Umbuzo wokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe ikusasa, ukukhathazeka ngabantu bexesha elidala. Namhlanje, akusikho wonke umntu okholelwa ukuba yonke into isiphethweni esiphezulu, kodwa xa kukho iingozi ezininzi ezinokusola, abantu abambalwa abayi kucinga ukuba oku kuphephekiyo. Ukuba sithatha ngokungathandekiyo ukuba ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ebomini bethu zisacwangciselwa ngaphambili, kusekho umbuzo wokutshintsha indlela okuyiyo? Emva koko, akusoloko ikhona, iyakwazi ukuhambelana nomntu.
Ungayitshintsha njani i-future for better?
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu unomlutha kumicimbi yansuku zonke ukuba uyalibala ngokupheleleyo apho uya khona. Kwaye ngexesha apho aqala ukuzibona khona kwakhona, kukho kwakhona ukuqonda ukuba ubomi akukho konke afuna ukukubona.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba i-destin yakho ayiyi kukhula njengoko ungathanda, zama ukuhlalutya le meko kumacala athile:
- Ufikile njani oko?
- Yiyiphi engafanelekanga?
- Ungalungisa njani into engafanelekanga kuwe?
- Ngaba unganeliseki ngolu hlobo lunye lobomi?
- Yintoni oyenzile ukutshintsha imeko?
Njengomthetho, umbuzo wokugqibela uyintloko. Ukuba ubomi bakho abukufanelanga, kwaye uyayiqonda nje, kodwa awuzange wenze nantoni na eyenzekayo - uhamba ngendlela engafanelekanga. Ukuze ufumane into entsha, kufuneka uthabathe amanyathelo amasha.
Abaninzi baphikisana malunga nendlela amandla okucinga aguqula ngayo iinjongo. Nangona kunjalo, ingcamango kule ngxaki ingakunceda ukuba wenze ezinye izenzo ezokukunceda utshintshe yonke into, kwaye ke yonke into ishintsha utshintsho lwezenzo!
Ukuba awuyithandi umsebenzi wakho - khangela enye entsha. Ukuba ucinga ukuba italente yakho ishiywe ngaphandle kwegama elifanelekileyo, khangela indlela yokuxelela abantu malunga nayo.
Ungatshintsha njani isiphephelo kunye nothando?
Abantu abaninzi abanobudlelwane obunzima baqinisekile - esi siphelo sibazisa kunye nomntu othile. Kodwa ukuba uyaphawula ukuba ulungiswe kumlingane omnye, ubuhlobo bakhe abukwazi ukufumana izizathu ezininzi, cingisisa ngawo-mhlawumbi lo ngumqondiso ukuba kufuneka uthabathe isiphephelo sakho kwisandla sakho uze uwuphelise?
Ukuze uthando lwakho lunike unonwabo , musa ukuzivumela ukuba uthandane nabani na. Gcina intliziyo yakho kwisitshixo, ungavumeli abantu abangaphezulu kuyo. Oku kulula kakhulu kunokunyamezela inkxalabo eninzi kwizizathu zothando.