Phendula ngokunyanisekileyo kumbuzo othi: "Ngethuba lonyaka, ngaba uke waphikisana nomntu, nangenxa yezizathu ezincinane?" Kukho ukuphakama okuphezulu ukuba uninzi luya kuphendula kakuhle. Emva kwakho konke, iingxabano - oku kungabikho kokuqonda okungaqhelekanga, isivumelwano phakathi kweqela, abantu ababini kwaye kubalulekile ukwazi nganye indlela yoxolo.
Iingcali zengqondo zanamhlanje ziba nombono wokuthi ukungahambisani kwemibandela kunokwenzeka kwi-ideal, ekuqalekeni kweqela. Kwaye isizathu esiyinhloko, esiba yi-apple yokungahambelani ekunxibelelaneni kwabantu, kubakho ubuninzi beentlobo ezahlukeneyo zobuntu:
- buhlungu;
- abadala abadala;
- ngokugxeka kakhulu;
- engadanga;
- ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo, njl.
Iindlela kunye neendlela zokusombulula iingxabano
- Ukungqinelana. Ukuba unamathela kule ndlela yokuphuma kwiimeko ezinzima ezingqubuzanayo, ngoko kufuneka uvumele inxenye ukwamukela isikhundla sakho. Ngombulelo kwisisombululo sokungqubuzana, ingxabano isonjululwa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa akukho siqinisekiso sokuba ngale ndlela uzakufumana isizathu sokuvela koxinzelelo kulwalamano.
- Ukuqeda ukuxabana kwezentlalo, sebenzisa iindlela ezilandelayo zokusombulula:
- ungene kwinkqubo yokunxibelelana nomdlali wakho (uxoxiswano, unxibelelwano, ungenayo imibala engqondweni, ibhalelwano lezorhwebo);
- nzisane. Ukubandakanya kwicala eliphambili lomsebenzi olinganayo, iinkokeli zeqela zithembela ekudaleni ingongoma engaphandle yongxaki, imizamo ehlanganyelene nayo ekunokwenzeni ukunqoba ukungavumelani;
- ukunyaniseka - sebenzisa amanyathelo angancibilikisa iqhwa lokuchasana (umzekelo, xelela umchasi wakho malunga nezenzo zakho, ugxininise ukuba zijoliswe kwisisombululo esifanelekileyo kwimeko.