Ukudandatheka ... Eli gama liyazi ukuba baninzi kuthi, xa ungafuni ukwenza nantoni na, ungakuvuyela oko kwakubangelwa ngaphambili yimvakalelo, kwaye ubomi bulahlekelwa intsingiselo yayo. Ngexesha lokubanda kwexesha elibandayo, xa lingasebenzi emsebenzini, kwaye ubudlelwane kunye nezihlobo azikhuthazi, akusona isono sokuwela ekuphelelwe lithemba, kodwa eli lizwe liyadlula ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kulabo abangazi ukuba benzeni ukuba awufuni ukuhlala, kuyafaneleka ukufunda le nqaku ekupheleni.
Umsebenzi wezobugcisa
Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuhlala kuyo, ukuba awufuni, kulungile ukukhumbula uMunchhausen, owakhupha ngaphandle kwamanzi ngeenwele zakhe. Okanye i-frog, ibanjwe kwi-jug ye-ukhilimu omuncu, kwaye ngoko ke ndifuna ukukhwabanisa, ukuba andizange ndizisole ngokubethelwa ukhilimu omuncu, owamncedisa ukuba ndikhulule. Iingcali zengqondo zicetyiswa ukuba ziphume kwintlungu yokudakumba ngeenyawo zazo ngokwezwi lezwi. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka ukwandise umsebenzi wakho wemoto, uhambe ngakumbi, hamba, uthenge ukubhalisa kwiziko okanye kwindawo yokufaneleka. Kutheni umdlalo ukwanda kwezemidlalo? Ngoko ke, kwinkqubo yokuhamba, i-hormone endorphin okanye ihommoni yolonwabo iveliswa.
Uhlalutyo lwento eyenzekayo
Ukuxinezeleka nokungafuni ukuhlala, kuya kuba kuhle ukuhlalutya imeko ekhokelela kulo, kwaye ungabuyi kuphinda uphendule iimpazamo ezinjalo kwixesha elizayo. Ngaba bahlawula imali enkulu ebhankini? Ngoko uhlala ngaphaya kweendlela kwaye kufuneka ulungelelanise izicelo. Ukushiya othandekayo? Ngoko, kwakukho isizathu kwaye into ethile yamphoqa ukuba ahambe. Kuyafaneleka ukuhlaziya ukuziphatha kwakho nokuziphatha ngokuhlukileyo kwiintsebenziswano ezintsha. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, yonke into iboneke kwicala elihle ngokunjalo. Inkokhelo yemali ingabonakali inkulu njengoko kwakusenkundleni, kwaye xa uqala ukusebenza kunye neqela elibomvu, uya kusinika ngokukhawuleza. Umntu othandekayo uye washiya, kodwa ngaba wayemhle kakhulu, mhlawumbi ubuhlobo sele buphelile?
Uluhlu lweengxaki
Ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni ungafuni ukuphila, kuyafaneleka ukuqala ukusombulula le ngxaki. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zifumane abo zibi ngakumbi kwaye ziqale ukubanceda. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uvolontiya kwaye uvuyise iindwendwe zamakhaya akhubazekile, iintandane. Musa ukuhamba kude, kuba ungadinga uncedo kummelwane omdala, umntakwabo abangafumani ulwimi olufanayo nabazali babo, kunye nonina okanye uyise.
Xa ungafuni ukuhlala nonke, ungaya emsebenzini kunye nentloko yakho-iyaphazamisa kakhulu kwiingcinga ezibuhlungu. Umoya uya kukwandiswa xa ufumana inani le-N-th lemali kunye nomsebenzi onokuzivuza ngawo uhambo oluya kwi-spa, uhambo oluya kwi-resort, kunye nokuthenga okulula kwento yangasese entsha. Ubungenako emphefumlweni buzaliswa yimvakalelo kunye nokubonakala kwezinto ezithandwayo, izinto ezithandwayo , njl njl Ukuba kukho iphupha, ngoku lixesha lokuliphumeza.
Into eyona nto kukuqonda ukuba ubomi banikwa kanye kwaye kuyisidenge ukuyinquma ngokukhawuleza. Emva koko, nokuba yintoni eyenzekayo, iyaqhubeka, kwaye akukho namnye owaziyo ukuba sisilindele ntoni ngokujikeleza. Mhlawumbi kusasa ithikithi yelottery inokungena kwaye kuya kunokwenzeka ukuxazulula iingxaki zakho zezinto ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye abo baphuphayo uthando basele balinde ukuphela kwabo,
Ubomi akunakulinganiswa kwaye lukulungiselela izinto ezintle kangangokuba kuya kuba sisono sokubagatya kwaye ungaboni ukuba kwenzekani ngomso. Kubalulekile ukufumana ubuncinane esinye isizathu sokuhlala kweli hlabathi. Umzekelo, abantwana. Le ngxabano enamandla, ingakumbi kumama. Ukuze zikhule, ukunika uqale ebomini ngumsebenzi oyintloko kunye noxanduva lomzali ngamnye. Ukuqhuba abantu bakudala kwihlabathi elihlukile kwaye ubanike umvuzo kwizinto abazenzayo.