Oomama abaninzi bayazi ukuba ngeenyanga ezintandathu umntwana usenokufunda ukuhlala. Ukufumana olu buchule linika umntwana ithuba lokuba akhangele, ukuze abone ihlabathi ngendlela entsha, kuba kwindawo yokuma ilula kakhulu. Umzuzu xa umntwana efunda ukuhlala ngexesha lokufumana ezintsha, isigaba esilandelayo sophuhliso. Yingakho abanye oomama bafuna ukunceda umntwana wabo kule nto. Qhubeka ukhumbula engqondweni ukuba umntwana akanako ukulungele isakhono esitsha, nangona sele sele sele eseneenyanga ezintandathu. Inyaniso kukuba bonke abantwana bahlakulela ngokungafaniyo, kunye neenkcukacha zobdala kwizakhono ezithile.
Kutheni ungafaki amantombazana?
Ngoko, umntwana wayeneminyaka eyisithandathu ubudala. Kodwa akafundile ukuhlala, kwaye unina onomdla ufuna ukukunceda ukufumana olu buchule. Masifunde kubantwana besithathu ukuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubeka intombazana ezintandathu kwiinyanga, ukuba yena ngokwakhe akakwazi ukukwenza. Abantwana bakhula ngeerhafu ezahlukeneyo. Abanye abantu abanakho ukufumana inkqubo ye-musculoskelet ngeenyanga ezintandathu. Kule meko, ukuhlala phantsi kwangaphambili kuza kubonakalisa ingozi kumntwana, kuba Umthwalo kumagqabi akhe, ngakumbi umgudu, uya kuba namandla kakhulu. Oku kunokukhokelela ekukhuleni ukukhubazeka okuqhubekayo.
Impendulo yombuzo othi kungani kungenakwenzeka ukuba amantombazana atyalwe kwiinyanga ezili-6 kukuba ukuba ukunyanzelwa kwesi siganeko kusongela ukuguqulwa komlomo wesibeleko ngenxa yemithwalo emininzi yomsebenzi, kunye neengxaki ezizayo ngokukhulelwa. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ulinde de kube umntwana ekulungele - uya kuphawula.
Ekuqaleni kuya kuba nemizamo engaqinisekanga, umntwana angakwazi ukuwa kwicala elinye, ngokuthe ngcembe azuze kwaye umntwana wakho ufunde ukuhlala ngokuzithemba. Ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke oku, abazali bafuna umonde nokuqonda.