Ukumemeza kubhekisela kubonakaliso lwangaphandle lwenzondelelo eyenziwa ngumntu ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ngabantu abathandekayo. Ngezo zonke iintlukwano ezikhoyo kwiinkcubeko, ukuziphatha, indlela yokuphila kunye nesimo sengqondo sokufa, izizwana eziintlobo ezahlukeneyo zineendlela eziqhelekileyo zokulila. Ukongezelela kokulila, imithandazo, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuthintela nokuziyeka, ukulila kubonakala kwiingubo. EYurophu, kukho into enje into yokulila. Ewe, intlungu yenza umntu alityale malunga nazo zonke izinto zangaphandle, kodwa emva koko, umkhosi womngcwabo usafuna into yokugqoka. Kwaye kufuneka kubonakale ngathi, ngokulandelanayo.
Kwenzeka ngokusemthethweni kwintsimi yamazwe aseYurophu naseAsia, ukuba umbala ogqithisileyo ochaza indlela yokutya ngumnyama . Izambatho ezikhethiweyo zokuya emkhosini wokuhlaselwa kunye nomntu ofileyo kufuneka zihlukaniswe ngokuthozama, ukuzithiba, ukulula. Izambatho kunye neengubo ze-cut cut length midi okanye ii-maxi, iingubo ezivulekileyo kunye neengubo kunye ne-turtlenecks zifaneleke kakhulu kule njongo, kodwa kumfanekiso wesifa omnye kufuneka ube khona. Kuthe malunga nenqabunga, intloko ekhanda , inqabunga okanye isikhala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abasetyhini basebenzisa le ndlela yokugqibela. I-kerchief yokulila yabesifazane iyimpawu ebalulekileyo. Ngokukodwa ukuba ngaba malunga nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo bomfi. Eli nqaku liyimbopheleleko kwaye ngethuba lokungcwaba (ecaweni okanye ekhaya - akunandaba). I-kerchief yesiko ihambelana neemfuno ezibekwa phambili kwisithombe sokulila. Ukongezelela, eli nqaku liphelisa isidingo sokulungisa iinwele, kuba kubachaphazela kubonwa njengobonakaliso bokutya, kwaye kumngcwabo akufanelekanga.
Iintlobo zokulila
Kufuneka kuphawulwe ngokukhawuleza ukuba inkolo yobuKristu ayifaki phambili iimfuno ezithile zeentloko. Umfazi ngamnye unikwe ilungelo lokukhetha ngokukhululekileyo, ekuqwalaseleni inkcazo, isimo sangaphakathi kunye nesifiso. Ukutshintsha kwendabuko yinqaba yokulila yombala omnyama ukusuka kwintsimbi eguquguqukayo okanye i-lace dense. Kukho umthetho ongabonakaliyo obonisa ukuba ubuninzi bezinto ezifakwe kuyo umngcwabo kufuneka kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lomhlobo walo nomntu ofileyo. Ephakamileyo, i-denser. Nangona kunjalo, abasetyhini abangaqhelekanga, abo balapho emngcwabeni ngokungahambi kakuhle (ukuhambelana, ukuhamba ngokunyanzeliso, njalonjalo), unxibe iindawo zokumisa ezinye imibala. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho nto ingathethi malunga neefayili ezicatshulwayo, kodwa umnyama omnyama, umbala obomvu, obomvu okanye obomvu awufanele ugugu. Ukungafani neefowuni zokulila iifestile kunye neepateni eziqhelekileyo zombala oqaqambileyo, kodwa ukushicilelwa okuthulileyo komthunzi othuliweyo kuvunyelwa ukuba kuvumelana ngokuvisisana nomngcwabo.
Iintlobo eziqhelekileyo zezixhobo apho kuthungwa khona iindawo zokulila zi-chiffon, i-lace, i-satin kunye nekotoni. Ezi zambatho ngexesha lomngcwabo zitsalisa abanye abantu abazikhangeli. Ngokuphambene noko, loo mhlobiso uzalisa umfanekiso kunye nobuhle kunye nentlungu. Umnyama omnyama osila usondela kuyo nayiphi na imifanekiso, ngoko ke ithathwa njengento yonke. Ibhinqa limele lihlale litshintshi kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ngoko ke, ukuhlobisa kwesikravu ngohlobo lweempapasho eziprintiweyo kumbala omnyama, iipringe, umgca ogqityiweyo okanye umgubo wendwangu yokuvuthwa kuvunyelwe. Ngaphandle kokungabikho kwezinto zegolide nezesilivere, ukugqithwa kwemibala efanayo, ukuboshwa kwisibalo, jonga i-laconic, ingabonakali.
Ukuba uceba ukugcina isijwili ixesha elide, kufuneka ukhethe i-kerchief engasayi kuhlamba ukuze ilahlekelwe yimbonakalo yayo yangaphambili. Emva kokushiya isijwili, kunconywa ukugcina indawo yokufikelela kwindawo engenakufikeleleka okanye ukuyitshisa. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abafazi banikwe ilungelo lokukhetha kulo mbandela.
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