Akukho ntombazana enjalo engayi kuba nokuphupha ukufunda indlela yokwenza isondo. Oku akufundiswa ezikolweni nakumaziko, abahlobo bakho okanye unina akayi kukuxelela ngako. Konke ngenxa yokuba akukho mntu kunye nendlela efanelekileyo yokuba yintombazana okanye ibhinqa.
Okokuqala, siyabona ukuba kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka ethile yentokazi ethile. Ukuba kwiminyaka engama-20, i-mini skirt kunye nokuxhotyiswa okuqinisayo kunokuqwalaselwa ngokwesondo, ngoko-40-oku kuninzi. Kuzo zonke iidala, udidi kunye nomoya wangaphakathi wowesifazane, ungathabatha umfanekiso wakho okhangayo, uze ugxininise yonke imizamo yokufezekisa le nto.
Kwimeko enkulu kakhulu, indlela yokwenza isondo ixhomekeke kwintlungu yomfazi. Okokuthi, ukuba ibhinqa lilungile ngokuzithemba, ngoko nayiphi na idatha yedatha yangaphandle iba sidima sakhe. Yaye ukuba ahlala enganelisekanga ngokubonakala kwakhe-nokuba umzekelo wesibonakaliso akayi kutsala abantu.
Ngoko ke, okokuqala, kufuneka usebenze kwiingcamango zakho, kwiingcamango zehlabathi kunye nawe ngokwakho, ukwandisa ukuzithemba kuzo zonke iindlela.
Indlela yokujonga ngesondo?
Ngokukhangela ngesondo sithetha "ukukhanya" kwangaphakathi kwintombazana, xa ukhangeleka ngakwesinye icala - umfazi oqhelekileyo, kodwa-amehlo avuthayo, ukumamatheka kukhanyeka, konke kubonakala kubonakalisa ubulili. Yiyo ndlela yokuba yindoda enhle kunye nehle? Khumbula i-movie "Eyona nto inomtsalane kwaye inomtsalane"? Umlingisi oyintloko ufunda njani ukuphinda imihla ngemihla ukuba yena uyona mnqabileyo, obalaseleyo, ukuba uyathanda onke amadoda? Yenza okufanayo. Phinda uzenzele "Ndikhangelekile. Amadoda aya kuhlenga. Ndiyinqweneleka kwaye ndithandana. Ndinomzimba ongenakulinganiswa. " Siyakuqinisekisa, kwaye awuyi kuba nexesha lokujonga emva, indlela ukuzithemba kwakho kuvuke ngayo ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye amadoda aya kukunyamekela ngakumbi.
Enye indlela ebalulekileyo yokuphakamisa ukuzithemba ukunyamekela umzimba. Asiyithathi indlela efanelekileyo yokucoceka (nangona ngaphandle kwazo zonke), kwaye ngokunyamekela umzimba sithetha ukutyelela i-sauna, iiseshoni zokusilalisa, ukuxubusha, ukuhlanjululwa, njl. Ibhinqa elisandula ukutyelela i-salon elihle lihlala liziva likhethekileyo. Uvakalelwa njengowesifazane: onobubele, ohlambulukileyo, onomtsalane. Uziva ekhethekileyo kwaye eyingqayizivele.
Kodwa oku kukude kuzo zonke iinkcazo, indlela yokuba yimixube, ngoko siza kuthetha ngokubonakaliswa kwangaphandle kwezesini zesini.
Indlela yokuba ngumntu ongeyongqingili ngaphandle?
Okokuqala, zithengele iingubo zangaphantsi ezitshatileyo! Myeke bambalwa kakhulu abantu kwaye nibone, kodwa oko kukuzithemba kuzo kuya kuvuka. Yiyiphi esizama ukuyenza.
Emva koko vula ikhamera uze uyitshekishe. Zonke izinto ozithenge ixesha elidlulileyo, okanye nje ungagqoki ixesha elide, thumela ngokukhawuleza kwinqwelo. Iinqaba zokuhlala kufuneka zihlaziywe kwakhona kwaye ngaphezu kwesigamu ukuthumela kwindawo yokulahla. Ukufikelela kwisifundo ngasinye kwisigqobo sambatho sinzima kakhulu. Ukujonga kwisibuko, buza: "Ngaba le nto ingenza ndixhomekeke? Yiyiphi impawu egxininisayo? "Ukuba uhlala unganeliseki ngempendulo yakho, le nto sele isilungiselele, kwaye ilungele ukunika iingubo ezintsha.
Emva koko uye kwi-salon, uhlaziya kwakhona iinwele zakho kwaye usebenzise iinkonzo zomculi ozenzayo. Khumbula ukuba yiyiphi ipelule ayisebenzisayo ukusebenzisa i-makeup, yiziphi iindlela azisebenzisayo, njl. Olu lwazi oluya kuyimfuneko, xa uza kusasa ekuseni (qwa lasela igama "wonke umntu") yenza ngokwakho ukwakheka. Nika ubuncinane imizuzu eyi-10 ngemini, eli xesha liwanele ukwenza i-daytime up-up. Kwaye, ke, khangela ukunyameka kwakho kunye nokumamatheka-kwaye bonke abantu baya kuphendukela kuwe.