Abantu baseSpitfire bavame ukwenza ubomi bunzima kubo nakwabanye. Nayiphi na imeko engayi kumelana nokuphendula okunjalo ingakhokelela umntu ngaphandle kwayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuvutha komsindo kubandakanya ukuziphatha okungapheliyo, ukukrakra, ukutshutshisa, ukunyusa ... Emva koko kuba nzima kakhulu ukuthetha nabantu abasondeleyo, abahlobo, oogxa. Ufumana idumela lomntu ongenalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akunakulungile nantoni na, kokubili kumsebenzi wakho nakubomi bakho. Kwaye kuba yingxaki enkulu yentlalo.
Indlela yokujongana nomsindo?
Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, kubalulekile ukuqonda izizathu zentliziyo emfutshane. Naluphi na ukubonakaliswa kwanoma yimuphi umvakalelo womntu uthetha indlela yokusabela kwinkqubo yenzwa kwizinto ezenzekayo. Ngaloo ndlela, ukubonakaliswa kokungazinzi kwiingxelo, ukuqhuma ngokukhawuleza kwengqumbo nokuziphatha okungonelanelekiyo kubangelwa ukukhathazeka kweentloni.
Ukuba iimpendulo ezinjalo zibe yindlela yakho yobomi, umsebenzi wakho uhambelana noxinzelelo kwaye uqaphele ukuba impawu zakho zitshintshile kakhulu kunokuba zingcono - akuyi kuba nzima ukubonisana neengcali. Unokufuna ukuphilisa ukukhawuleza, uthathe nayiphina imithi, ngokukhethekileyo yemvelaphi yemifuno.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awuzange uqaphele ukuphazamiseka okunjalo kwangaphambili, kwaye ngoku ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo kukugqithise ngokuphindaphindiweyo - kukufanelekile ukucinga ngokuphumla, ukwenza okuthandayo. Emva koko kukho ukuphakama okuphezulu ukuba wena kunye neemeko zakho zemoya ziza kubuyela ngokuqhelekileyo ngokukhawuleza.
Khumbula ukuba ukuba uyayiqonda ingxaki - ukunqoba loo mzekelo nje ngokuba ukukhawuleza kunokwenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde indlela yokuhlalutya imeko, jonga ukusuka ngaphandle ukuya kwinto eyenzekayo, ukufumana izigqibo. Ukwenza oku, kwintetho kwanele ukuthatha ixesha elifutshane, ukubala ngokwengqondo ukuya ezintlanu kwaye uthathe ukuphefumula okumbalwa - ukuphuma kwe-oksijini engqondweni kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kwaye kulula ukuba ucinge. Ngenxa yoko, ingqondo ikhona ngaphezu kwemvakalelo kwaye uphendule ngokufanelekileyo imeko ngaphandle kwemiphumo engadingekile.
Ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo ukutshisa, mhlawumbi, akunakwenzeka, kodwa ukunciphisa ukubonakaliswa kwayo, kubalulekile ukubandakanyeka ekukhuseleni. Oko kukuthi, velisa imizwa engakhiyo. Isisombululo esihle siza kuba yimidlalo, mhlawumbi ngokusebenza komzimba. Oku kuya kunceda ukuphelisa uxinzelelo olungadingekile. Mane ufumane ukulala ngokwaneleyo kwaye ungalibali ukufumana iimvakalelo ezintle: phuma kwindawo, yenza izinto zokuzonwabisa, uhambe, ulalele umculo omnandi, ufunde iincwadi zakho ezizithandayo.
Kwaye, okubaluleke kakhulu, ziphathe ngokuqonda kunye nabanye, ngoko kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uphile.