Ukususela kwiminyaka apho bonke abafana abaza kuthiwa "fu", bahlala bephupha imishado, iingubo ezibalaseleyo, iifoto zeholide, uhambo lomtshato. Kwaye a makhwenkwe anjalo, iphoso ekubhiyozelweni.
Ngako oko, xa usuvele ucinga ngako konke ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni. Kwaye ngoku siyakunikela kwakhona (esele siphumelele ngakumbi), ukuhamba malunga nesihloko, apho ukugcina umtshato, mhlawumbi, ukuqwalasela ingqalelo ibhajethi enkulu.
Kuphi ukuchitha umtshato ungathengi?
Masiqale ngohlu lweenketho zokonga. Ngoko, apho ukuchitha umtshato ungathengi, kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo:
- Umtshato kunye yindlela ekhethekileyo yothando, eya kuhambelana nabantu abaneleyo kuphela. Ndiyavuma, akuyi kufuna ukuchitha imali kwisidlo seendwendwe, umfaki-zithombe, ngokuthanda, unokumema kuphela kwi-ofisi ye-registry, kwaye endaweni yazo zonke iingoma ezinobundlobongela kunye nemidaniso, isidlo sangomdla ezimbini.
- Ikhetho lesibini, apho indlela efanelekileyo yokuqhuba umtshato wezoqoqosho kunye nenani elithile leendwendwe yindlu okanye indlu (eyakho, okanye eyathandekayo). Ewe, le nguhlobo olungapheliyo, elowo osele lilibalile. Kodwa kwisayithi oyilondolozayo, kwaye yonke imithwalo yomsebenzi inokusasazwa phakathi kwe-ct kunye neentsapho zakho - akukho mntu uya kukwenzela ukukunceda ngethuba elithile. Ukongezelela, kuyaqinisekiswa - umtshato uya kuba unyanisekileyo kwaye unobunye.
- Inketho, apho ungabamba umtshato, ukuba unabantu abathandabuzayo, kunye nabahlobo bakho, njengokuba awuyi kunika ithuba lokuhamba ekampini. Yiya kunye nabahlobo bakho abafana nabantu abanomdla kwiofisi yokubhalisa kwi-jeans kunye namabhondi, kwaye ke bonke ndawonye kwibhasi yeso sixeko, hamba kwipiknikishi - umphathi wezonstitute uya kuba ngumntu osuka kumlingane wakho womphefumlo, umfaki-zithombe kunoma yiphi inkampani, naye. Ngenxa yoko, uya kuqhuba umtshato wokuqala kunye nomncinci.
- Kanti enye indlela, apho ukugcina umtshato omncinci, onabantu ababini kuphela-umtshakazi nomyeni. Olu khetho lomtshato-ndlela yokuhamba ngomtshato. Kukho uluhlu olubanzi lwamazwe apho ungabhalisa khona umtshato wakho, kwaye umtshato kwiziqithi ezikude uza kukunceda ukuba uchaze ukuba kutheni ungabamemeli iindwendwe. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba uchitha imali ngeliholide, kulunge ngokwakho, kangangokuthi iinkumbulo zazinqwenela ngokwenene.
- Inketho elula kakhulu ngumtshato ngexesha elishisayo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi apho ubamba umtshato ehlobo
kunye nabo bonke, ngenye indlela okanye enye, babhekisela kukunqoba kwendalo. Unokuyilula umtshato onjalo kwi-arhente, okanye unokuhlela yonke into. Kodwa kufuneka uqikelele ezinye zeempawu. Unokuyalela umphathi we-toastmaster, kodwa unokuphinda uxoxe kunye nabahlobo. Unokuyalela izixhobo zomculo nge "sound", oko kukuthi, uhlobo lwe-DJ, kwaye unokukwenza ngokucula iingqongwe. Ingaba ngumtshato osisigxina kunye nokuhamba, amahashe kunye ne-lackeys, okanye mhlawumbi ipikiniki yomtshato, apho ngisho nezambatho zakho eziqhelekileyo ziza kubakho. Kodwa khumbula: intsimi kufuneka ibe ngandlela-thile igcinwe kwaye ikhuselwe ekungeneni ngabantu abangabaziyo.