Ukulinda umntwana lixesha elivuyisayo kubazali bexesha elizayo, ixesha leenjongo ezinkulu kunye nethemba. Ukulungiselela ukuzalwa komntwana, umntu uthenga isigxina sesitolo kwaye akukho nanye, kodwa umntu okholelwa enkolelo nje ubhala uluhlu lwezinto zonke eziya kulufuna uhlalutyo kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi bakhe. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo phambi komama ngamnye ozayo umbuzo uvela: ingaba uthenge i-pacifier yintsana? Akukho mpendulo engaqondakaliyo, bonke abantwana ngabanye, kwaye kuphela umntu ozelwe ngumntwana othe wanyula ukuba uyamfuna okanye cha.
I-dummy iyimfuneko yokuqala?
Ingaba kunika i-pacifier kwintsana, ngamnye umama kufuneka azenzele isigqibo. Okokuqala, oku kufumaneka kwintsana kunceda ukwanelisa i-reflex esondayo kwintsana. Ukuba umama uncelisayo, kwaye umntwana uyadla kakuhle, ngoko mhlawumbi umntwana ngokwakhe uya kunika ingono. Abantwana abanayo, abondliwa ngabantwana ngexesha elithile, banomdla ngokunyanzela i-pacifier, njengoko i-reflex yabo ayinelisekile ngokupheleleyo. Imeko efanayo kunye namawele - awanakho ukunakwa kwengqalelo ngokwamama ezimbini.
Indlela yokukhetha i-pacifier yintsana ingayi kuphendulwa nayiphi na ingcali, kuphela iziphakamiso ezinokunika. Umntwana wakho uya kukhetha uhlobo oluthandayo lweentsimbi kwaye akukho ngcebiso kwiingcali ezinkulu kule ndawo ayikho ukuthembeka kwakhe.
Kukho iindidi ezi-2 ze-pacifiers: i-silicone kunye ne-latex, eyona yokuqala iyomeleleka, kwaye ezi zilandelayo zikhawuleza. Iifom zeengono ziyahlukahlukileyo: zijikelezile, kwaye zimila, kunye nemifuyo. Abaninzi abakhiqizi beentlambo, bathengisa iimveliso zabo, bema ngeempawu zeempahla zabo (ukulungiswa, ukulingisa amabele amabhinqa), kodwa khumbula, umntwana wakho akanandaba nexabiso okanye isethi esongeziweyo yemisebenzi yengono, uya kukhetha okuthandayo, nokuba yinto elula kwaye ininzi ephantsi. Into efanelwe ukuthobela ingqalelo imbobo yeemingxuma emlonyeni weengono, ukuze i-dummy ayinamathele elukhumbeni lomntwana. Kwakhona, ukhetho olongezelelekileyo luyinto yokukhanya komlenze ebumnyameni, ngoko kulula ukuyifumana ebusuku ebusuku.
Ngaba ndifuna i-dummy yintsana, ndiphinda, ngamnye umama makenze isigqibo. Ngokwemvelo, ukuba unengxaki yokuncelisa, ke ngaphandle kwengxowa kuya kuba nzima ukulawula. Emva koko, ukuba umntwana uyakhala, kwaye ukugula kwesibhambathiso akunikezi niphumo, ke i-dummy iya kuba yintliziyo yakho. Ukuba unina unethuba lokunika isifuba, ngoko ke indlela engcono yokuzolalisa i-crumb ayifumanekanga, ekubeni umntwana, xa esebenzisa i-ingono ngokuqhelekileyo, uya kulibala indlela yokuqonda kakuhle ingono yomama, ubisi luya kuhamba kakuhle, kwaye umama nosana baya kufumana imiphumo emibi - ukwenqaba ukuncelisa. Yingakho umbuzo uvame ukucelwa ukuba ungathini, nokuba awuyi kufundisa njani umntwana osanda kuzalwa kwi-pacifier. Ingona, eqinisweni, ayiyona imbangela ecacileyo yokulahlwa kwengane, kodwa into eyongezelelweyo iqinisekile.
Iingcebiso zokusebenzisa i-dummies
Ukuba sithetha malunga nawaphi ama-pacifiers angcono kwiintsana, ngokuqinisekileyo-zicocekile! Phakamisa ngokupheleleyo i-pacifier phambi kokusetyenziswa, kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka, ke ubilise, kwaye akukho nto inokuthatha umntwana wakho emlonyeni wakho - yindlu yokugcina yazo zonke iintlobo zeebhaktheriya. Kuyinto engathandekiyo ukulinganisela i-pacifier entanyeni yomntwana, umtya okanye intambo ingaphazamisa ngephutha, kungcono ufumane ikhonkco ekhethekileyo eboshwe kwiingubo. Ndicinga ukuba wonke umama uyaqonda yonke imfuno yolu hlobo lokhuseleko. Iimbhokhwe, i-dummies eziza kutshatyalaliswa zingcono ukugqiba ukusebenzisa kancane kancane emva kokusebenza komntwana omnye unyaka, njengokuba kwixesha elizayo banokukhuphaza amazinyo kunye nokubunjwa kwezilwanyana ezingalunganga.
Khumbula ukuba i-dummy engcono kunazo zonke iintsana azikho, kwaye indlela eqinisekileyo yokuzinzisa umntwana ingqalelo, ifudumala kwaye inakekelwa ngumama. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokwanelisa nje ukuhlawula ngakumbi umntwana, banike uthando oluthe xaxa, kwaye sebenzisa ingono nje kuphela njengeyokugqibela.