Kwimimandla yanamhlanje, imigaqo nemigama eyahlukeneyo isetyenzisiweyo, abantu abaninzi abayiqonda ngokungafanelekanga okanye bahlale bengaziwa. Kule meko, sincoma ukuba siqonde ukuba ngubani umculi kunye nendlela umntu eba ngayo.
Abantu abaninzi, bejamelana nobomi kunye nemithintelo eyahlukeneyo, bazakhele ezinye izithintelo ezinokuthi zibandakanyeke kunye nokuzingca. Namhlanje, umculi ngumntu olahla ukuziphatha nokuziphatha, kwaye akakholelwa ekubulungiseni kweengcamango zabantu. Isizathu sale mvukelo singabikho, zombini isikhundla, kunye nokudumala kwiindlela zentlalo. Kubonakaliswa ukuzihlukanisa, ukungoneleliseki nokudideka.
Kuthetha ukuthini intshutshiso?
Ama-Cynics abhekwa njengengqondo, kuba baqonda iziganeko njengoko bengabaniki umbala ontle okanye ongekho.
Iinkalo eziphambili:
- Ekubeni badidekile ebomini, babonakaliswa ngokunyaniseka nangengqiqo.
- Kuba abantu abanomngcipheko malunga nento yonke, kunye nezinto ezingenakwenzeka, njengoko uyazi, azikho, kwaye oku kusebenza kubantu.
- Ukuqonda oko kuchazwayo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abantu abanjalo banemibono ebonakalayo yehlabathi kunye nenkqubo yabo yexabiso ihluke kwifomu yendabuko.
- Abantu abaxhasiweyo bayaqiniseka ukuba yonke into esemhlabeni inexabiso layo, kwaye iimpawu zokuziphatha nezomoya ziqulunqwe ngabantu ukudala ubomi obumnandi.
- Abazibambeli kwiingxelo zabo kwaye abayiki ukubonakala bengalunganga, ngoko bahlala bekhubekisa abantu, ekugqibeleni baholele ekubeni banesizungu .
- Iimpawu kunye neempawu ze-cynic nazo zinokubangelwa ngumnqweno wokufezekisa okufunwa yiyiphi na, kunye neendlela zokuziphatha okubi.
- Abantu abanjalo bayamangalisa kwaye baqhayisa.
Iimpawu ezintle
Ukuqonda ukuba ngubani umculi-mntu, umntu akanako ukuphawula ukuba kukho iimpawu ezilungileyo. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuzola kwakhe, oko kukuthi, akayi kukhwankqiswa ngenxa yokungaphumeleli, kodwa akayi kuvavanywa yimicimbi efanelekileyo. Kwiimpawu ezintle eziluncedo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, umntu unokubonisa ukuba kubakho ukubala okubanda, oko kukuthi, emsebenzini nakweminye imisebenzi abaphazamiseki ngamava angamazwi aphazamisayo kwingcamango engundoqo.
Indlela yokuba ngumculi?
Abantu abaninzi abaye baxhalabiseka ezininzi, ebantwini nakubomi ngokubanzi, bazama ukuzikhusela, ngoko ke bazama ukuzingca. Kukho imigaqo emininzi eyimfuneko kubantu abanjalo:
- Yiba wena kwaye unqande ukulungelelanisa kwiimeko zobomi. Ama-Cynics ahlala enza nantoni na ayifunayo, ngaphandle kokuqwalasela ukuba abanye abantu bacinga ntoni. Kubo, nguyena oyintloko.
- Yiya kwinjongo yakho nantoni na. Ama-Cynics, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ahamba phezu kweentloko zabanye abantu, ngobuqili, athatha abanye, ngokubanzi, basebenzise zonke iindlela zokufumana oko bafuna. Kubalwa kubanda kunye nesicwangciso esilungiselelwe kakuhle kubo.
- Khumbula ukuba ama-cynics ayengqinelaniyo, oko kukuthi, iimvakalelo zibalahlekile kubo, ukulibala ngokuvuya, ukuzisola, inceba, njl. Naziphi na iziganeko kufuneka zibonwe njengeyinyani.
- Ungesabi ukuthetha uluvo lwakho kumntu, kwaye ukhethe amagama ukuze kungabikho mntu okhubekileyo. Abantu baseCystical, bazi ububuthakathaka bomntu, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kucinezela ukuba bafumane inzuzo.
- Yenza "ucoceko" phakathi kwabantu abakujikelezile, nangona abahlobo abaninzi baya kulahleka ebomini bakho xa uqala ukusebenzisa imithetho yokuphila yabangelwayo. Ukongezelela, uninzi lomkhungululi uyedwa onokuzithemba ngokupheleleyo yena.
- Ungazikhanyeli nto nantoni na, kuba into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuzonwabisa, kwaye akuxhomekanga kwiimfuno zabanye abantu.