Iimvumba ezintsapho

Eentliziyweni zentsapho, uthando kunye nokuvisisana zihlala zixoki, kodwa xa abantu beqala ukuhlala kunye, iziganeko ezininzi zengxabano ziyazalwa. Ukuba abafazi abangekhe bajonge ukunika omnye nomnye, amanqaku okubambisana kwabo afuna ukuxabana kwintsapho, eyonakalisa i-idyll yentsapho.

Izizathu zokuxabana

1. Umgangatho ohlukeneyo wemfundo . Ukuba abantu abancinci bakhuliswa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zentlalo, emva koko kungekudala kunyaka, imikhwa yomfazi iya kuqala ukucaphukisa umyeni wakhe kunye nokunye. Emva koko, oko kusetshenziselwa umlingani omnye kungenye indlela kwaye nangona umyeni ethatha isigqibo sokulungelelanisa intanda yakhe (okanye ngokuphambene naso), izazi zengqondo zithi ukunyamezela okunjalo kuwanele kwiinyanga eziyi-8-12.
2. Iingxaki zengxaki . Intsapho nganye incike ekutyekeni kwemali, tk. kuyimfuneko ukuhlawula indlu, i-nursergart, ukuthenga izinto kunye nemveliso, njl., kodwa ukuba akukho mali ngokwaneleyo yeengxabano eziyimfuneko ayinakukhutshwa. Kwiintsapho ezinezinga eliphezulu lemali engenayo, ezinye ixabiso - ukuphumla kwelinye ilizwe, ukuthengwa kweechts okanye ii-airplan, okuphambili kwisisombululo sokusombulula ezi "ngxaki" kwakhona zivela ezinkwenkqweni zentsapho.
3. Imilinganiselo eyahlukileyo . Akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi ngabafazi iinjongo eziphambili ziyafana, ukuba kubalulekile ukuba umfazi athathe umntwana kumfundo yomculo ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ngelixa umntu enqwenela ukutyelela iklabhu yebhola ngexesha elo, ingxabano ayinakupheka.
4. Ukutshabalalisa ithemba . Ukuba intombazane nafantazirovala yona yindoda efanelekileyo, leyo yonke imihla iya kubangela iintyatyambo kwaye ziyibuke ubuhle bayo, emva koko, ukudumala kwakhe akuyi kuba ngumda, tk. kungekudala kamva loo mntu uya kuqala ukuziphatha ngendlela eqhelekileyo - uya kukulibala ngomsitho womtshato, kwaye angayihoyi "usuku lokuqala lokubamba," njl njl.

Indlela yokuphepha ukuxabana kwintsapho?

Iingcali ezininzi zeengqondo zithi umntu kufuneka akwazi ukuxabana. Okokuthi, ukuba imeko yongquzulwano ivela kwintsapho, ngamnye umtshato kufuneka akwazi ukufumana iindlela zokulungisa ingxabano kwaye uzame ukulungisa ingxaki.

Ukuba kukho ukungquzulana kwintsapho, ngoko kukubaluleka ukufumanisa isizathu esiyintloko, oku kufuna "umbono ukusuka kwicala". Ngokomzekelo, unokubhala phantsi iimvakalelo zakho ngexesha lokulwa kwaye uphendule imibuzo - yintoni eyayibacaphukisa, yintoni "eyaxhamla" kakhulu. Emva koko sifuna ukuxoxa ngazo zonke iinkcukacha zengxabano kunye nesiqingatha sesibini kwaye uzama ukufunda indlela yokuxhasana ngayo, kwaye ungasolanga.

Yintoni enokuyenza xa ukuxabana kwintsapho kunesizathu esicacileyo, kodwa kubangelwa ukukhathala komntu omnye okanye bobabini. Kule meko, iingcali zincoma ukuphumla okuhlangeneyo, kungabikho kwimeko kuphela. Ekubeni, ukuphumla ngokuhlukileyo, iifom ezingathandekiyo-enye ilungile, kodwa kwintsapho imbi, ngoko ke kufuneka uhlanganyele kunye neentsapho zentsapho, kodwa ucebise ngokuzonwabisa.