Ukunika amandla kuyimfuneko yomntu ngamnye, esiyihlakulela kulo lonke ubomi bethu. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba kunzima ukuhlakulela amandla kwaye kubonakala kulula ukuhamba nokuhamba, ukuthobela uqeqesho olunzulu. Kodwa, njengoko uConfucius wathi, "Umntu okhangela amathuba, engafuni-isizathu." Ngoko, kulula ukuphuhlisa amandla. Okokuqala, kufuneka ube nokuqonda okucacileyo oko, okokuqala, kukunika amandla. Ukuqaphela oku, awuyi kufuna ukuphazamisa amaphupha akho, umnqweno ngokusebenzisa izithintelo ezingenakucatshulwa. Emva koko, kutheni umntu adinga amandla? - Ewe, okokuqala, ukuze abe nobomi, malunga neliphi iphupha.
Ngamanye amaxesha amandla aya kuchazwa ngumbhobho, oqhuba umntu onobuqili, kodwa isimo sengqondo, okokuqala, asibi nakwizinto ezibhekiselele kuzo nakubomi bomntu.
Ukunika amandla kuyisiseko sokuzimela. Kukwazi ukunyamekela kwakho ngaphakathi ukuphumeza okucwangcisiweyo. Ukuze uyisebenzise, wena, njengokungathi uqokelela onke amandla angaphakathi azalisekileyo kwaye wenza isinyathelo eshukumisayo ekuphumeleleni ukufeza injongo yakho. Ngendlela elula, ubuchule bomntu ukulawula ubomi bakhe, ukucwangcisa izenzo zakhe (kunokuba iindawo zentlangano), kwaye ukuguqulela esi sicwangciso sibe yinyaniso.
Musa ukucinga ukuba kutheni umntu efuna amandla. Kufuneka usebenze ngokwemfuno endiyifunayo, ndenza. Iqela ngalinye kule nkcukacha lifuna inzame. Kwaye ukwenzela ukuba ekugqibeleni kwaye, ngokusemgangathweni, into ebalulekileyo ekusebenzeni, kuya kufuneka.
Amandla okuthanda kunye nomoya yomelela. Ezi ngcamango azikho ngokwahlukileyo. Ngombulelo wamandla, umoya ophakathi, umntu uphumelela iinjongo zobomi, ukunqoba ubunzima kwiindlela zokufikelela nokufezekisa, oko kuthetha ukuba amandla aya kuhambelana ngqo nomoya wabantu. Amandla omoya anamazwi amaninzi anjengoku: ukungakwazi ukuzithemba, ukuzithemba, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka.
Ngaphandle koko, amandla angenamandla okuthanda kunye nomoya uyazithengisa ngokunyaniseka, ukungakhuselekanga kwamagunya ayo, ukukhwaza, ukusola, kuxhomekeke kwimbono yesininzi, nokuba ngaba uninzi lwabantu abangaqhelekanga. Umntu onamandla obuthathaka omoya akanakho ukukholelwa ukuba unako ukuguqula ubomi bakhe ngendlela efanelekileyo, ayithandayo. Ukukhethwa kwakhe ngumlambo ofudumeleyo, owenza umsebenzi wakhe, ikhaya, iifowuni zeetyala, i-credit kwindlu. Intlambo yakhe efudumeleyo yinqanaba le-rat kwisangqa esichukumisayo. Umntu onjalo entliziyweni uyazi ukuba uyesaba utshintsho, uyesaba ukubonisa isibindi kwizenzo zakhe, kuba zonke izigqibo zeSoviets zinikeza ukungathandabuzeki okuninzi "ukuba-ngokukhawuleza".
Intsimbi iya kuba namandla kunye nomoya onamandla
Ukuze ukomeleze amandla okuthanda kunye nomoya, kufuneka uhambelane nemithetho ethile eya kukunceda ukunqoba iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, kholelwa ekufezeni iinjongo zakho, ngokwakho:
- Yiba nethemba, soloko uhlela ukuphumelela. Akumangalisi ukuba kwihlabathi ezininzi izihloko zokuqeqesha ngokwengqondo zithunyelwa ngokukhethekileyo ekuphuhliseni ukucinga okulungileyo. Musa ukulibala ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzeke ntoni imeko ephosakeleyo kuthi, kusoloko kunokwenzeka ukufumana inzuzo kunye neenzuzo ekuphuhlisweni kwamandla. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umphathi wakho ngokungalindelekanga "uyakukholisa" ngomsebenzi owongezelelweyo ngeveki, qwalasela le "sipho" njengethuba lokuqeqesha umonde wakho nokuphucula isimo sengqondo kuyo nayiphi na imeko.
- Lahla ukwesaba nokungathandabuzeki. Uyazi ukuba ubomi buhle kungekusasa kungekhona izolo, kodwa okwangoku. Musa ukulinda iqela elimnyama. Ekugqibeleni, uyihobise idiza yakho ngemibala eqaqambileyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukwesaba kwethu akunangqiqo. Kuphela xa udibana ubuso nobuso ngoyiko lwakho, uyaqonda ukuba uyintoni amandla akho, uvavanye amandla akho, ukulungela kwakho ukujamelana nobunzima obuhlukahlukeneyo.
- Zithande. Zenzele uthando. Kule nto kuphela uya kuqala ukuhlonipha
yakho yokuzilibazisa, ukhetho lwakho, umsebenzi wakho. - Abantu abathembekileyo. Khumbula ukuba ukuthembela kuhlala kubambisana. Abantu, nakuba ungaqhelekanga kuwe, bazive bekholose kuwe. Kwaye, nangona kwenzeka ukuba ukhohlisiwe, esi siganeko esibi siza kufumana izenzo zabantu abathembekileyo kwidilesi yakho.
- Khumbula kuphela okulungileyo. Ukukrazula ingqumbo. Funda ukuxolela, okokuqala, wena nabanye. "Khululwa" okungalunganga. Uyakwazi ukukutshabalalisa ngaphakathi, ukukhupha zonke iintlobo zezifo.
Kutheni sifuna amandla okuthanda namandla okucinga? Ngaphandle kwabo, umntu ebomini akaphumeleli mpu melelo, akanakuvuyela ubomi ngemizuzu yonke.