Umxholo wokunyamezela uvela kwizwi lomonde. Ukunyamezela ukuphatha ngokuhlonipha ezinye iimbono zabantu, iingxelo kunye neembono, ukuthatha iindidi ezahlukeneyo zokuzibonakalisa kunye nokubonakaliswa kwabantu ngabanye. Olu hlobo lokunyamezela akusiyo kuphela imfanelo yokuziphatha yabo bonke abantu abakhululekileyo, kodwa kunye neemfuno zomthetho. Iingcamango ezingapheliyo bubungqina bokuba kukho imigaqo yentando yesininzi kuluntu.
Imizekelo yokunyamezela inokufumaneka kwiBhayibhile, kuba ukunyamezela ebuKristwini kuthathwa njengenye yezinto ezilungileyo. Ukunyamezela kuphela abantu abaqeqeshwayo kunye nabaqeqeshiweyo, ingakumbi abaculi kunye nabaculi, amanani karhulumente. Umgangatho ophezulu wokunyamezela ungabonakaliswa ngxelo enjengokuthi "kuyamnandi ukunxibelelana nalo mntu", "abameli beli hlanga bahlala behle abantu". Iinkcazo ezinje ezifana "Ndimthiyile lo mntu", "Ndiyacaphukisa ngenxa yobukho bakhe", "Andiyi kuphila kwindlu enye njengomYuda", njl njl., Unokufakazela ukungabi nenyameko.
Ingxaki yokunyamezela kukuba abantu abangafundanga bajwayele ukuyiqwalasela ngokunyanisekileyo, ukuvuma okanye ukunyaniseka, ukwamkelwa ngokholo lweenkolelo zabanye. Enyanisweni, le ngcamango ayinanto, kuba ukunyamezela kubaluleke kakhulu ngombono wehlabathi ngamehlo omntu okhululekileyo.
Uqeqesho lokunyamezela
Kubalulekile ukubeka imigaqo-siseko yokubekezela kwihlabathi ukususela ebuntwaneni, ngoko ke indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuphucula lo mgangatho uphuhliswa. Inkqubo enjalo yemfundo kufuneka iqale ngokuchazwa kweenkululeko eziqhelekileyo kunye namalungelo. Ukwenza oku, kubalulekile ukuba umgaqo-nkqubo wezemfundo karhulumente uncedise ekuphuculeni ukuqonda kunye nokunyamezela kwiinkalo zentlalo, inkcubeko kunye nenkolo, ekubeni inkqubo yokufundisa ubuntu obunxilisayo ayixhomekeke ngokungenakulinganiswa nokuphuhliswa kokunyamezela kwimeko.
Imfundo ngomoya wesimo sengqondo esinyamezelayo kufuneka ifake ulutsha ezinye izakhono zokucinga kunye neendlela zokumisela izigwebo ezisusela kwimilinganiselo yokuziphatha yonke. Ubuntu obubekezelayo abukhuthazeli ukuphulwa kwezinto ezisisiseko zoluntu kunye namalungelo oluntu angundoqo angabonakali. Imfundo yinto ephezulu yempembelelo yokunganyamezelani kuluntu.
Izinto zokunyamezela
Izinto zokuziphatha komntu obekezelayo:
- inhlonipho ngombono womnye umntu;
- Ukunyamezela kubantu abanezinye izimvo ebomini;
- nesimo sengqondo esibi malunga nokuphelisa.
Ukuphambana nokunyamezela kunokulandelwa ngokungakhangeli imigaqo yayo, njengokunyamezela nokuhlonipha.
Ukunyamezela
- Ukunyamezela ukuxhomekeka. Kuboniswe kubudlelwane bomntu kubantu abakujikelezile - abahlali, izihlobo, abatshatileyo.
- Ukunyamezela ngokuqhelekileyo. Ibonakaliswa ngokumalunga nomntu kunye neentlobo zobuntu - iqela elithile labantu
kuye, intlalo yoluntu, ubuzwe. - Ukunyamezela ngokubambisana. Ibonakaliswe ngokumalunga nomntu kubaxhasi okanye abasebenzi, abameli bobugcisa babo.
Ukubaluleka kokunyamezela akukwazi ukuphazamiseka, kuba kukubonga ukuba sinokuphatha ngokuhlonipha nokuqonda iimpawu zenkcubeko yezinye iintlanga. Ukunyamezela okusenza sikwazi ukunyanga kunye nokwamkela abantu abalinganayo nabangavumelaniyo, kungekhona nje ukuba sibe neembono zethu kwinto ethile, kodwa nokuvumela amanye amalungu omphakathi ukuba abe nembono.