Ubomi obuvuthayo, uzama ukufumana zonke izinto ezinokuzicingela, unako ukufumana ixesha, kodwa umbuzo wokuphila ubomi usenokufuna iimpendulo.
Indlela yokukhokelela indlela efanelekileyo yokuphila?
Ukujongana nale ngxaki, kuyimfuneko ukucacisa oko sithethayo ngombono "ngendlela efanelekileyo yobomi". Ngaloo nto kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ukuba akukho myalelo wendalo yonke, ngamnye kuthi ngumntu, yingakho wonke umntu unendlela yakhe.Kumntu, ubomi obulungileyo kukugcina imithetho yokuphila ngendlela enempilo. Kwaye into efanelekileyo - unokufumana uvuyo ebomini kuphela ngokuba nomzimba onempilo, kwaye sinamandla okuwugcina. Ngoko, yintoni omele uyenze ukuze ugcine impilo ephilileyo?
- Umgaqo wokuqala uyondlo olufanelekileyo, ngaphandle kokutya okukhawulezileyo, iziphulo, i-carbonated kunye neziyobisi ezinxilisayo, ezininzi zokutya okuthosiweyo kunye namafutha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokufanelekileyo, ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo ukutya "okuyingozi", kodwa kunzima kakhulu, ngoko ngezinye iinkhathi unako ukuzibhokoxa ngeyommy oyithandayo.
- Ingongoma elandelayo kukugcinwa kwinqanaba eliphezulu lomsebenzi. Ungayihoxisi imidlalo, ukuhamba, ukubeka endaweni ehleli kufuphi neTV okanye ikhomputha yokuphumla.
- Imikhwa emibi nayo ayihambisani nendlela yokuphila enempilo.
- Kufuneka ukuba uhambelane nolawulo oluchanekileyo losuku-i-8 iiyure zokulala, ngelixa ufanele ufunde ukuvuka ngaphandle kwe-alamu - kuya kuthetha ukuba ulele.
- Isisindo esiphezulu asihambelani nendlela yokuphila enempilo, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuyilahla.
- Indlela yokuphila enempilo ayithethi ukunyamekela, ukuzithanda nokuzinyamekela.
- Kungcono ukuba ufake isicelo sokuphunyezwa kwengcamango yakho yodwa, kodwa kwinkampani.
Ubomi obuhle
Kodwa indlela yokuphila enempilo ayiniki umntu wonke impendulo kumbuzo wokuphila. Abanye abantu bafaka ingcamango yokuphila okulula kwintsimi yefilosofi. Akwanele ukuba abantu abanjalo babe nomzimba omncinane kunye nomsebenzi ohlawulwa kakuhle, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bafumane indlela efanelekileyo ebomini. Kule meko, abantu baqala ukuba banomdla kwiimfundiso ezahlukahlukeneyo zefilosofi nezenkolo, bathanda i-esotericism, baya kwii-training. Konke oku kunokunceda ukufumana olo lwazi, olungenalo ubomi obupheleleyo. Kubalulekile nje ukuba ungabi ngumtshatsheli wokufundisa, ukukwazi ukuthabatha kuphela okusanhlamvu okususela apho. Ngokomzekelo, phantse zonke iinkolo zehlabathi zithetha ngesidingo sokubonakalisa ububele kunye nokuhlonipha ummelwane wakho, kodwa ezinye i "gurus" zithi oku kufuneka kwenziwe kuphela kubantu "bokholo" lwabo, kubo bonke abangenako ukuphathwa ngolo hlobo. Yintoni efanelekileyo kuyo, uyaziqonda wena.
Okokuthi, kuyadingeka ukuba ungaboni isicwangciso esibhaliweyo somntu kwaye ulandele ngamaphuzu, kodwa usebenze ngesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ebomini.
Indlela yokwenza isicwangciso sobomi ngokuchanekileyo?
Kodwa ingqiqo kunye neengcamango ezingacacanga zefilosofi aziwaniki wonke umntu ithuba lokujonga injongo efanelekileyo ebomini. Ngako-ke abadumi befuna ukuzakhela ubomi babo, bafuna ukwazi indlela yokuyilungisa kakuhle, bafuna isicwangciso sobomi esilungiselelwe iminyaka emininzi ngaphambili, okuya kulandelwa. Ekucwangciseni, akukho nto iphosakeleyo, ngaphandle kokuba ukuzaliseka kwesi sicwangciso kuba yinjongo yakho ebalulekileyo ebomini. Kungenxa yokuba ukugqithisa kwiileta zamaphepha kunye namanani, ubeka umngcipheko wokulahleka into ebaluleke kakhulu, ukunikezela okuthakazelisayo kunye neemeko ezixhamlayo. Kodwa masibuyele kwisicwangciso sobomi, singakwenza njani?
- Khetha ixesha elihle, kodwa ungaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-10.
- Chaza kwiindawo zobomi oko ufuna ukukufezekisa kumzuzwana othile. Qala ngobomi bomntu siqu: ufuna ukutshata kwaye ube nezingane ezimbini, ufuna ukuhlala "ngumculi wamahhala" ongathembisi nto kumntu, uphupha ukufumana iqabane elingunaphakade ngaphandle kwemithwalo yomtshato.
- Cinga ngempilo, ufuna ukuphucula imeko yakho okanye ugcine oko unakho.
- Umsebenzi. Bhala oko uzibona ngokwakho ngeli xesha: intloko yesebe, intloko yenkampani yakho,
ufuna ukukhuthazwa. - ZeMali. Chaza ukuba yeyiphi inqanaba lomvuzo onokuthi ube nalo ngelo xesha, ekubeni ukucwangcisa ixesha elide, ngoko (phambi kolwazi loqoqosho), wenze isichibiyelo kwimali yokunyuka kwamaxabiso okanye (ngokungabikho kolwazi olunjalo) kubonisa imali engenayo kwimali. Ngokomzekelo, "Ndifuna umvuzo oya kuba ngokwaneleyo kwiimfuno zansuku zonke, kunye nokuzonwabisa ondiyisebenzisayo."
Emva kokuqulunqa isicwangciso esinjalo, zibeke iinjongo eziphakathi - ezintandathu ezintandathu, unyaka, iminyaka emihlanu. Bhala phantsi iinjongo kummandla ngamnye. Emva kokuqulunqa isicwangciso, kufuneka sibekwe kakuhle (xhoma) kwindawo evelele kwaye uphumelele iinjongo njengoko zifikelela kuzo.