Yintoni enokuyenza umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-10?

Kubonakala ngathi kutshanje uye wangenisa intombazana yakho ethandekayo esibhedlele-kwaye ngoku uya kuba nomsitho wakhe wokuqala kwiinyanga ezimbalwa. Enyanisweni, abazali abanomdla banomdla kwizinto ezingenziwa ngumntwana kwiinyanga ezili-10 kwaye nokuba konke kulungile naye. Emva koko, ngumnyaka wokuqala wobomi obalulekile ekuphuculeni kwengqondo kunye nokwenyama komntwana.

Izakhono ezibaluleke kakhulu kule minyaka

Ngeli xesha, umntwanakho ufunda ngokuphangaleleyo umhlaba onomdla kunye onokumangalisa kuye, ngoko ke inani lezakhono zamandla liyakhula, kwaye ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kuya kwizinga elitsha. Ngoko makhe siqwalasele oko umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukwenza iinyanga ezili-10:

• phu laphule intetho enkulu kwaye uxelise izandi zayo;
• unomdla wokuthintana nabanye abantwana;
• sabela kwiintlanzi ezithethwa kwidilesi yakhe;
• ukuhlafuna ukutya okutyunyiwe;
• Ukukwahlula ngeentetho ezihlekisayo kunye nokuzihleka ngokuzonwabisa;
• ukuhlala ngokuzinzile ngesifuba;
• bakwazi ukufaka into enye phakathi komnye;
• ugcine kakuhle kwaye uphathe izinto ezincinane kakhulu;
• uhlale, ukhawuleze uhambe ngeenyawo;
• ukugqithisa imoto, ukutshiza i-tumblers okanye ibhola;
• ukufumana into enye ngoncedo lomnye;
• ukulahla ngamabomu umdlalo.

Ukuba ungumzali wentombazana encinci okanye inkwenkwezi enomdla, mhlawumbi uyaqhenyiswa yinto eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho kwiinyanga ezili-10. Inkwenkwe sele ifuna ukujonga njengomntu omdala, ujonge ukukopisha ubuso bakho kunye nesenzo. Kule minyaka, imidlalo edlalwa yimibala elula ibonwa njengesiqhelo: umntwana usondeza idonki okanye ibhere le-teddy, ugawula izibambo ngaphantsi kwamanzi, ucinezela amaqhosha kumathoyizi, uhlabe isigubhu, njl.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina umkhondo wento eyenziwa ngumntwana kwiinyanga ezili-10, nokuba iyintombazana okanye ummeli omncinci wesini esomeleleyo. Kumele ahlale engenaye iminwe yakhe: musa nje ukuwubamba uze uwususe emlonyeni wakho, kodwa emva kokuyeka. Xa kungabikho kolu buchule, kungcono ukudibana neurologist. Ngamanye amaxesha i-crumb ngexesha lomdlalo liyakucoca phantsi kwempumlo: oku kuqhelekileyo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo kubantwana kule minyaka ibonakala umsebenzi ozithandayo. Ngako oko, kwingxoxo yabamama ekuxubusha into eyenziwa ngumntwana kwiinyanga ezili-10, uvame ukuva ukuba umntwana uthanda ukudansa kumculo, ukudweba, ukuqokelela ipiramidi, ukukhupha i-rump okanye flip incwadi. Akukho mda umda lo msebenzi - kwaye uya kuba nako ukukhula nomntu odibeneyo onengqondo epheleleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana wale minyaka uthanda ukuzakhela ngokuzimela , amaqoma , amanqwanqwa, okusanhlamvu, iintlobo ezivela kwisitya esinye ukuya kwesinye (kodwa ungakulibali ukujonga ukuba akawuthabathi emlonyeni wakhe), kwaye udlale imidlalo yeminwe kunye neengqungquthela zokunyumba.