Ukuguqulwa kweengqondo kukunye wemisebenzi ebalulekileyo yehlabathi lentlalontle. Kuya kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi: iimfuno ezibekwa phambili ngendalo yakho, iintlobo zokhuseleko lwengqondo olwenzayo, iimpawu ngamnye.
Okuchasene nokuguqulwa kwengqondo kukungonakali komntu, kubonakaliswe ngenxa yokuphuhliswa kokuqala kokungalunganga okanye umthwalo wokunyanzelisa uxinzelelo.
Iimpawu zengqondo zengqondo
Ukuguqulwa kwengqondo kwincinci yesimo sengqondo sempilweni ngamnye wethu. Iimbangela zeengxaki ze-psyche zivela, ngokuqhelekileyo, ngenxa yekhono elingagqithwanga ukulungelelanisa. Xa uvakalelwa kukuba unobunzima ngale nto, useburhulumenteni, ngamanye amaxesha kuphela indlela eqinisekileyo yokulungisa indlela yakho yokuziphatha.
Ukuguqulwa kwengqondo kuyahluke kwimpumelelo yokuphila. Ngoko, xa sibhekene nokungaphumeleli, masithi, ngokuwa, oku akuthethi ukuba unengxaki yokulungelelanisa. Emva koko, akuzona zonke iimfuno zomntu onokuziphucula.
Iintlobo zesimo seengqondo
- Ulungelelaniso loluntu (uluntu-uluntu).
- Ubuchwephesha, ezihlobene nemisebenzi yomntu ngamnye.
- I-socio-yengqondo, ibonakaliswe ekusebenziseni iimbopheleleko zakho zentlalo: umphathi oqinileyo, umama onothando, umfazi onothando, njalonjalo.
Ukuchithwa kweengqondo kunye noluntu
Ukukwazi ukulungelelanisa kunokuphuculiswa, kwandiswe, kuxoxisana nabantu abavela kumaqela ahlukeneyo asekuhlaleni, kunye neembono zehlabathi ezahlukeneyo, ukuphuhlisa izakhono zabo zokunxibelelana.
Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukutshintsha iindima zentlalo oyisebenzisayo. Khumbula ukuba ukuphumelela kwalokhu akuxhomekeki kwinani labo, kodwa malunga nokuba uyisebenzisa kangakanani ngokufanelekileyo.