wena kunye nexesha lakho, ungahlali naloo mntu.
Iimeko ezinzima ngexesha lesondo
Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula i-heroine yochungechunge elithi "Ubulili kunye neSixeko" - uCarrie, elala embhedeni nomntu wephupha lakhe ngokungalindelekanga ... ama-farts, asemkhatsini wesifazana kunye nosizi iintsuku eziliqela. Mnu Big, umthandi wakhe uyamkhathaza kwaye ngexesha elifanayo uyamqinisekisa ukuba oku kwenzeka kumntu, kodwa uCarrie akayikunceda. Emva koko uMnu. Big Big farts okhuseleyo, kungekhona yonke into ephakamileyo, njengendoda. Kukho ukuphumla kwemeko, phezu kokuhleka kokutya. Iimeko ezinzima kakhulu ezenzeka ngexesha lesondo:
- ukugubungela kwisisu;
- Ukubethela izandi ezikhutshwa ngumfazi;
- ngokukhawuleza kwehla ukulungiswa kwamadoda;
- ngethuba lomlingane okanye ummemezeli womlingani okanye usenokukhwaza elinye igama.
Yintoni enokuyenza ngazo zonke iintloni:
- Ukuzihlaziya, njengoko kulungile.
- Isimo sokunyamekela kumlingane kunye neemvakalelo zakhe: ukuzola, ukunyamezela nokungenzi nto yentlekele.
Ungakulibala njani imeko?
Isimo esibuhlungu asiyena isizathu sokuzimela kunye nokuzithoba . Olu liva elifanele liqwalaselwe, kodwa ungayithwala ngomthwalo obalulekileyo ebomini. Yintoni enokukunceda ukuba ungakhumbuli:
- Abantu abafezekanga, ababuthathaka kunye nabasengozini, kwaye le nto inokwenene kunye nenkcubeko. Nabani na umntu ohlala kuyo, wafumana amava athethekileyo.
- Funda ukuqonda oko kwenzekayo ngokuzolileyo.
- Ngokukhawuleza xa kuvela umzuzu ongathandekiyo, ukutshintsha ingqalelo kwenye into: ukuhlambulula, ukuphulaphula umculo.
- Kubalulekile ukukhumbula: abanye abantu ngokukhawuleza bayalibala malunga noko kwenzekayo.