Indoda yatshintsha into enokuyenza-ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo

Ubuqhetseba buvivinyo olunzulu kunoma yimuphi umbhangqwana. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yokubanjwa kwexesha elilodwa kunye nephutha, intsapho eqhelekileyo neyomeleleyo iyachithwa. Le ngxaki inzima kakhulu kwihlabathi lethu, kodwa usenako ukuphepha ukuhlukana, nangona kunzima ukwenza. Ukuze ugweme ukucwiliswa ngaphakathi kwakho kunye nokudandatheka okude, kulungile ukuhlawula iingcebiso eziza kukunceda ukubuyisela ukuziphatha.

Iingcebiso zengqondo ziza kukuxelela ukuba wenzeni ukuba indoda yakho ikukhohlise. Ngokwezibalo, i-80% yamadoda ishintshile kwaye oku malunga nesiqingatha kangangoko ukunyaniseka kwabasetyhini. Abasetyhini babandezeleka kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abanako ukumkela umntu omthandayo. Ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo, ukuba umyeni wakho utshintshile, ungalokothi wenze izinto ezikhawulezayo, ezinje:

• Musa ukugubha inyembezi ngezinyembezi;
• ungashiyi indlu;
• musa ukuthetha nomdlali wakho;
• Musa ukwenza nantoni na isisiphukuphuku;
• Ungasongeli umyeni wakho.

Phantse onke amabhinqa avuma zonke ezi mpazamo, ngenxa yokuba inomsindo ogqithiseleyo kunye negundanci eguqulwe kakhulu iphenduka iiger. Okubaluleke kakhulu, kukugcina isithunzi somntu kwaye ungalilahli uphawu. Ukuxhatshazwa, ukulwa, ukucaciswa kobudlelwane akuyi kubakho kwisiphumo esihle, kunceda ukuqonda ingxaki kuphela intetho ezolile kunye nengqiqo.

Indlela yokuphila emva kokungcatsha kwendoda yakhe - iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo

Ukuba uyamthanda umlingane wakho kwaye uzimisele ukugcina indawo yakho, kufuneka uqale ukufumanisa ukuba le nto ihamba ngexesha elilodwa, nokuba ingaqhubeka yini kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo. Kuwe, kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba ungahlala nayo, ungayikhumbuli ingxaki kwaye ungamgxothi umyeni wakhe. Ukwenza oku kunzima, kodwa kutheni ungazami, kuba uqaphela ukuba awukwazi kakuhle, unokusasaza.

Iingcebiso zeengqondo malunga nombuzo wento enokuyenza xa umyeni utshintsha, Kwimeko nganye iya kuhluka. Zininzi izinto zichaphazela oku, kwaye zonke zazo maziqwalaselwe. Ukuba uthethelela umlingane wakho, kuya kuthetha ukuba uyamthemba kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka aqonde oku. Ukuba akafumani isifundo kwiimeko ngokugwenxa, ngokuqinisekileyo uyaphinda.

Ukusebenzisa ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo, unokwenza isigqibo sokuba uqhubeke njani kwimiba ukuba indoda iyatshintsha. Isigqibo siya kufuneka senziwe ngokuzimela, kodwa ukuqonda ngxaki kufuneka kuchaneke. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ungazami ukuphindisela kwiqabane lakho. Unokutshatyalaliswa ngokupheleleyo umtshato. Musa ukwenza iimpazamo, kwaye isibini sakho esitshatileyo siya kusinda zonke iimpazamo kunye nokungavumelani.