Intsapho efanelekileyo ayinayo imithetho efanelekileyo ngenxa yokuba ezinjalo iintsapho azikho. Nangona, kunjalo, wonke umntu unokuqonda kwakhe okufanelekileyo kwaye sonke siyazama. Namhlanje, makhe sithethe ngemithetho apho zonke iintsapho ezizihlonelayo zifanele ziphile.
Ukuba izikolo zifundiswa ukugxininisa izihlandlo zobomi bentsapho, ixabiso kunye nezithethe, ngoko impumelelo yemitshato iya kukwandisa. Abantu abaselula abangena kwimanyano engcwele bahlala bengenalo ingcamango yolu hlobo lomsebenzi.
Silandela imithetho
Ubomi obatshatileyo kufuneka buqale ngokunyaniseka nokunyaniseka ngokumalunga nomnye. Abaza kutshata bafanele baqaphele izenzo zabo, baqiniseke ngokukhetha okhethiweyo.
Intsapho yinkcubeko encinci, ukuba, ukuze baphile ngoxolo, kufuneka imise imithetho yayo encinane kwaye ihloniphe. Imithetho yokuziphatha yentsapho iquka:
- kuyimfuneko ukuba baqaphelane njengelona xabiso eliphezulu;
- ukunyamekela nokuthanda ngomfazi;
- imfesane kunye nenxaxheba ebomini babo bonke amalungu omndeni, ukuzimisela ukuza kuhlangula kunye nenkxaso;
- umnqweno okhuselekileyo wokukhuthaza intsebenziswano efana nentsapho;
- ukugatya ukuzingca nokugxila kwiminqweno yabanye.
Imigaqo yoqhagamshelwano kunye nobudlelwane kwintsapho kufuneka isekelwe ekuboneni inxaxheba yelungu ngalinye lentsapho. Sonke ngandlela-thile siyadlala indima zentlalo. Kwabazali, ngamnye wethu wenza indima yomntwana, emsebenzini sisebenza nabo, osebenza nabo, kwiziko - abafundi. Kwintsapho, njengalo naluphi na uluntu, sinabo "amaqela" athile. Ibhinqa lisebenza njengomfazi nonina. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukunyamekela indoda kunye nabantwana kubaluleke kakhulu kuye. Ukuhlonela umlingane, ukuqaphela ukuba uyintloko yentsapho, uthando kunye nomnqweno wokuba naye njengento yonke-esi simo sengqondo sifanele sibonwe ngabantwana. Bayaqaphela kakhulu, "lungisa" igama ngalinye uze ukopishe abazali babo kukho konke. Ngoko ke, kufuneka babonise umzekelo ofanelekileyo.
Umlingane naye, unyanzelekile ukuba athathele inxaxheba yomyeni nononophelo onomdla, umkhuseli wabantu abathandekayo abasondeleyo kuye. Isimo sengqondo sokuthuthumela kumfazi, inhlonipho nokumncoma. Akukho siganeko esinako
Ukuthenjwa kunye nentlonipho phakathi kwabantwana nabazali kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba unina unokuba ngumhlobo nomcebisi wenyaniso kwintombi yakhe, iingxaki ezininzi ekukhuliseni ziya kugwenywa. Yaye ungakulibala ukufaka abantwana kwimigaqo yokuqala yokuziphatha, ephuma kwintsapho. Ukuhlonipha abadala, inkcubeko yokunxibelelana nokuziphatha, imigaqo yokuphuza umyalelo wokuphuza - ngenxa yento yonke umntwana uya kuthi ke kuwe: "Siyabonga!".