Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho iimeko ezithile ebomini xa umhlobo, othandekayo ekhubeka aze alahlekelwe yithemba labantu abasondeleyo kuye. Kunzima kakhulu ukuphinda uphinde ubuye ulwalamano lwangaphambili. Isinyathelo sokuqala esibalulekileyo kwisabelo sakho kukuxolela , okwesibini kukufunda ukuthembela kwakhona. Yiyiphi inyathelo enzima kunzima ukuyenza: ukuxolela okanye ukuthembela kuyintlekele enkulu yamanqanaba onke. Ukuqonda ukuxolela, nokuxolela kuthetha ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo, ukubuyela kubuhlobo obudlulileyo, kwaye le yinto enzima kunazo zonke ukuyenza emhlabeni! Indlela yokufunda ukuthembela indoda kwakhona yinto ebalulekileyo efuna inkcazelo ngokukhawuleza!
Indlela yokufunda ukuthembela kumntu okanye umyeni?
Ngoko ukuba awunakuxelelwa ngokungathembeki kwabakhethiweyo, musa ukuphulaphula nabani na. Yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe: ulonwabo kunye nokuthembela ngothandana wakho okanye kumntu ongeyingozi?
Ukukhetha izinto ezilungileyo, iifilimu ezilungileyo. Musa ukubheka uthando oluthembekile, olungonwabi kunye nokungcatshiswa. Kwinqanaba elincinci, nangona uchungechunge lweprayimari luchaza umzekelo wokuziphatha kwakho. Awufuni ukujika ube ngumsindo onomona?
Isizathu esikhulu sokungathembani phakathi kwendoda nomfazi yinto yokuqala yokunxibelelana. Konke kuqala ngento yokuba xa kukho naluphi na ukunganeliseki okanye ukukrokra, umbuzo awubhengeziwe, kodwa uxhomekeke kwiinkcazo ezicacileyo. Iphela kwaye iphelela ngolu hlobo lokuba iingcamango ezithatyathwe ngokukhawuleza zisuka kwi-plafti zixhaswa ngokulinganayo kwaye kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubungqina obungabikho. Le ngxaki yazo zonke izibini. Ukuba ufuna ukutshabalalisa ubudlelwane, funda ukuthembela intanda yakho, ngoko kufuneka uqale ufunde ukuthetha omnye nomnye. Ukuphelisa ukungabikho kokungaqhelekanga, vumela yonke into ibe yinto ecacileyo phakathi kwakho. Tshela uthandekayo wakho nangamabhontshi akho amancinci,
Jabule!