Ubomi bomfazi oneminyaka eyi-10 buba nzima kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, ukuzinza kwangaphakathi kunye nokulinganisela kuya kuhlala kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukucamngca kuya kunceda ukubuyela kwimithombo yomphefumlo wakho. Abaninzi abasetyhini namhlanje bathanda ukuphuhliswa kokomoya, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo bakhetha ukuzisebenzisa ezi zinto zifaneleke kakhulu kumadoda. Okwangoku, kwihlabathi kukho iingcamango ezikhethekileyo ezicwangciswe ngokukodwa kubasetyhini. Fumana ngokwakho, utshintshe iimpawu zobomi bakho, thola uxolo kwaye ufumene umthombo wamandla amabhinqa- konke oku ngaphantsi kwamandla eengcamango zabasetyhini. Siza kuthetha ngabo namhlanje.
Ukucamngca "Ukuzixolela" Kwabesetyhini
Sithatha kakhulu ukuthobela uxanduva kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo. Ukuhlawula isenzo esinye sezinto ezithandwa ngumfazi, okwangoku, uvimba amabhinqa amandla. Emva koko, enye yeendawo zethu eziyinhloko uluthando, okokuqala, okokuqala, kufuneka luqale ngokuzithandana. Masizame ukucamngca ngempumelelo "Ukuzixolela":
- Hlala kwindawo ekhululekile kwaye ukhulule zonke izihlunu zomzimba wakho;
- ukuphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo ibinzana elithi: "Ngothando olupheleleyo nangombulelo olungapheliyo, ndiyithethelela kwaye samkele into endiyenzile nguThixo. Ndizixolela ngenxa yam engcinga, iimvakalelo nezenzo. Ndiyamthanda. "
Unokuzama ukwenza oku kucamngca, uhleli phambi kwesibuko uze uphendulele ekubonakaliseni kwakho. Zama ukuba nokunyaniseka kwamagama akho ngokusemandleni akho.
Ukucamngca "amandla amabhinqa"
Bambalwa abantu bayazi ukuba sinokucamngca ngokunyusa amandla amabhinqa ngokubandakanyeka kumsebenzi wabasetyhini bansuku zonke. Ukubonelela ukuba kusivuyisa kwaye kuzalise uxolo. Kodwa namhlanje sikunikezela ukuzama ukucamngca, okujoliswe ekuwandiseni amandla amabhinqa avela kwisibeletho sethu:
- Vala amehlo akho kwaye ugxininise yonke ingqalelo yakho kwisibeleko;
- Ukunxilonga, ukuxubha imisipha yangaphakathi;
- ekuphumeni komfanekiso ucinga ukuba ubele lwakho lukhula kangakanani, kwaye luzaliswe ngamandla;
- phinda amaxesha angama-15 de ukuvalelwa kwe-pulsation yangaphakathi;
- ngoku ekuphumeni komfanekiso kucinga ukuba ngeenyawo zakho amandla eMhlaba adlula, ephakama kwisibeleko aze azalise;
- cinga ukuba ngexesha ngalinye isisu kunye namandla okwandisa. Izalisa igumbi, ngoko umzi, uhlawule ngokobukhulu bomhlaba, uze uzalise iphela;
- Cinga ukuba ujikeleza kwi-pulsation yendalo yonke, eyenza ukuphakama kunye nehlabathi elitsha. Uyingxenye yale mandla amakhulu;
- emva kokuqala ukucima isikhala. Okokuqala ukuya kubukhulu bomhlaba, ngoko-ilizwe, emva-kwisixeko, njalo njalo kude kube buyela kwimida yesisu sakho;
- bulela le ndawo kwaye uvule amehlo akho.
Ukucamngca "indoda yangaphakathi kunye nomfazi ongaphakathi"
Ibhinqa ngalinye lithwala ngokwayo, kungekhona kuphela lona wesifazane, kodwa namandla omntu. Umgaqo wesetyhini uphila, kuthatha amandla e-cosmos, ngelixa i-masculine, ngezenzo, ibandakanya lo mandla. Xa sithintela (okanye singasebenzisi) naliphi na amandla, oku kubangela ukuphulwa komthetho. Ukongezelela, ngokuvula indoda yakho yangaphakathi kunye nomfazi, unokwakha ubuhlobo obuhambelanayo kunye neqabane lakho lokwenene. Ekubeni zonke iimpazamo ezikukhathazayo ngokukhethekileyo kwiqabane lakho - akukho ngaphaya kokuzibonakalisa kwakho.
Vala amehlo akho uze uzame ukubona imifanekiso yamandla akho ebhinqa namabhinqa ngendlela yabantu ababini. Cinga ukuba bajonga omnye nomnye. Umntu ngamnye uvakalelwa njani ngeli xesha?
Zama ukulanda nokuphulaphula ukucamngca kwabasetyhini "indoda yangaphakathi kunye nomfazi ongaphakathi." Ziqhelisele kude ulwalamano phakathi kwamaqabane akho angaphakathi luhambelana kakhulu.
Ukongezelela, unokucamngca, uphinde uphinde uqinisekise. Kukho ubungqina obuninzi obulungele abesetyhini abasetyenziselwe impumelelo, kwaye oku kucamngca kunceda ukuhlangabezana nesigxina sokudala emsebenzini, ukunyaniseka okanye ukungakholelwa kwimandla abo. Isiphumo sesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo asiyi kuthatha ixesha elide!