Abafazi banamhlanje badinga ukuba bathathe inyathelo ezandleni zabo, kwaye akunandaba nomsebenzi okanye othandweni. Ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala malunga nolwalamano nomntu namhlanje kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo kwisigamu esilungileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kwinkqubo yokuwina abakhethiweyo, abaninzi abafazi benza iimpazamo kwaye, endaweni yokufikelela kwindawo yayo, bafezekanga kuphela kwidilesi yabo. Yingakho amantombazana enomdla anomntu onokuthandana nomfana aze athathele ingqalelo yakhe kwaye athembele.
Ungayinqoba njani umntu?
Ngoko, kukho iindlela ezilula eziza kukunceda ukuba uthandane nomfana:
- Jonga ukubonakala kwakho . Amadoda ngokuyinhloko ayithobela ingqalelo kwintokazi yembhinqo, agqoke ngongcamango, kodwa engabonakali.
- Ukuzifunda . Ukuba uzimisele ukulwa nobudlelwane obunzulu, khumbula, amadoda ayithandi "i-dummy", ngoko uzama ukuba ngumhlobo we-erudite.
- Bonisa umdla kumntu . Umfana uya kuxabisa kakhulu xa ebona umdla wakho ngokunyanisekileyo kwimisebenzi yakhe yokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi, njl.
- Yifumaneki . Ukuba umhla wokuqala uphela embhedeni, ngoko, mhlawumbi, inzala yomfana kuwe iyanyamalala ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ukuba ungavumeli ukuthanda kwakho okungafaniyo, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kumdla.
- Yiba ngumhlobo othembekileyo . Ukuba ungumhlobo oyinyaniso kumntu, owamqondayo, uyamkhathalela, ulungele ukukunceda ngeengcebiso kwaye uphulaphule, ukuba kuyimfuneko, uya kuphumelela kuye, ube ngumntu osondeleyo, kwaye ubuhlobo obunobungane bunokukhula ngakumbi.
Ngendlela, amantombazana abanomdla wokunqoba umntu owayengumntu, la macebiso aya kunceda, xa usuyazi kakuhle umfana ngokufanelekileyo, ukhetho lwakhe, umlingiswa , intando, njl njl. Into ephambili akuyikuba yinto engapheliyo kwaye ulinde ixesha elithile, kuba emva kokuhlukana kufuneka "uphumule" encinci. Emva kwenyanga okanye ngaphezulu koko unokwenza.