Iziganeko ezahlukeneyo ezinzima zenzeke kuthi nsuku zonke. Oko kuphela ukuba eUnited States kunoma yintoni na imeko inokwenzeka ukuba iphume ngokumomotheka, apho abemi beli lizwe babona njengomqondiso onesidima, ngoko le ndlela isoloko ingasiniki iziphumo ezifanayo. Unokuphuma njani kwiimeko ezihlazo ngaphandle kokuba idumela lakho limanzi?
Amantombazana akwiimeko ezibuhlungu zihlala zibuwula - okanye ziqala ukuhleka ngokuhlambalaza, okanye ukuhlambalaza, okanye ukuqala ukugubha kunye nokulahleka ngamazwi. Ngoko ke, umbuzo onzima kunabesifazane - yintoni enokuyenza kwimeko engathandekiyo? Ngokuxhomekeke kwizinto ezenzekile, enye yezinto ezilandelayo zinokukunceda kakhulu:
Guqula yonke ihlaya
Masithi awuzange uve oko bakuxelele, uye waphinda, kodwa awuzange uphinde uva. Ingcaciso ibalulekile, kwaye awukwazi ukubuza kwakhona okwesithathu. Kule meko, ungase uhleke: "Ndiyaxolisa, ndincinci namhlanje. Ngaba unokuphinda uphinda kwakhona? " Okanye: "Ndandifuna ukwenza ubuso, njengokungathi ndiyiqonda, kodwa isazela sam sasingandivumeli. Phinda, nceda! ".
Hambisa ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka
Masithi ushiye esibhedlele waza wakhumbula ukuba ususe iifotyi zesihlangu. Kwaye ke, uhamba esitalatweni, uqaphela ukuba wonke umntu uphenduka kuwe aze aqonde into ebalulekileyo. Kule meko, kufuneka uzichukumise, ususe iifotyi zeembadada apho ukhona kwaye ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka ushiye amehlo abo.
Ukuxolisa kwaye uchaze imeko
Khawucinge ngolu hlobo: uza kumsebenzi omtsha uze ubone intombazana enesisu esinamandla. Kwiinkqubo zonxibelelwano, uyavuyisana ngokuza kuba ngumama ... kodwa uyancipha kwaye uyiphukisa kakhulu. Nxusa uxolo kwaye uchaze ukuba kunoma yimuphi umntu ulungele ukubona umfazi okhulelwe, kuba wena ngokwakho uyafuna abantwana.
Iimeko ezibuhlungu ebomini, ngokwesini kwaye ngokubanzi kuyo nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo ukufunda ukunqoba ubuso obuzolileyo, nangona ungeke ukhululeke. Phatha oku ngokuhlekisa-okungazange kwenzeke kuye!