Ukukhweleka kwamadoda kunye nabasetyhini - iimpawu

Wonke umntu uyazi ibinzana: "Inzondelelo yonke insika, kwaye ngokumalunga nalabo abonakalisa umona ongenomdla, inokuthi ithathwe ngokoqobo. Indlela yokuqonda umntu onengcamango kunye nokuqonda ukuba unobungozi be-Othello's syndrome, okanye akunjalo?

Yintoni ekhweleyo?

Wonke umntu uye waziva le ngxaki ngexesha elide okanye wayeyinto yokuba nomona, kodwa ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba akhulume malunga ne-pathology apha? Ukuba izikhalazo zisekelwe kwisizathu kunye nobubungqina, akukho sizathu sokumangalela umntu ngenxa yokukhanyela ngengqondo - kukho ingxaki ebuhlotsheni, kwaye kuyacaca. Enye into, ukuba umntu onomona uziphosa kwiqabane lakhe ngaphandle kwesizathu kunye nangaphandle kwesizathu kunye nokuqinisekiswa kokungcatsha, uyaqhubeka ecinga ukuba indoda okanye umfazi uyangalunganga kuye.

Kodwa nangona kunjalo xa iqabane lixhamle kwicala, umntu unokuthetha nge-Othello's syndrome, ukuba akukho bubungqina obucacileyo ngaphesheya. Ubukhwele obudalwa ngumzimba luhlobo lwe-schizophrenia - yiloo nto ininzi abaphethwe yingqondo. Yaye inokuthi ilandele phambili ukuphuhliswa kwesi sifo, kwaye ihambe nayo. Ukuziqhelanisa kubonisa ukuba abantu abanezifo ezinjalo zokungcola kuyingozi kwabanye kunye nakwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo bafuna ukuhlala esibhedlele, kuquka ukunyanzeliswa.

Ubukhwele obunempilo - izizathu

Kunzima ukusho oko kwabangela ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo ephosakeleyo. Ukukhweleka kwengqondo yintlupheko yengqondo engayifumana ilifa. Ingxaki yengqondo yengane, eyayitholwa ngumntwana kwintsapho apho unina okanye uyise wayitshintsha rhoqo kwisiqingatha sabo sesibini, kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo enjalo njengokukhuliswa kakubi. Iindidi ezininzi, ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo yizona ntlanzi ezintathu ezisemgangathweni.

Ubukhwele obunempilo kubantu - iimpawu

Ubukhwele besilisa obunempilo bufana nezinto ezinjengabesifazana, kuba ukuphambuka kwengqondo kufumaneka kwizesini zombini. Kodwa kukho impawu ethile, uphawu lwesini esomeleleyo, ngenxa yesini :

1. Ukuziphatha okugqithisileyo okanye okungavumelekanga. Indoda inokumemeza kwaye igijime kwintombazana eneentonga, kunye nomdlali ochasayo.
2. Ukukhweleka kwamadoda kubonakalisa ukugxekwa kunye nokumangalelwa, nangona kukho ubungqina obucacileyo bokungabikho kobungqina bowesifazane. Indoda iya kufumana iphoso apho, kunye neengxoxo ezingenakwenzekayo ziya kuthathwa njengobungqina bokungathembeki kunye nokuzama ukuphaphazela.
3. Ukunciphisa oonxibelelwano kunye nehlabathi langaphandle. Indoda ekhweleyo ayiyi kuvumela umfazi wayo ukuba asebenze, uya kuzibona ixesha apho athembeke khona kwivenkile, kwaye nayiphi na ingxoxo engenamacala kunye nabamelwane baya kuthathwa njengesisusa.

Ubukhwele obunempilo kubasetyhini - iimpawu

Abafazi abanomona ongekho ngaphantsi, kodwa ukusola kwabo kubonisa ngokungafaniyo:

1. Ba landela iqabane labo ukuba bahlolwe ngokwenene - khangela iifowuni kunye neepokethi zengubo, funda uludwe lweefowuni kwifowuni, zibiza ngokuba ngamaxesha amaninzi ngosuku, ubhale i-SMS kwaye usebenza.
2. Ukukhweleka kwamabhinqa kubasetyhini kubonakalisa njengento yokwenqaba ukuthandana.
3. Ukulungelelanisa rhoqo amahlaziyi kunye nokuphanda ngemibuzo ngokuqaphela. Bafuna ukukuxelela indlela imini ehla ngayo ukuya kumzuzu, bafuna ukwazi malunga nento yonke, kwaneenkcukacha ezingabalulekanga, ngoko ukukhweleka komfazi kubonakalisa.

Indlela yokukrazula umona wesifo?

Ngokuqhelekileyo oku akulula ukwenza, kuba indoda enomona ayayiqondi ukuba ingxaki ikhona kuye, kungekhona kumlingane. Unqwenela ukwazi indlela yokujamelana nomona wesifo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngaphandle koncedo lweengcali onokufumanisa uhlobo lwalo mqathango, kunzima ukufumanisa i-psychopathology kunye neempawu zokuxilongwa apha. Iingxaki ezaneleyo zithathwa ingqalelo kwaye iziyobisi ezichasayo kunye nezinye izifo zengqondo zonyulwa zikhethwe ngenxa yoko.

Ukuze uzame ukuhlangabezana ngokuzimela ngokubonakaliswa kobukhwele bokugula, iingcali zengqondo zincoma:

1. Yeka ukuthelekisa nokuxhalabisa iingcamango akusayi kuphinda kukukhathaze. Uthando aluyona impahla, kodwa ulwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi alukho ubudlelwane bokuthengiswa kwempahla, ngoko ungesabi ukuba uphumelele, uhlakaniphile, ulungile kwaye ubone njengokuba usongela ulonwabo.
2. Lahla yonke into ebangela ukuthanda uthando . Abaninzi baye baxolelanisa ukuba lo mkhwele uhlala ebudlelwaneni babo kwaye bengazi ukuba banikela intando yokuba banomdla wokudla. Ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo, amabango kunye nokungathembeki kubonakalisa ubudlelwane obuhambelanayo.
3. Lawula yakho ingcinga . Ukulibaziseka kancinci emsebenzini, kwaye entloko ikhanyisa imifanekiso yokunyaniseka kunye neengcamango ezinjalo, kunzima kunzima ukuzigxotha kunye nokuvavanya imeko.
4. Ukulwa noyiko lwakho . Unganikeli ukuxhalaba okungapheliyo okungaba yi-paranoia. Musa ukudala izikripthi, eziza kuba yi-stencil kwaye apho kuya kuba nzima ukuyilahla.