Kubonakala kulungile-ikhaya, intsapho, umsebenzi, kodwa into enokuzonwabisa ngokupheleleyo ayanele, ngoko yintoni? Mhlawumbi i-hobby yinto yokuzilibazisa eya kukunceda ukhululeke emsebenzini kwaye uhlawule kwiimpawu ezintsha? Kodwa ungayifumana njani indlela yokuzonwabisa, kwaye yiyiphi na into yokuzilibazisa?
Ungayifumana njani indlela yokuzonwabisa?
Ucinga malunga nento enokuyenza ngexesha lokuzonwabisa? Awunayo nayiphi na into yokuzonwabisa? Oku akukwenzekayo, umntu uhlawula zonke iincwadi zokufunda zamahhala (konke ulandelelwano okanye isiqendu esithile), umntu uthanda ukufunda izithako ezintsha zokutya, umntu uthatha umsebenzi wabo ukuzama zonke imidlalo zekhompyutha. Ngaba unomsebenzi onjalo onokukukholisa? Ukuba kukho, ke akudingeki ukuba uxhalabele - nantsi ke, ukuzonwabisa kwakho.
Ukuba le nto ayifumananga, kufuneka ucinge ngoluhlobo luni lokuzonwabisa onokuyenza. Kule nto kufuneka ukhumbule oko ungathanda ukukwenza. Musa nje ukucinga ukuba awunalo italente, khumbula, njengomntwana, uphendule umbuzo othi "unokwenza ntoni na?" Ngoluhlu lweetalente. Awakwazi ukuphela.
Ukuba iinkumbulo azikho nto, ke fumana ukuba yiziphi izinto ezithandwayo ngabahlobo bakho. Mhlawumbi ibali labo liyakukukhuthaza ukuba ufumane inzondo efanayo. Bona i-sasazo apho kuxelwa ukuba yeyiphi intlonipho. Ngokomzekelo, ngoku ufumana ukugqweswa ukuhlobisa izinto zezitrato ngokuzibopha ngentambo ebomvu yoboya (i-Urban Knittig). Mhlawumbi uya kuba nomdla kwinto engavamile.
Ziziphi ezinye izinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa?
Ukuchonga uhlobo luni lokuzonwabisa onokuyenza, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ziphi. Mhlawumbi, olu luhlu luncedo kuwe xa ukhetha intshiseko yakho.
- Ukuzilibazisa okusebenzayo. Oku kubandakanya iiklasi kuyo nayiphi na imidlalo, ukusuka epakini ukuya kumdaniso webhola. Ukufanelekela abo bafuna ukuzigcina besemgangathweni imeko kwaye bakhethe ukuhamba ngeveki elele embhedeni.
- Iswele. Eli candelo libandakanya izinto ezininzi zokuzonwabisa. Oku kukhonkxiweyo, ukudweba kweenkuni, ukucoca, ukuthwebula iifoto, ukusika, njl. Ezi ntlobo zezinto ezithandwayo zifanelekile kwabo bafuna ukuthula okufutshane emva kweveki yomsebenzi onzima. Nayiphi na imisebenzi yezandla iyancipha, ewe, ukuba uyayithanda ngokwenene umsebenzi. Ngaphandle koko, akukho nto ngaphandle kokudumala ayiyi kufumana.
- Ukupheka. Ixesha elihle lokuziloba ngumbuzo wento yokupheka isidlo, kunokuba baphathwe ngabahlobo, abaxhasi kwabo banomdla wokuzonwabisa. Musa ukucinga ukuba le nto iqhelekileyo, akukho mntu uyanceda ukuba upheke ama-borschtes aneengqungquthela (nangona unako ukuqokelela iindlela zokupheka ezihlukeneyo kule ndawo, khetha okulungileyo okanye uzakhele ngokwakho, kukhangeleka kakhulu), thabatha isifundo sekhefu lelizwe.
- Ukuqokelela. Nantsi bonke abaqokeleli abaziwayo beempawu, amabheji, amabhonkco, iimali zemali kunye namagnetti kwifriji. Ekuboneni kokuqala akukho nzuzo enje kwesi sifundo, kwaye indawo yokuqokelela iyadingeka. Kodwa kukho enye inkumbulo yokuqokelela kunye ne-erudition, - abantu banokuxelela iingqokelela zabo ixesha elide nangomdla. Kwakhona kukho ithuba lokuthetha kunye "nabaqokeleli" abafanayo.
- Ukuzihlaziya. Mhlawumbi, ukuphucula ngokwabo akunakubizwa ngokuba yinto yokuzilibazisa, kodwa kusekho izinto ezininzi zokuzonwabisa ezidibeneyo. Le yimizimba ye-physiognomy, kunye neenkwenkwezi, kunye nokusombulula iipuzzles crossword, nokufunda, nokunye okuninzi.
Luhlobo luni lokuzonwabisa oluzisa imali?
Ukukhangela i-hobby, siyaqonda ukuba kuya kufuneka isetyenziswe kuyo. Kwaye ndifuna ukuzalisa uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali ngoncedo lwe-hobby! Ngaba yinto yokuzilibazisa ongayifumana? Kwaye nakweyiphi na into, into ephambili, ukuba iziqhamo zomsebenzi wakho zazifanelekile, zaphumelela nabantu. Umzekelo, uthanda imveli yasempumalanga - ukutya, amasiko, izithethe, ulwimi. Ufunde, uthi, isiJapan. Ngoko kukuthintela ntoni ekunikezeni iinkonzo zakho njengenguquliki? Kwaye ngoko unokwenza phantse yonke into yokuzonwabisa, kubaluleke kakhulu - ukukholelwa kuwe.